"I can't" ... or is it "How can I?"

I love a challenge and problem solving so I always say "how can I" or "lets get started". You also need a positive attitude in your life for you to feel you can conquer all things. So I always feel anything is possible in your life and you have to make it happen if you have the will, which I do.

i've always believed that there is nothing much that i can't do. the issue is simply whether i want it enough to do it. of course there are things i can't do. things like flying since i've got no wings, stay underwater for three years since i've got no gills etc. however, i believe that i can achieve anything if i want it enough.

it's just a matter of accepting that i have failed and what i should not have done. if one can accept failure, then one can stand up and try again. however, if one goes around blaming everyone but oneself then it is hard to overcome setbacks. cheers

Good question.. Because when we are kids, we have nothing to fear and that we know we can always get help from adults.. BUt once we become adults, we tend top let ego and pride get into our way, and we are more scared to be ridiculed rather than anything else..

Furthermore, most ple are content with what they have and wont wanna risk anything that's beyond of them.. lol=D There are alot of ple whom simply says 'i cant', because they just dun wanna try at all.. They feel that if they try and fail, they will lose face.. haha=D

ISn't that stupid?? Just take many adults for example, try to learn cooking, and before they do it, firts thing comes to their mind, i'm not gifted and thus no point in learning.. lol=D