didn't they think, its not easy to be a housewife! (to be a woman)  |
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its not a new thing to see on news the women/ wives who are abused by their husbands...battered housewife...martyrs...huh!
i don't know what kind of mind do those men have, those men who do violence to their wives...didn't they think how difficult it is to be a housewife? the daily routines of a wife's life is somehow difficult. wake up early, prepare the family needs, take care of their children, do everything in the house...its tiring! and after doing those things i think nobody deserves to be beaten by anyone...
men, i think wives deserve some recognition from their husbands and good treatment from them...i'm just sad to know that there still some people(men) in this world who treat women as if they are the king of these women...and as if women is inferior and they are the superior...huh!
blessings!
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1. kun2349 (7249)  | 5 months ago | Man whom abuses their wives are not man, instead they are weakling, cowards and gutless.. They only dare to bully woman whom are weak and wont fight back.. This kind of man, are simply useless..
Or even, they know that their wife loved them so much that, it's ok to beat them, for they wont leave them for sure.. While, in some men's mindset, woman are meant to be beaten and bullied for their status are not as important like man.. Just like in some countries, woman are not even respected at all, and all thus causing all the man to have high ego and pride..
If i ever meet such a man, i will definitely fight him face on, and even allow his wife to step on him, hit him while he's low.. haha=D LEt him lose his ego and pride completely in public.. haha=D
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kun2349 (7249) | 5 months ago | lol=D U will still allow him to sleep?? I dun think i will allow him a chance to sleep at all.. haha=D I might just poison him during his meal time.. lol=D
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kabudel (131) | 5 months ago | hahaha you guys are bad! i wouldn't poison him, i'll send him to prison!:P
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kun2349 (7249) | 5 months ago | lol=D BUt then again, i will still prefer humiliating him in public, because it will definitely hurt his status in front of all his family and frenz.. lol=D
Welcome to mylot, kabudel^_^ THere's no point in sending him to prison unless there's someone in there to torture him as well.. haha=D
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | awwww! that's really painful! but you forget to put some lemon or calamnsi on his wounds...together with the salt! hehehe
well i guess that's too much for him...but i think a man like that deserbes things like that so that he can serve as a lesson to other husbands who are beating their wives... now i am thinking...are you really bad? hehehe
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | it should be deserves not deserbes...hehehe typo.
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kun2349 (7249) | 5 months ago | haha=D Lemon will be nice though because before that, i must rub the lemon skin on his wounds as well.. lol=D
What do u think then?? Maybe i'm only bad to those whom deserves it, and kind to those whom are really good ple^_^ I will treat ple the way they are treating others.. haha=D
SO i can be both good and bad, depending on how one sees it^_^
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kun2349 (7249) | 5 months ago | Oh ya, thanks for the pencil too^_^
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | hahaha...sure... well i think you are right coz i remember that my grandma is like that...she's too kind and she never say No to her loved ones whenever they need her help...which sometimes other people took advantage of her kindness... and that's what not good...taking advantage of the kindness of one person...hate those kind of people! pretenders well as you said...they are just good when they can have benefits from us...sometimes there are people who i think is a master in pretending...hehehe
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | well those who have a heart of cheating a friend and taking advantage on them are not friends at all... yes you are right, we need to meet some bad people to know who are good...
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | hehehe...coz you are a man and not always say things into details and i am a girl who wants everything in detail for me to understand it well...huh! hehehe
i think so, coz like me, i just have few close friends...and usually they are my friends that i met from school...
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kun2349 (7249) | 5 months ago | Actually we have been in the same school since we are 4yrs old all the way till 16.. haha=D after which, we graduated and ended up in different college, and that's the time we lost touch with each other, even though she's staying a few blocks away from me.. lol=D
It's only till about 2 months ago i saw her, only then i knew she was married and even had a daughter.. haha=D But i did not ask her much after that, for she's already married, and happy^_^ I only wished her all best and left.. haha=D
yup, so even up to now, i'm still very much in touch with majority of them, for they are my only frenz now.. haha=D U still have a close fren, who's so far away from u?? hehe^_^ it seems like both of u are more like sisters, and have very tight bonding huh?? hehe NO matter what kind of communication, as long as both of u get to contact each other, that will be good enough^_^
As long as u are happy with them, can get along well, number of years dun matter^_^ After all, i might know someone for 10 years, but my friendship is not as close as me to u, over a few months^_^ hehe
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | so, she's your childhood friend! hehehe how come you didn't become sweethearts? or you become sweethearts? does it hurt you knowing that she's already married? hehehe
yes i still have communication with that friend of mine, if you remember the pictures in slide show that i show you? the girl who looks like chinese with a german boyfriend? that's she...when we are in high school we are really close and we sit beside each other...and we also have the same religion, that's why...
i guess communication really makes a firend closer even if you don't see them...
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kun2349 (7249) | 5 months ago | Yeah, only a childhood fren.. But we definitely did not become sweet hearts even though there's a period of time whereby we were really close, to the extend of being like a couple.. haha=D If i'm not wrong, that time she's like facing break up from her bf who's in my class too.. hehe^_^ Also, she's our school belle, so, where do my chance come from even?? lol 
I dun have much feelings for her like loving someone, and thus i wont feel hurt^_^ IN fact i feel happy for her, because she's married now^_^
So she's the one^_^ Did she migrate or post over there for work?? hehe^_^ YEah, since both of u dun see each other often, communmication is the only way to keep in touch and update each other^_^ It's better than losing a fren the moment they are not by your side^_^
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kun2349 (7249) | 5 months ago | haha=D So, there's a difference between new ple and frenz to u huh?? hehe^_^ As for me, both are actually the same to me as long as i know who they are and vice versa.. After all, most ple started out by talking or sharing same interest etc, from there, a friendship is being developed..
As for your case, friends are already there, just that it has not started yet, and thus, they are only acquaintance so far.. hehe MYlot frenz are all real time frenz to me as well, because i get to contact them outside of mylot as well, such as u^_^ hehe
haha=D Father?? 'Father' as in those from your church izit?? lol=D I will prefer being a mistress instead.. lol 
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | hehehe..well that's me! maybe in person, i can make those acquaintances friends...but on line...hmmm again not sure. some people i meet online well they can be my friend, like you. but very few people on net did i consider as friend...hehehe was that bad?
but i don't have 'father' in my church..i am not catholic. hehehe
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | yes yes...i believe in you ...and no one is like you here! hehehe
no one among here can make a discussion with me that last for already three weeks and still counting! hehehe
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | hehehe...but you think you are still earning with me here? hehehe i doubt coz i saw your number moves slowly...you can answer to others as well and don't feel obliged to comment back on me...hehehe
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kun2349 (7249) | 4 months ago | hehe^_^ BUt is the white part, part of the egg in it?? It's like a protective layer for the chick instead?? hehe
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ckyera (2361) | 4 months ago | haha...you don't get a nose bleed by eating balot! hahha...well i can't really convinced you with this i think...hehhe but my husband...hmmm just like you, he don't like it! hehhehe but he have tried eating it and i need to force him sometimes and dare him to eat balot...hehehe when he eat the chick he just swallow! hahaha but most of the time, when i buy it, he's the one who eats the yellow part coz i don't like that much...hehehe
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kun2349 (7249) | 4 months ago | lol=D NO matter how u force me, dare me, entice me, seduce me, i will not eat it still.. lol=D BUt things and tastes do change along with time, who knows by then i might try?? hehe
BUt i will definitely be following into yuor hubby's footsteps, of swallowing.. lol=D So that i need not bite thru its tender body, with all those juices inside my mouth, flowing about.. lol=D
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ckyera (2361) | 4 months ago | hehe...i will eat hundreds of balot but never will i eat those insects! yucks, yucks, yucks! haha
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ckyera (2361) | 4 months ago | really? so you already have a taste of it? yucks! hehehe
well, i just hope so...coz if i die, many will cry! hahaha
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ckyera (2361) | 4 months ago | yes i know about that batter batter thing...but i saw some here that cooks those insects directly and yes its crunchy but on the maybe stomach part...you know there's a soft part...haha whatever, even how nice looking it is...i think i will not like it at all...haha
but milk can make baby sleep...hehehe
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ckyera (2361) | 4 months ago | haha...maybe both of us should try it...to know whether its crunchy all over or if it has a soft part...hehe
drinking milk the whole day without sleep is not healthy at all! hehehe it will just make you weak instead of making you strong...haha
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ckyera (2361) | 3 months ago | haha...but you know me! hehe for not being 'that' fair! hehe that's why you always lost in the trading! hehe
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ckyera (2361) | 2 months ago | hehe...i think josh groban also have his version of that...hehe
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kun2349 (7249) | 2 months ago | YEah, he's is the original version.. hehe^_^ BUt i prefer josh version to westlife as his voice is much deeper and nicer.. haha=D
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kun2349 (7249) | 2 months ago | Thief?? Maybe?? I'm there to steal some fruits, as well as your heart too.. lol=D
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kun2349 (7249) | 2 months ago | the secret one, whom i'm always involved in, in our own 'bedroom' at night, about 2-3timesa week.. lol=D Discussing about on goings everywhere, and also some language lessons, as well as some 'product knowlwdge' about things.. lol=D
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kun2349 (7249) | 1 month ago | Maybe u are not reading enough.. lol=D
Or got too stressed out by my 'activities'.. lol=D
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ckyera (2361) | 1 month ago | shhhh...im just kidding! i don't want you to lose $$$ hehe & 'friends' as well...
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ckyera (2361) | 1 month ago | haha...nothing to loose? hmmmm
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kun2349 (7249) | 1 month ago | YEah, for u have got what u want, without even asking for it.. lol=D
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kun2349 (7249) | 2 weeks ago | I will eat those papers, if u burn them and put those ashes in water, and i will drink it up too.. lol=D Though i dun like soy sauce, but i do like peppercones, bay leaves and garlics.. lol=D Just these 3 main ingredients will do for me, and u can skip the rest.. lol=D 
haha=D Never mind, and i shall be serving u with human organs instead!! lol=D A vital organ u will like to have for sure.. haha
YEah, i know.. But bows and arrows are not allowed in our country!! haha=D Thus, we wont get a chance to fish in that way!! PLus our waters are not as clear too, and thus, we can even dive in it to fish properly.. haha 
BIG WAVES?!?! Is there any splashes?!?! lol=D
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2. vijayanths (826) | 5 months ago | ckyera, I fully agree with you.. I know that being a house wife is not that easy. They do work hard and keep the home and family in good moods and conditions.women are in no way inferior to men. they are equal.
without you we will be zero. so cool down.
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3. haiershen (901) | 5 months ago | yes, i think to be a housewif is not easy to do, nowadays, woman have their own job or career,so when their went home, it is very tired to do anything,so i think the health family should be do the housework together with all of the member.housework isn't the routines of a wife. good luck and have a nice day!
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | yes, its not really easy to be a woman and a housewife...and so men should know how to recognize all the things that their wife is doing and be grateful for them... men should not buse their wives for they are not their slaves...they should love and take care of them... have a nice day!
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4. ucue2008 (891) | 5 months ago | Yes I know, its not easy to be a housewife, even though I haven't been a housewife, but seeing my three sister in law, make me understand how hard the job is. There are a lot of things they need to bear and feel, and also to sope with in laws is not something easy. I resent a guy who beat their wife as being a wife and mother, a woman is sacrifice a lot already, and even thank you the husband cannot say, yet they beat their wife? that is very bad.
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ckyera (2361) | 5 months ago | hello there! ye syou are right! its really bad that a man treated his wife bad! a man should realize how difficult to be a woman...and he should learn to appreciate and be grateful to his wife... thanks!
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5. mermaidivy (3288) | 5 months ago | I am a woman and I agree it is not easy to be a woman... it is not easy to give birth, have it inside for 10 months and finally "pop" it out; taking care of the kids is not easy, need to teach them good is not easy... there are lots of stuff are not easy... I agree veyr much that wives derserve good treatment and understandings from the husband.
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dpk262006 (8872) | 4 months ago | Ck! I feel that those who hurt will not be forgiven by the God, they would be punished sooner or later for their deeds.
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dpk262006 (8872) | 4 months ago | Pl. read - 'those who hurt women......
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7. ced_cap (167) | 3 months ago | Gud am. ced_cap here. We both know it's really very hard to be a woman. Especially for both of us coz' we're not just ordinary housewives being married to ministers of the church. We perform other duties and responsibilities which ordinary housewives don't. For me, it's even harder because i also have 3 kids to attend to everyday. For me it's 24/7 everyday. Very tiring but yet very fulfilling. That's why we should be treated and loved by our husband the way we treated and love them (which i think they do, in fairness to them).
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8. Shames (1332) | 3 months ago | Hi ckyera.I think you just made a mylot world record with that conversation of yours with kun I guess.Well coming to the discussion I too feel that women are always inderetimated and not credited for their hard work.Times were really bad and worse in the past.Hence it will take a while before women come to take their position back as equal to men.I dont know about the household works but women definitely do the most hard work in the world of carrying their child for 9 months in their womb.And I honour them for that...
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9. ybong007 (932) | 2 weeks ago | Its a sad fact but it happens because they let their husbands do it and get away with it too. There are laws that protects women against abuse, if only they can use these laws to protect themselves and put their husbands to jail then they just made life easier for them. But some women treat their husbands as their god which is wrong. It not easy to be stay at home wife, in fact i would rather go to work than spend the whole day at home and take care of the kids but my wife is able to accomplish everything that why i've so much respect for her and the hard work she put in. Although she can get noisy at times complaining, but i guess it comes with the territory. Cheers!
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