Do you agree that take care of kids are the only mother duties?

Of course not. Dad also plays a main role for children's growth. Dad can make their children have a completed characters, such as the bravery, having the ambitions etc.

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Definatley not, I believe that the responsibility should be shared equally, even if the parents aren't together.

It takes two people to have a baby, not just one, so why should it all be left to the mother?

I disagree. Taking care of the kids is a shared responsibility. Both parents should be there for their children particularly during the growing up years. The mindset that the father's responsibility is only to provide for the needs of the family is already obsolete. Nowadays more and more fathers play an active part in child-rearing. Consequently, children who grow up with both parents around tend to develop positive personality. BTW, advanced Happy Fathers' Day to all the fathers out there, your day is very fast approaching.

I think it is dependent on the work the parents have.Nowadays,many couples have different jobs.Maybe the job father has is easy,so it is his turn to take care of baby.But if his work is very busy while mother's is easy.I think it will be the mother' duty.actually,both of them is busy in working,especially in big city,how can they choose to take care of kids in this situation?In China they will pick up kid's grandmother or grandfather.But if they not have grandpa or grandma,what shoule they choose?I feel puzzled.Is it wise to mother or father resign his work to look after a baby?

The father of my children works 14 hours or more a day (Saturdays Included) and trust me he brings home the bacon working hard to run his company. He also comes home and he is HANDS ON with the kids. There is an old saying I honestly believe in...."it takes two to make a baby, it takes the whole village to raise it". I am greatful he is such a great dad and he wants to be a father to his children and be there for them. He takes Sundays off and devotes himself the whole day to the family. The fathers out there who choose not to partake in raising, changing or whatever with or for their children are dead beat dads as far as I am concerned. Sorry, that's just how I see it.

Fortunately for me, my husband never felt this way. When our youngest (my fisrt)was born, he took 2 weeks off of work to stay home and help me. Then, even after he went back to work, he would still help with the changing, bathing, and feeding (when she wasn't nursing) of our baby. He would take her and play with her so that I could have a break when I needed...usually for me to take a hot bath or something like that.
I feel that it is the responsibility of both parents to care for their little ones. It wasn't just the mom who made the baby. The dad had his fun in helping out, so why shouldn't he help with the raising of?