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myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,672 in relationships6 months ago

i have a problem how to face a girl that act like child, since she is child of my parents friend and we have meet about 1 years ago. I already tell her that i love her, and want to make a serious relationship and soon will getting marry. But my problem is, she act like a child not like adult people who falling in love and want to make a family. Both of our parents is already agree. Can you suggest me what should i do, to make her understand and act like adult people, i'm ready to get marry:(

 
 
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strawberrychocodahi (2471) response was accepted on 7/3/2009.
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tags:  forget getting married, no one can change anyone, she'd never be your equal, life, childish
 
11. myLot reputation of 88/100. strawberrychocodahi (2471)   ranked 2,006 out of 2,672 in relationships   6 months ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,672 in relationships  6 months ago

Yeah you are 100% correct describing her, may be because she living in the rich family and me i'm just ordinary people that must work hard everyday and people around me give me example how to live with their own family having child and so on. Now i'm getting sad to think about this:(


myLot reputation of 88/100. strawberrychocodahi (2471)   ranked 2,006 out of 2,672 in relationships  6 months ago

Thanks for that Best Response. I will add this too, a childish girl will always go back to parents when you two fight or have disagreements. She in that way is not capable to stand on her two feet to decide what is better for her. If she decided which to choose, you or her parents, she might choose her parents and sadly leave you behind. This is what I know so you better think seriously about getting married. Don't rush. If the rice is not yet cook, don't keep the flame off, leave it to steam for some time before you eat it.

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12. iamdolkar (2)   6 months ago

hey, firstly if she;s acting like a child may be because she sees u as somebody who;s elder than her and not in a lover way and she doesnt find the lover in u. If she doesnt take the relationship serious then i dont think she is ready for marriage, cos being a girl myself, i know that when u realise u find the right person to spend the rest of ur life with, u want that rest of the life to start as soon as possible, so u just have to give her time, and marriage is not something that u can force someone, so just be there for her if u love her, and try and get her into a good understanding relationship first. all the best.

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13. myLot reputation of 66/100. Jill22 (227)   6 months ago

You should give her the time to grow up. Being mature takes time. If you really love her then you are willing to wait. have patience. And if you're really love her, you should accept her for what she is and what she is not.


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,672 in relationships  6 months ago

Oh now, i'm 30 years old and i think i'm outdated to get marry and i don't want hear my son call me 'grandpa':(*duh*


myLot reputation of 66/100. Jill22 (227)  6 months ago

Well, the decision is still yours!

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14. ciocan_66 (76)   ranked 2,253 out of 2,672 in relationships   6 months ago

Talk to her!It's better to open to her than discuss this problem with us!
If that doesn't work punish her for a month!:))


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,672 in relationships  6 months ago

*lol* that will be hurt her, and i'm mr nice guy and i can't do that*for punish her* lol:D

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15. fyre505 (1)   6 months ago

Tell her that, ask her if shes ready for a serious relationship, if shes not, i hate to say but you should move on


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,672 in relationships  6 months ago

I already do that, and she never told me that she love me but i know that she love me from her moms*lol* she is very shy girl, what i can say now she is childish and very shy. My moms like her so much, both of our parents are agree the only problem is only her*duh*

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16. myLot reputation of 98/100. lingli_78 (10204)   ranked 385 out of 2,672 in relationships   6 months ago

ehmmm... this is a tough situation... have you actually sit down with her and ask her what she wants??? may be you are ready to get married but she is not... i am a woman and i don't like to be push to get married... so if you can sit down with her and ask her what she wants, may be you can get the answer from her why she is behaving so childishly... if it is because she is not ready yet to get married, then you just have to be patient and wait for her... good luck... take care and have a nice day...


myLot reputation of 93/100. logaritse (289)   ranked 254 out of 2,672 in relationships  6 months ago

hi lingli, thank you for your suggestion and yes i need that "luck":)

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17. myLot reputation of 87/100. vinkam (286)   6 months ago

congrats that ur love has been successful.First find out whether she acts like a child or is she childish.Its the nature of girls to act like a child in front of their boy friends.I dunno what problems does that cause you.anyhow tell her clearly what u want from her

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18. myLot reputation of 93/100. Capsicum (839)   ranked 49 out of 2,672 in relationships   6 months ago

She will grow out of it.Alot of girls put on a sweet innocent voice to entice boys/men. Once she realizes that no one else is speaking this way anymore she will also grow out of it. No worries you will marry a women not a child.

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