Do people see your sincerity when you are telling the truth?
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13919)
Philippines
May 23, 2009 8:00pm CST
Many times when i am telling some truths about my personal story as to why i don't do those things or why i am in this situation and other story about my experiences , i feel that they believe my reason as they find it hard to believe and have some doubts. I can't blame them cause some of my experiences are not just normal experiences. I mean they are not those traumatic experiences but they are no experiences that are easy and worth being happy with.
I feel if would rather just tell a lie which they would more inclined to believe since they would not believe the truth that they would rather believe it. How do you make people believe the truth when the truth just seems impossible for them to see and believe.
I would admit many times i would believe some or few people but end up realizing they were right from the start. and many times i am sold out to a person but end up realizing he was giving all those lies since the start.
SO what is your story you would want other to see but have difficulty coming across as truth.
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4 responses
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
25 May 09
New Avatar, what is it exactly?
Actually I am a little confused. What is the need for me to convince others on what I am doing or what I am not doing. I dont' drink, I have started and quit smoking many times but when I tell others they dont' belive. Then I give it a thinking that what is the need for others to know about the facts about me. I mean God and I know the truth and that is enoug, isn't it?
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
24 May 09
yes, and i can tell if the person i am talking knows that i am lying.
when i tell a lie, i can't look straight in the eye, my hands shake, and my voice shivers. i also sweat, so i myself know that i am just telling a big lie. i tell lies most of the time but not to the extent that i am guilty of something, i am just trying to hide something about myself. part of me that i don't want anyone else to know.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 May 09
I am a person who believes anything what I hear. When I tell my part of a true confession to anyone I trust the listener believes in my words. I speak sincerely but only to the person that I can trust. I wouldn't want to waste my time confiding to a person who is skeptical to what I say. The warmth and friendliness with which I project my attitudes of calmness and genuine interest toward others are sometimes the barometers of my success in human relations, the extent of that warmth and friendliness determines the strength of people's similar response to me. First I need to win his human nature to my side then it will make him feel that I am working toward his interest. Once you overcome this hurdle every words you say will be taken as bible truth. Be a good listener first and then get yourself heard and convince the other party.
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
30 May 09
My story is this, what you see is what you get. I am who I am which is truth telling even if it hurts BUT I will try my best to tell the truth in the best way that I know how without hurting anyone's feelings but the truth is the truth and there's no way around that. I'm also a fighter of the right. What is right is right and what's wrong is wrong. I will stand up for right no matter who it is and never ever will I stand up for the wrong EVEN if it's my best friend, mother, father, brothers who ever, it does not matter. That is the very reason why my brother and I don't speak because he takes my words or actions to mean otherwise and that hurts but I will NOT back down. I think that pretty much sums it up! lol Happy mylotting my friend!!
