How much freedom you according your lover, wife/hus?

Hello icesmile, I think every relationship needs freedom and we should be living like this else our life will be suffocated. I believe how much we can say that we have a personal life after being with someone but honestly I don't find it so.

I hve a partner who is nice to me, I can go with friends and have dinners or lunch, he also can do the same thing, but when it comes to privacy then I don't think there is any when someone has entered your life.

What if one day you find your partner checking your mails or entering a site with your passwords? I feel a bit disturbed though I have nothingto hide from him but still we cannot argue too much on this as there are far important things to talk about.

I ever dream of having the freedom when I want to but it's impossible. As of I got married, I almost have no freedom any more. My wife usually together with me, go to shopping, dinner every day and so on. I want to watch football/basketball games in midnight but my wife deny it. I have a plan to do with it that we'll have a baby. I think that my wife will take care our baby and no time for control me.

I think it is good for the man to and the woman to have freedom time away from each other and with their own friends.Everyone needs time away from each other as they both have different friends and alot of different interests.This a good thing in any relationship not unless you have a possesive partner.In my relationship there is trust so we dont mind which one go out with friends.

Women and men need equal amounts of freedom. There is no reason why men should have or want more freedom than woman. It only appears that way, because women have been conditioned not to ask for freedom.

My husband and I do whatever we want, when we want. We agree on when we want to be together, and when we want our freedom. No one "allows" anyone to do anything. If he wants to go to the A N A F (veterans club next door) for a beer, he goes. If I want to go with him, I go. If I want to go to the cafe, I go, and if he wants to come with me he goes.

Hello icesmile, it is natural that both man and woman need freedom from each other in order to stop themselves driving each other barmy by excessive close proximity, after all how long can one hear the same endless old tales. I think though that you are categorising the genders quite wrongly, often the men meet for a nice cup of tea and a chat about fashion whilst the women pop to the bar and meet lots of nice young men.