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myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people8 months ago

Whenever something good or bad happens with you, you immediately wish to share it with someone close to you. Everyday, many good and bad things keep happening with us and we feel like sharing with others. Who are or who is the most important person with whom do you share your happy or bad moments of the day. Imagine, you have traveled in a charted plane all alone and there is no one to share your unique experience, hopefully, you will fell restless, till such time you share your experience with someone close to you. Would like to know your views on this. Many thanks in advance. happy

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20795)   ranked 715 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

The first person that I want to confide in about everything is my wonderful husband. He is always there for me to listen to whatever I have to say, whether it's a good thing or a bad thing. He's always very helpful and supportive, and has come up with some really unique ideas over the past few years that have helped in bad situations, and made good situations even better.


pamfloyd51 (92)   ranked 10,083 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

it is great to have someone else feel about their husband like i do mine. there is nothing like having a husband who cares enough about u to put u first.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

danish! It is really great to know that you have such an understanding husband, who supports you in your think and thin and I think his support makes you feel confident and happy all the time. You appear very lucky. Thanks for sharing.

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2. pamfloyd51 (92)   ranked 10,083 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

the 1st person i want to share everything with is my husband. he is my best friend here on earth. i can tell him anything. he understands me better than anyone. everything i have to say to him is important. i can't live without him.


thankyou_0126 (9)  8 months ago

My wife likes you, she tell me the things everyday. I'm a person confiding in


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Pam! It is really great to know that you have such an understanding husband, who supports you in your thick and thin and I think his support makes you feel confident and happy all the time. You appear very lucky. Thanks for sharing.


pamfloyd51 (92)   ranked 10,083 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

u r welcome!!!!!!!!! my husband is a God send. i know beyond a shadow of a doubt God sent him to me. he is my soul mate. i thank God every day for him.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Good!thumbup

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 1,842 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

I look for my elder sister to confide in. She has always been here for me no matter what the circumstances are so she is the only one I will look to if I have something to say which needs someone's attention and advise. Since my childhood she has always been my confident in everything so she understands me fully now. She has never judge an I think this is the way which made me go to her for every thing I have to say.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Med!
It is really great to know that you have such an understanding elder sister, to whom you can confide in everything, without any hesitation. I think she works as a friend, guide and philosopher for you. It is all the more good that she supports you in your think and thin and I think her support makes you feel confident and happy all the time. You appear very lucky. Thanks for sharing.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. kiran8 (1164)   ranked 1,274 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

Hi deepak, Actually in my case there are different issues that I share with different people. It so happens that one person may be good at supporting you regarding a certain issue, but not regarding some other issue. In my case my sister is my best friend and I share almost all my days and life's happenings with her. i have some good friends who though I am not in constant touch with, provide me with excellent support and advise and that much needed assurance..


myLot reputation of 95/100. kalav56 (1962)   ranked 509 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Kiran you always write wonderful responses. thumbupthumbup


myLot reputation of 89/100. kiran8 (1164)   ranked 1,274 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Thanks a lot kala, I can say the same about you as wellhappy


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Kiran!
It is really great to know that you have such an understanding sister, to whom you can confide in everything, without any hesitation. I think she works as a friend, guide and philosopher for you. It is all the more good that she supports you in your think and thin and I think her support makes you feel confident and happy all the time. You appear very lucky. I know it that some of issues could only be shared with friends not with sisters/brothers. Thanks for sharing. I would say like Kala that you are wonderful and to the point responses. thumbup


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Kala
Kiran has become an expert in writing quality responses. I support your view about her. thumbupthumbuphappy


myLot reputation of 89/100. kiran8 (1164)   ranked 1,274 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Deepak, Thanks a lot, I have grown ten feet tall now... happy seriously, my sister is younger to me by 6 years, but I look up to her for advise in many personal matters.Other than that i do have a couple of friends who are equally trustworthy and I can tell them everything without any fear . But I have always felt that your life and your problems are yours alone and you can only share it, but it is you alone who has to endure it... confused


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Kiran!
You are always welcome!
Your last sentences are remarkablethumbup and I fully buy your arguments. I also believe that though we can always share our problems and sorrows with our near and dear ones, they may also give very practical and good advice, but at the end of the day, it is we, who are to tackle and face the problems, they will not come to our rescue.
It does not matter, if your sister is younger to you, sometimes, younger persons render very useful advice, which we cannot think.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. kalav56 (1962)   ranked 509 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

This depends on the sort of occurrence.I choose to share them with my husband and son though not in the same order at all times.Some things would be shared with my son forst, some with my husband forst--depends on the situation, mood and the issue.


myLot reputation of 95/100. kalav56 (1962)   ranked 509 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

sorry for the typos.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Kala!
It is really great to know that you have such an understanding husband and son(s) to whom you can confide in everything, without any hesitation. I think he works as a friend, guide and philosopher to you. It is all the more good that he supports you in your thick and thin and I think her support makes you feel confident and happy all the time. You appear very lucky. Thanks for sharing. thumbup


myLot reputation of 89/100. kiran8 (1164)   ranked 1,274 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Thats really nice kala,very rarely can one have such a rapport with the family as a whole - I forgot to add that I do share a lot with my 3 children too. They are my life support and give me a lot of confidence and self assurance in times of stress, and I consider myself lucky to have them around me..


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Kiran!
It is all the more good that you can share your things with your kids also and they are hopefully very understanding.

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. mimpi1911 (8144)   ranked 4 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

This is a good discussion.

I feel, it's important that we confide in others or may be a single person. Confiding shows the level of trust and love we share wt the person/s. Being a very reclusive person, I find it difficult to confide in many people. For me, two or three people are more than enough. I have a very good friend and a sister to whom I can be my real self and confide i every thing. It's like a confession box. Even when I do something wrong and guilty I tell my sister and friend that did it. It makes me feel better, anyday. With them, I know they would blast, reason and be upset but never will leave me for the person I am or for whatever good or bad I do.

I used to confide in others also but had been betrayed many times and now I am wiser. Having said this, my mom is always worried about me because she thinks I am very inwardly and unlike my sisters who would blabber every thing and anything I do not confide in her. But she is happy that I at least do to some other person.

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myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Mimpi!
Thanks for liking the discussion. Yes, it is important that we should have someone to whom we could confide in, otherwise, we may feel restless, if we do not tell to someone about our joyous or sad moments.It is really great to know that you have such an understanding elder sister and a dear friend, to whom you can confide in everything, without any hesitation. I think she works as a friend, guide and philosopher for you. It is all the more good that she supports you in your thick and thin and I think her support makes you feel confident and happy all the time. You appear very lucky. Your mother's worry about you, it shows how much she loves and cares for you.Many thanks for enriching the post. thumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. alokn99 (2935)   ranked 245 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

Deepak,there are very few people i can confide with and invariably they are one or two friends and not family. And it's not just about some experiences, but the way i feel about certain things. I think it's always important to have somebody who you can confide in. It helps a great deal.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Alok!
Yes, it is important that we should have someone to whom we could confide in, otherwise, we may feel restless, if we do not tell to someone about our joyous or sad moments.It is really great to know that you have some friends whom you can confide in everything, without any hesitation. Many thanks for enriching the post.

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. grecychunny26 (5289)   ranked 3,885 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

When something bad happened to me I don't tell or share it immediately. I let it be with myself, but that is depend if I needed help. I don't want to share my agony even with my family, but sometimes because we are in one house they noticed me when I am silent, they ask question what happened to me and I say nothing. But if it is a problem I think first before sharing it to them, sometimes my problems had nothing to do with as they are from work, from friends so I just keep it to myself but if I need advice I ask them. If it is good, i share it gladly with everyone close to me.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. gitfiddleplayer (5581)   ranked 308 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

I usually talk to God, he seems to be the only who knows what I'm going through. He has been there already and I'm making my way to him.

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7293)   ranked 729 out of 35,525 in people   8 months ago

My one and only confidant is my husband. Whenever I have something to tell anybody, he’s the only person that comes to my mind.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dpk262006 (9180)   ranked 671 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

Hi Sudipta! It means no one else, besides your hubby is there to whom you can confide in. If you need to tell something about your hubby, whom do you tell by the way?


myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7293)   ranked 729 out of 35,525 in people  8 months ago

I tell him of course and the second best option is you guys over here...in fact you people are a safer option coz I can just vent how much I wantwink. I do it at home too, but then we have those mother of all fights! lol

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