can bestfriends turn into lovers?!?

love is an extended friendship...true friendship arrives when two people share common interest sharing and understanding...love also has all the above qualities ...hence i'd say true friends are highly suceptable to love bond...

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Well this is a tuff situation, whch needs to be handled by taking all pros and cons. Basically I feel both of them have stopped seeing each other because either of them is having some feeling which is not as usual which they used to share earlier. So I would suggest your friend to atleast give a try and tell her feeling, else for life long she will regret of not telling. There might be a chance that the other person also has the same feeling and hesitating to say, and this wiill lead to nowhere and both of them will only remain friends. So just give it a try and convience the other person that even if he don't have that feeling the friendship will remain as it is.

I believe that love starts with friendship. though it is a lot harder for your friend since she is the girl and usually its the guys who are suppose to make the first move. Its still up to her if she has the courage to ask him, they are, after all, quite close. I don't think there is anything wrong with her falling for him. At least once she is able to talk to him about it, she knows what to do, because it either moves to the next level or they just remain friends. she will not be left wondering how the guy feels about her and suffer in silence.

Friendship is Love, Love is Friendship. You can not have one with out the other. Sometimes, friends become lovers, then partners, then spouses. Sometimes it does not work out that way, and they end up hating each other. Sometimes, they make love once and the rest of the relationship never changes. Is it worth taking the chance to find out, of course. Once it is done, it is done. Then you know, better then worrying about what could have been. Cheers.

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it depends upon the situation because my wife is my best friend and lovers and we've been together for 7 years. if you are meant to be together, so be it.

I have seen in many cases, best friends turn to lovers. Love is based on foundation of friendship. Its best way to fall in love. She can tell the guy friend. If he likes also, they can take it to next level.

It is not necessary true that it can happen nor it can't happen.For this case,things are unpredictable and sometimes it just happens and we can't stop it no matter how hard we try.My best friend and I have been friends for 18 years now and we are still doing well though we dated once.It all happens very weirdly and I could say that it is by accident.During our college prom night I have no date and I would love to attend that event and coincidentally she was also looking a partner and hence we became partners for the night,and when we danced, a feeling that i never had for her pop up and there I know...everything changes,,,

It's either you set those two up or simply risk of let the flow go...or not. it's risky when some would admit their feelings to their friends. some loose each other in the end, and some retain their friendship. me, on the other started with a sexual relationship with my best friend and later we became lovers.

Well i would say love is the next step to friendship.
very very very good friends can be lover. Its because love is the way to care for each other. Its something that is more than just friendship, its all about dedication and respect for each other's feelings.

As in my case, my girlfriend and I met in a chat room, we chatted for 1and half year.. after that we became good friends, and one day i proposed her.. and now for the last 3 years we are in a closer relationship thats called love.


So i suggest you to tell the guy you love or else you will have to repent for your whole life that you lost him.