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myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers7 months ago

A young lady I was having a conversation with married an old man (she's about 18 and married a 50 year old guy), I asked her why him? She told me that she prefers older men simply because they are more sensitive the needs of a woman than any young men. Aside from the fact of financial security, this perhaps ponders me because, I think I am sensitive enough for my significant other's need I mean as far as I know of.... how bout you? What do you think on this "woman's view"?


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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. srganesh (3366)   ranked 1,228 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

In this case,the old man shows kindness as she is the only support for him.He wants to satisfy her because he expects more from her and don't want to lose her.She is really a gem to him at this age.And for her,he is a secure person to rely for her future.It is mere give and take policy,running between the two.We can't generalize this.Cheers!


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Totally, this might just be a case to case basis.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. ketybhagat (1806)   ranked 229 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

There are many a women who look for father figures in their spouses, this is so that they are taken care of, both monitorily and physically. Older men are more understanding, having seen the world, so that may be the case with this lady. Youngsters can get into a heated argument, tempres flare and both want their own way. With an elderly man, there is that sensitivity of understanding. So I guess, she is happier with him.


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Yeah, I think you have a point there, perhaps the age gap doesn't bother her at all.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. mhethess (253)   ranked 561 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Hi torchablazed, Age doesn't matter as long as the couple love and respect each other. There are favor and consequences when you marry and older man, favor he can be responsible enough and have a good job to support his partner but in terms of health and life span, the younger partner must be ready to take care of her husband if the husband will reach the golden age. One must marry because he or she love him or her, so when there are problems they will survive. Marrying someone is in sickness and in health only death will part them. Thanks god bless can you be my friend?


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Oh dear, this is the risk that the younger one would take into consideration before making a decision, and yeah your right, age doesn't matter at all...

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. bjcyrix (2878)   ranked 2,748 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

Wow, that is something. I would like to assume that the young lady you talked with married that 50 year old guy because of love and the financial stability, as well as the emotional satisfaction is just a bonus to the whole affair...? If that is so, the she really does love him. Its not an issue whether the guy is 20 or 50 as long as the perspective and maturity is grown enough that the every 'needs' of the woman can be fulfilled. At least most of it anyway.

I also prefer older men, not necessarily old men, just old enough, like maybe a few years ahead of me, not decades. doh and it would be highly unlikely for me taking any interest in younger men. At least at this time in my life since I am considered as still very young. My thinking on this is that, women mature faster than men. So between peers, the women would think like real women, yet their friends who are males, would think still more like boys. Boys are usually still a bit self-centered. Women, also like to feel cared for and loved, and most of the times, older men tend to understand that. Women by nature love to care for others so the older men dont have to worry about feeling left out. The older men are also mature and wise enough to understand what women want.
Well, thats just what I think anyway.

Im sure you are sensitive to your significant others' needs and wants cause otherwise, you wouldnt still be together right?happy
And on another note, age does not really matter much when it comes to relationships. People also differ in preferences so..^_^


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Hi bj, I love your perspective over this matter, I would agree with you on the part that women matures faster than men, because I have observed that as well to many couples... and definitely, love knows no age as limit to being with someone you really love.


myLot reputation of 96/100. bjcyrix (2878)   ranked 2,748 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

I appreciate it. happy

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. dragon54u (9611)   ranked 597 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Totally, I am with you on this, emotional support that matters most whereby these can be observe generally on older men.

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6. myLot reputation of 88/100. syankee525 (3467)   ranked 459 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

i can see that in away, but to me with him being older he might act more like her father then a spouce or b/f
i seen this so many times in both men and women who are older


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

yeah most girls who are married with older men, look for a father like figure.

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7. Akila016 (62)   ranked 12,169 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

I think the answer is yes.A older man has suffered more than the younger one.So they know more about how to cherish a woman and what they want.Women always need to be loved.So,If I choose,I will choose an older man to be my b/f.


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Experience wise they have already been through many things explains the reason why it has so much appeal on the woman's side.

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8. myLot reputation of 89/100. notlistening2 (10812)   ranked 4,509 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

No I will not married a old man, I wrote a discussion about this, about women marrying older men, I don't care how senitive the old man, is to my needs, I am not going to marry him, some old men are so set in their ways, it's hard to live with them, I know this old man, he liked me, and he kept talking about what he would do for me, if we got married, I couldn't marry him any way because I am already married, and he wasn't my type, he wants you agree with everything that he says, he never want to wrong about any thing, I can't see myself living with anyone like that I don't need someone like that taking care of my needs. sadthumbdownangry


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

Its a matter of individual preference I guess.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. ANTIQUELADY (11320)   ranked 51 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

ALL I can say to her hope it lasts. I DON'T THINK ANY OF THEM ARE AS SENSITIVE AS THEY NEED TO BE NO MATTER WHAT AGE THEY ARE. sorry about that.


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

nah, that's totally fine... sometimes, its the maturity of a person when it comes in relationship does matter not necessarily with the figure .*smiles* happy

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10. myLot reputation of 72/100. tundeemma (803)   ranked 3,005 out of 19,295 in questions & answers   7 months ago

that is the general believe of women towards men, and i think to some extent i agree with that, in these days, young couples can easily break up compared to older couples and this is due to the fact that younger men are inexperience when nit comes to relationships, older men are quite good in the act and the same goes for the women as well


myLot reputation of 97/100. torchablazed (1148)   ranked 270 out of 19,295 in questions & answers  7 months ago

yeah... and sometime it pays to listen to older people since they are more experienced in many things, learning a lesson from one's step could be good in some instance like in relationships.

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