Unfair star rating and mean people, Why bother?  |
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I find this extremely telling. I was going to give positive rating to a couple people who currently have really low star rankings because I thought they were giving me a good debate. Today I found MY star number had dropped, likely because of them! (I'm sure I didn't tick anyone else off.)
Why do people do this? Disagreeing with someone is the fundamental GREATNESS of MyLot. If we get into a heated debate, it drives our income here. Conflict shuld be rewarded.
AND, whatever happened to, "I don't agree with what you say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it"? Are we so afraid of other's opinions that even here, where our debate is likely only a source of amusement for others and not likely to change anyone's mind, we have to aggressively discredit our "opponents"?
What do you think causes this? And, do you think we should get rid of the stars?
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1. lovesexmoneymaker (105) | 6 months ago | I have always tick all discussion positive and i have never realize about the stars, but anyways what do the stars do? I think the star are overrated anyways so cheer up my friend. If it is any consolation i think your cool actually so i am going to add you as my friend. Cheers and happy Mylotting!
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heathcliff (791) | 6 months ago | Thank you. I look forward to reading your posts!
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2. rainmark (3698) | 6 months ago | Well that's also happened to me, you notice my star sometimes goes down and goes up. Thanks to the people who rated me positive. Well anyway, just don't be bothered, stars didn't do anything for our earnings here, it's to cheer us here to continue myloting, and don't mind those people who gives you negative rate. Just continue myloting and one day you will increase your ratings. cheers.
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heathcliff (791) | 6 months ago | I just think it was so wrong in this case because I was just about to give them positive feedback. I was so frustrated. Thanks for the note.
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3. pmbhuntress (699) | 6 months ago | I have noticed along with others that some folks have been using the negative alot lately. This will cause them a problem as well as you. Do not give folks like that a positive if you see they are very low, they also may be a part of that problem. By using the - we can also make our stars go down. so it can harm us. Therefore its always best not to even touch it. Yet those using it will be going down to. So when you see there stars going down you will know then and there they are using it in a bad way.
Someone made mine go down as well awhile back because they followed me around and gave me - marks, but it is now back up there. But they also saw theres going down and wondered why. Its from abusing the - mark.
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heathcliff (791) | 6 months ago | I like the way you wrote that, it makes it sound so ominous, "the mark". I won't let it get to me too much. Thanks.
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pmbhuntress (699) | 6 months ago | It seems like I got me some negative yesterday just for replying in a post about smoking, from now on I will be staying away from stuff like that. That so ticked me off. Even with real facts out there they wont freaken listen. Yet just because I said some folks enjoy having a smoke. They gave me a - mark. So I may end up back at a 6 real soon.
In school our teacher taught us that those are called marks not ratings, it does sound bad, but that is there true names. If you go back to school days.
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debrakcarey (1351) | 6 months ago | So, I shouldn't feel sorry for people with low 'marks' and rate them +? lol
I guess I am just to sympathetic that way. I also despise injustice and running around hitting the - because of personality or a disagreement with opinion is just not fair. But then life is not FAIR is it? I observed the number and color changing on mine ....but since I've talked it out....I feel better. Glad to see that most do not take things personal...I so love a good debate.:)
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7. mkrishna22 (413) | 6 months ago | well, that is really unfortunate .
i am sure it will slowly make its way up. cheer up and do not really worry about it.
Happy mylotting.
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heathcliff (791) | 6 months ago | You are a bright, cheerful person. I appreciate the good thoughts!
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8. robert67 (1341) | 6 months ago | the rating system is totally unfair, we should only be allowed to rate comments on our own responses or responses on our own discussions, this would stop the trolls from rating a whole discussions worth of our posts negative.
i agree with what you're saying, we need a good debate to keep a discussion alive and unless we are rude to someone or belittle someone we should not expect a negative rating.
anyone who gives an unusual amount of negative ratings to one person in a short space of time should have their rating capability disabled.
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heathcliff (791) | 6 months ago | Yes. I've seen too many discussions that don't go anywhere becaue it seems to just be the friends of the poster agreeing with them and noone else seems welcome. Oh well.
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9. clorissa123 (3621) | 6 months ago | Pretty frustrating, wasn't it? I felt the same, once my star rating was on 9, and the next day, it was dropped to 8. Without a reason, or understanding, my star was rated negatively by someone who I didn't really know. I might offended them in my posting, or whatever reason. But, I posted what I want to say in my mind, and I never meant to curse someone, or badmouthed to anybody here. We should get rid of star rating.
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heathcliff (791) | 6 months ago | It seems silly. I wonder if there is a MyLot administrator's report that shows how many negatives a person gives out? Other than the stars, we are pretty much self regulating on here and we know who we want to avoid so if the stars are just going to be used for spite, I fail to see the point in them anymore.
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debrakcarey (1351) | 6 months ago | I can understand that those that have enjoyed the higher ratings and then drop down (for no good reason) would be upset.
I have not used the - rating. I felt and still do that that should be for a person who threatens or flames or who is obviously (not just in my meager opinion) but very blatantly being hateful to the poster. I don't consider a difference of opinion to be reason for rating low. I do feel sorry for those who use it spitefully...they're missing the whole point of the site and must really suffer from low self esteem.
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10. la_chique (350) | 6 months ago | I think the stars are pretty pointless to be honest. I just speak my mind alot of the time, but I have seen people try to gang up on me because of it. I enjoy the political debates on here, and I think its a shame that others bother coming on here get so offended by people disagreeing with them. As far as I'm concerned, everyone else can think whatever they like. I'm not changing my opinions unless I get a really good reason to. I'd far prefer people to have a constructive argument with me than just give me a bad rating because they dont like the fact that I have a mind of my own.
Totally agree that ML should get rid of the stars, or at least remove the rating options from more controversial categories.
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heathcliff (791) | 6 months ago | Yeh, check my comments above. I appreciate you responding and giving your "2 cents"!
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