Well it came to it's conclusion........................  

I think it is not that I am young [57]but that I am a die hard romantic AND I wanted a relationship so very badly. I think I would have been more inclined to go slow and be proactive in it all if it hadn't been for this guys charm. My plan was to wait until I was comfortable and then meet him. But he charmed me immersively and I broke down and I fell for it all. Amazing. I was like a dry sponge and soaked up all he had to put out. I truly did. I agree that it doesn't matter how the truth is reached. And yes oh yes! He is the one the rotten fruit should be thrown at. Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, I should have done a background check on me. I am going to in the future. I am too adventurous I think sometimes and found it fun. Thanks.

Oh yes, thank goodness no rotten eggs. I was pretty proud of myself. Yes, better I learned early on than after I was up there. A decent man [as he projected himself to be] would have been happy with what he had. We had just layed out the whole plan and discussed it before he went off the line and when to talk to the fpp. I can't believe he was so cold and uncaring as to put himself out there like that. He had just renigged on our meeting before this weird behavior started. I think he has alot of personal problems. Too bad.

Thank you my dear friend for your positive words and prace. I think the key word here is COLD. He was so sweet and seemed loving and caring and to find out the truth and how cold he was is what hurt the most. He seemed like my ultimate soulmate. So intune. Everything I could have possibly have wanted. What a life it was to be. Oh my God! Revenge gives us courage. I can't believe one humanbeing can be such a changling and so real in the moment like that yet so untrue even to his own feelings. Amazing. I mean he said things with such passion, clarity and feeling. I believed he cared. I really did. Just amazing. A demon of superior strength this one.

Quite correct Celtic..a changling and a demon in my thoughts..you hit the nail on the head..there are others who are very evil in this world. To play with one's emotions so well, and so deliberately is just evil to me. You are great Celtic the Slueth! xooxoxo

Thanks, I needed that!

And how many times, looking back now, when he said he was tired and needed to go to sleep did he get off the phone with me and nice and loving conversation to take up the same with someone else. Thank you for your cheers. Revenge makes us clever.

Thanks for your input, Dear. I have learned a very valuable lesson about the net.

very good

You are so very right in all you have said here. I was desperate. I am a die hard romantic and I wanted someone to love and to be loved by someone so very badly. he was sweet and I fell into it very easily. I thought over the net I could keep some control over it. I was wrong. And, as I have said many times now, I have learned a very valuable lesson. He and I were on the verge of meeting face to face and I think that scared him. That is when all his weird behavior started and I became suspicious. Thank you for your logical input. Very savvy.

trust me, I got my heart broken twice before I wizened up, we are all the same,

I had the crazy idea that there was some lonely guy out there just waiting for me,

I learned they are out there but for everyone honest guy there are 10 dishonest guys,

your not to meet in person friend is either very shy,

only wants a relationship on line,

or

is married and gets his kicks by talking to lonely women.

Thank you. I feel very justified in what i did. I laugh every time I think about him and the effect my voice had on him Hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Again, revenge was sweet.

Thank you.Flowers,huh? Nice. Believe me I feel very 'real' these last few days. This hurt alot. I do feel very justified in what I did. I am a caring person and try to always be respectful of others feelings and wants. Because of this I have had afew moments of feeling bad for what I did. Not many but afew. The major part is just a full throttled amazement at his coldness. Such a jerk! He was so very lonely and wanted someone up there with him so badly. I think we both were. Sadly I hurt so much over the final ending to it. But am also relieved. We had just gotten to a point where we were going to meet and I was so excited although I was scared. This was when he started acting weird too. He said some things about his beer gutt and improvements that needed to be made around the place. I didn't care. I think he has some deep rooted personal problems. He craves the attention. It is going to be a lonely and cold winter for him. I was going to make all that go away. So sad.

It's getting colder and hopefully the jerk is feeling it by now..I bet he is. Thanks for the best response!

Hey Opa! Well, I feel like I just had my grams or my mom come back from the dead long enough to give me the royal riot act. Thanks. Yes, I know what could have happened to me. I hear about it all the time. A friend recently sent me a news item concerning a gal who had been a member of the same networking site I was that had been murdered. Scarey stuff boys and girls! I can't promise I won't continue to chat and meet folks online. BUT, I will promise I won't get so embroiled in an internet romance. I learned a very valid lesson that I won't soon forget. I am just a firm believer that my soulmate is not going to be just around the corner and that is one reason I started all this. Thanks for your upfront talk too. I like that. He is a demon that won't let go of me for awhile. My revenge was sweet and I felt totally justified in it. I laugh everytime I recall parts of it. The revenge that is. Hugs back sweet lady.

Just wanted to let you know that I cared! Really didn't want
to sound like a mom since I know how much I hate when my mother
starts on me!lol But, anytime you need to rant or talk I'm
always here and I won't judge I promise! Just be careful! I
still have never found my soulmate and doubt I ever will! I'm
with someone now, but soulmate, na~companion maybe! You don't
have to search either, things just happen when you least expect
it! Really, they do! Love, Opal

Thank you so much, Lovie!