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If a good friend invite you his wedding, and you are single....you will go? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1762)   ranked 38 out of 6,548 in enjoy life6 months ago

You know how much is hard to go to a party alone, when you are single.
Sometimes you can don t feel good if all are there with somebody and you are alone. You will choice to go alone, if you are a mature, divorced person?
I don t talk about young person, 19,20 who can go no partner and stay in to a group.
For them is very easy, because they are toghether, and can enjoy....but if you are divorced, and there all your friends are married or with theirs lovers....how do you feel?
You can enjoy if see others when dance, or woman who don t look to you very friendly because are afraid because shes husband can look after you...or if you are man and you are alone...all man try to keep distance, because afraid that you can invite his wife to dance?confused

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. polachicago (7865)   ranked 10 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

I like to have good time. I would probably go regardless. I may not stay all night long, but I would enjoy attending friends wedding. I can skip dancing if I can find good people to talk to... happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1762)   ranked 38 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

Is a good ideea, to go and don t stay to much, and in same time you will make your friend happy because you are therehappy

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. Sandra1952 (1433)   ranked 597 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

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myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1762)   ranked 38 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

Good idea too, to invite other friend who can stay with me... happythumbup


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11835)   ranked 653 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

I like that idea too! thumbup

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11835)   ranked 653 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

I would definately want to attend the wedding if I was invited. I would feel honoured to have received the invitation and would not want to let my friend down by not going.
I talk to everyone whether I know them or not so I would not be just alone all the time and I would probably not stay too late after the dancing started... unless she had invited some others who were also on their own too. You never know that when you are least expecting it and not looking forward to something it actually turns out to be one of the best times you had wink

Has this happened to you or was it just a thought you had?


myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1762)   ranked 38 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

Hi, you know this kind of situations make single people don t enjoy any more, and is hard to be there if you don t have somebody near to you.
But as you say, never know, maybe there can find the charming prince or Cindarella... happy


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11835)   ranked 653 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

I find that if you have a smile with you then you are never alone wink
I have never let the fact that I am single stop me from going somewhere or doing something I wanted to do if friends couldn't come on that particular occasion, whatever it happens to be. It's very unlikely that I would be the only person unaccompanied and there's always someone to talk to. Just have to find the right excuse lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1762)   ranked 38 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

i can say that even i am single, i try to have some friends with who i can go in a special ocasion, to face it. happyand i have all time my smile with me


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11835)   ranked 653 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

Yes I see your smile in your name thumbup


myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1762)   ranked 38 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

you must look to light from my candle...there is a worm smilehappy


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11835)   ranked 653 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

Yes I remember you telling us the reason for the candle and I think it is such a good idea too. It is having a very good result too. I think you meant 'warm' though.


myLot reputation of 95/100. icesmile (1762)   ranked 38 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

worm, romantic, dangerous sometimes, because can burn too...i adore candles reallyhappy


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (11835)   ranked 653 out of 6,548 in enjoy life  6 months ago

The scented ones add something even more special to any situation too thumbup

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. sandymay16 (1303)   ranked 920 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

I'm single and I have been invited to weddings and there's no problem being single in weddings except during the throwing of the bouquet or garter for that matter and you don't want to because you have already catched the thing many times LOL.
I have been to wedding as part of the entourage and not and it's okay because there are friends around who are also single.

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. yugasini (1408)   ranked 1,079 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

hi Icesmile,

you words are quite correct, but now most of the husbands can do like this, but there is no chance to us because, we never dance in the parties and marriages.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. anniefannie (1309)   ranked 921 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

i have being to several weddings by my self but i knew a lot of people there so i wasn't alone when i was there and enjoyed my self very much.they were not big fancy weedings so every one was nice.

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7. myLot reputation of 84/100. vnrsudhan (810)   ranked 5,545 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

hi icesmile,
i can understand what you are trying to say.not everyone is like that.and it is really hard to be alone for old or divorced people in a party,but i don't think going to a wedding party single will be a problem.but for other party's its really hard.

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7057)   ranked 1,306 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

It really depends on the temperament of the person. I have seen many divorced people enjoying life to the hilt. All their friends and families know that they are safe from that person and that person generally is outgoing type and not bothered about the divorced status.
But for myself, I am an introvert and my immediate family is my friend. I don’t seem to feel comfortable with anybody without them…so if I had to go alone to a party, maybe I would not go. And if I was divorced, then maybe I would feel bad about going and thinking about what people will talk about me…you know, the sympathies which make you more irritated.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. queennee (148)   ranked 4,682 out of 6,548 in enjoy life   6 months ago

hi icesmile,i think i can afford to go alone,besides its a good friend of mine who invited.who knows when i reach at the event or wedding whatever it is,i'll be able to meet old friends or new one.but,if i feel awkward of the situation,im not gonna stay long.im sure my good friend will understand:)..good day!

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10. stafei (75)   6 months ago

yes.I will.the friend need my bless instead of my girlfriend or wife.Right?He is my good friend so I must give him my best bless for his wedding.whatever I am single or not.That have no any meaning for this wedding.If I still is single in my wedding,then I will feel lonely.haha~~just is a joke.Anyway,I suggest to your frined's wedding.Don't worry you are single.

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