What will you do if your boyfriend/ girlfriend takes you for granted?

She should be gaining back her confidence and to know what she is worth I am sure she worth a lot for a guy who is taking her for granted everytimes. I would have already left him.

To love someone is very good but what if that person is ridiculing your love will you continue to love him! I would not because I trust myself and I love people in my surroundings too whom I cannot betray.

People who love me would see that I am being hurt by someone and they will be hurt too so I cannot hurt so many people just because ONLY ONE person is taking me for granted!

Hi wittytemptress, I think the best way is just be with her for a while, go out with her to enjoy life. When a person is in love it takes time for her to open up her mind what is the truth. Even she is hurting as long as she loves the person, she will still accept it, as long she loves him. Just let her think and make up her own mind. The absences of his boyfriend will just let the wounds heal and accept the truth that his boyfriend is not deserving her love at all. Just tell her to think and weigh things until when she could not really stand it anymore that is the time she could reason out what she feels to him to let go. Maybe deep inside her she is moving on and understanding the pain and the hurts she doesn't deserve too. Have a nice day to you!

"What will you do if your boyfriend/ girlfriend takes you for granted?"


Tell them to knock it off. Seriously, talking with your partner is the best option.

Her boyfriend was such a loser. He should not do that to his girlfriend. If he did not love the girl then better tell it as early as possible rather than leaving their relationship hanging around.You're friend should start to learn how to have the right courage for herself. If he really love that guy, set him free. Give him the happiness he wanted. If they are really meant for each other they would still be together in the end.

For now, start to move on. Enjoy life. Good luck to your friend. Hope that she found happiness in her life.

If the point came that I feel like my boyfriend is taking me for granted it's about time to talk to him how I feel so he would know how I was feeling. I do not think that breaking up is the solution, well not instantly.

I think your friends should talk to her boyfriend and tell him how she feels when he cancel their date or not visit here for days. The guy should know that what he is doing is causing someone pain and isn't right. If he doesn't make an effort despite the talks, help your friend by surrounding her with support and encouragement that she deserves better than him and what he is doing isn't right in a relationship. Involve her in activities she would have fun and not think about the guy. Take her out on a girls' night out or simply just hangout...I'm sure she would come to her senses after a few days. If a guy really is into a girl, he would find means to be with her...However, the initial step to do is to confront the guy and ask him why he is doing so...perhaps he has his own reasons, too.

I think that the lover hold each other's hands on the premise of loving between each other.now,obsolutely,the boy don't love her.so,breaking up is the best way to
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Frankly speaking, her boyfrined shouldn't treat her like that. Howevr, I don't think it means that the guy doesn't love the girl anymore. Sometimes, guys thinking is different from girl. I think she should talk to her boy friend. If the situation still continue, the I would advice her to break up with her boy friend. It takes time to recover. However, as her friend, you should always be by her side and give her support she she need it.

Well there should be certain reasons why we are taken for granted for sure and I will search for that reason before doing anything.Well, I think that when you find out the reasons why it all happen it is easier to make a move.Sometimes he or she is not ready to be in a relationship and hence doing things to show you that they are not ready as a signal of asking it to stop since they don't dare to say it in words. So maybe the relationship should be ended and being friends would be greater than now.That is based on my experience and opinion.

your friend doesn't deserve that guy... thinking about breakin' up is really painful but it would kill you slowly if you're just goin' to tolerate yourself to be engaged in a wrong relationship... she should accept the fact that the more she'll show to her boyfriend that she's weak, the more her boyfriend would find ways to hurt her.

i will simply give her some warnings and then if she persist in such a nasty act, i will simply stop calling her and seeing her and then she will realize that i mean my words an action, i have a girlfriend like that presently but i have stopped seeing her because she is slefish and will never listen