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Unfair star rating and mean people, Why bother? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com6 months ago

I find this extremely telling. I was going to give positive rating to a couple people who currently have really low star rankings because I thought they were giving me a good debate. Today I found MY star number had dropped, likely because of them! (I'm sure I didn't tick anyone else off.)

Why do people do this? Disagreeing with someone is the fundamental GREATNESS of MyLot. If we get into a heated debate, it drives our income here. Conflict shuld be rewarded.

AND, whatever happened to, "I don't agree with what you say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it"? Are we so afraid of other's opinions that even here, where our debate is likely only a source of amusement for others and not likely to change anyone's mind, we have to aggressively discredit our "opponents"?

What do you think causes this? And, do you think we should get rid of the stars?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 68/100. lovesexmoneymaker (105)   ranked 9,466 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

I have always tick all discussion positive and i have never realize about the stars, but anyways what do the stars do? I think the star are overrated anyways so cheer up my friend. If it is any consolation i think your cool actually so i am going to add you as my friend. Cheers and happy Mylotting!


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Thank you. I look forward to reading your posts!

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. rainmark (3698)   ranked 683 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Well that's also happened to me, you notice my star sometimes goes down and goes up. Thanks to the people who rated me positive. Well anyway, just don't be bothered, stars didn't do anything for our earnings here, it's to cheer us here to continue myloting, and don't mind those people who gives you negative rate. Just continue myloting and one day you will increase your ratings.
cheers.


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

I just think it was so wrong in this case because I was just about to give them positive feedback. I was so frustrated. Thanks for the note.

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3. myLot reputation of 19/100. pmbhuntress (699)   ranked 19,108 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

I have noticed along with others that some folks have been using the negative alot lately. This will cause them a problem as well as you. Do not give folks like that a positive if you see they are very low, they also may be a part of that problem. By using the - we can also make our stars go down. so it can harm us. Therefore its always best not to even touch it. Yet those using it will be going down to. So when you see there stars going down you will know then and there they are using it in a bad way.

Someone made mine go down as well awhile back because they followed me around and gave me - marks, but it is now back up there. But they also saw theres going down and wondered why. Its from abusing the - mark.


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

I like the way you wrote that, it makes it sound so ominous, "the mark".
I won't let it get to me too much. Thanks.


myLot reputation of 19/100. pmbhuntress (699)   ranked 19,108 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

It seems like I got me some negative yesterday just for replying in a post about smoking, from now on I will be staying away from stuff like that. That so ticked me off. Even with real facts out there they wont freaken listen. Yet just because I said some folks enjoy having a smoke. They gave me a - mark. So I may end up back at a 6 real soon.

In school our teacher taught us that those are called marks not ratings, it does sound bad, but that is there true names. If you go back to school days.

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4. myLot reputation of 75/100. aditya_k85 (432)   ranked 4,152 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Do not give much importance to the star number you have. It does not make anyone good or bad. Having a high star does not mean that the person is great and also having a low star does not make a person small. Just keep posting whatever you feel and enjoy yourself without bothering about star ratings. My star number was 4 earlier now it has increased to 7 and it will fluctuate again I'm sure. As far as getting rid of stars is concerned, that is not a bad idea but it is totally in the hands of mylot admin.
enjoy postingthumbuphappy


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Thanks. I don't like to be considered "bad"sad. I guess I'm just a little neurotic that way!

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5. myLot reputation of 79/100. spalladino (8992)   ranked 3,467 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

It's the POWER I say! Some folks are drunk of the power of the "-" button! w00t

I have had my star go up and down...and up and down again...because some folks didn't agree with what I posted. I don't believe the star ranking serves any purpose other than giving folks something to talk about once in awhile.

(I'll plus your discussion....cause I have DA POWER!) thumbup


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

I believe you may have seen some of the discussions I've been in lately. I know I wasn't well received by our political "friends" but I thought debate was supposed to be part of the fun. rasp

Anyway, I'm refuse to be drunk with power yet. I'll save my He-Man impression for Halloween. lol


myLot reputation of 82/100. debrakcarey (1351)   ranked 2,391 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

So, I shouldn't feel sorry for people with low 'marks' and rate them +? lol

I guess I am just to sympathetic that way. I also despise injustice and running around hitting the - because of personality or a disagreement with opinion is just not fair. But then life is not FAIR is it? I observed the number and color changing on mine ....but since I've talked it out....I feel better. Glad to see that most do not take things personal...I so love a good debate.:)

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. rosekiss (4194)   ranked 814 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

I don't understand why some users will rate others negative just because they disagree with them. I have heard others say, that mylot doesn't want us to rate another user negatibr just because we don't agree. We all have a right to our opinion whether right or wrong. If we can't do that, then there is sure something wrong with our society. I don't rate anyone negative if I don't agree with them. I just don't rate them at all. I rate all positives. Every discussion I respond to, everyone will get a positive from me. I had a low rating for the longest time, then all of a sudden it started going up and still going up. I am glad that people think enough of my responses to rate them positive. Good luck to you and happy mylotting. happy


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

I'm sure it is only a few people struggling to find a voice in a troubled world . . . or they are @#$%-heads! lol

Thanks for responding!

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7. myLot reputation of 62/100. mkrishna22 (413)   ranked 9,833 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

well, that is really unfortunate .

i am sure it will slowly make its way up. cheer up and do not really worry about it.

Happy mylotting.


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

You are a bright, cheerful person. I appreciate the good thoughts!

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8. myLot reputation of 68/100. robert67 (1341)   ranked 6,285 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

the rating system is totally unfair, we should only be allowed to rate comments on our own responses or responses on our own discussions, this would stop the trolls from rating a whole discussions worth of our posts negative.

i agree with what you're saying, we need a good debate to keep a discussion alive and unless we are rude to someone or belittle someone we should not expect a negative rating.

anyone who gives an unusual amount of negative ratings to one person in a short space of time should have their rating capability disabled.


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Yes. I've seen too many discussions that don't go anywhere becaue it seems to just be the friends of the poster agreeing with them and noone else seems welcome. Oh well.

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. clorissa123 (3621)   ranked 2,859 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

Pretty frustrating, wasn't it? I felt the same, once my star rating was on 9, and the next day, it was dropped to 8. Without a reason, or understanding, my star was rated negatively by someone who I didn't really know. I might offended them in my posting, or whatever reason. But, I posted what I want to say in my mind, and I never meant to curse someone, or badmouthed to anybody here. We should get rid of star rating.


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

It seems silly. I wonder if there is a MyLot administrator's report that shows how many negatives a person gives out? Other than the stars, we are pretty much self regulating on here and we know who we want to avoid so if the stars are just going to be used for spite, I fail to see the point in them anymore.


myLot reputation of 82/100. debrakcarey (1351)   ranked 2,391 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

I can understand that those that have enjoyed the higher ratings and then drop down (for no good reason) would be upset.

I have not used the - rating. I felt and still do that that should be for a person who threatens or flames or who is obviously (not just in my meager opinion) but very blatantly being hateful to the poster. I don't consider a difference of opinion to be reason for rating low. I do feel sorry for those who use it spitefully...they're missing the whole point of the site and must really suffer from low self esteem.

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10. myLot reputation of 68/100. la_chique (350)   ranked 19,047 out of 32,470 in mylot.com   6 months ago

I think the stars are pretty pointless to be honest. I just speak my mind alot of the time, but I have seen people try to gang up on me because of it. I enjoy the political debates on here, and I think its a shame that others bother coming on here get so offended by people disagreeing with them. As far as I'm concerned, everyone else can think whatever they like. I'm not changing my opinions unless I get a really good reason to. I'd far prefer people to have a constructive argument with me than just give me a bad rating because they dont like the fact that I have a mind of my own.

Totally agree that ML should get rid of the stars, or at least remove the rating options from more controversial categories.


myLot reputation of 75/100. heathcliff (791)   ranked 267 out of 32,470 in mylot.com  6 months ago

Yeh, check my comments above. I appreciate you responding and giving your "2 cents"!

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