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myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life7 months ago

There has been so many instances where someone has killed someone or taken custody of someone for nothing more than money. Why? Is there really that much importance in money that you would sacrifice your happiness, morals or child's happiness for it? I am not a saint by any means. However, I am a mother, an aunt, a sister, a godmother, and a friend of many children. I love children. THey are our future. I have recently read that the woman who had Michael Jacksons two older children now seeks custody. What about them? their needs and wants? Most importantly what about the other, third child that isnt hers? Why would you want to separate them? Its a known fact that after the not guilty finding in the child molestation case she hasnt seen them since. Its clear that she has no real interest in being a mother. Why is she doing this? MONEY! I see it alot. Look at people who kill people they dont even know for money. Is it that important? Right now I am unemployed. I havent had any money of my own in a month. My fiance, thank god, is paying all my bills and his. When he's finished he is broke. I havent been able to save money because I used it when we had the fire last year and lost everything.It is tough and yes, I cry alot. I never once thought of hurting someone or selling a child because I needed money. How about you? How far would you go?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. learn2earn (11075)   ranked 427 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

These days are difficult times and yes, there are a lot of people who go as far as those that you described just to have money. But it is not the worst yet. The worst is yet to come - the tribulation period. People would be killing each other for survival and there will be chaos all over the world. The tribulation period would be the worst that man has never experienced! As of now, I can't do bad things just to have money. We can never prosper by doing things that hurt others!lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

As much as I would like to disagree with you, I cant. The sad part is that I am constantly hearing people act as if they are shocked by the goings on these days. The people we have elected to protect us and speak for us, as well as, set a good example are the ones disgracing us. If we cant trust them and believe in them, why should we bother. Society has given up. For example, I teach my children not to litter. The other day we were walking the dogs and my daughter went to throw something away and her friend said "throw it on the ground" Of course she didnt. She explained that to her friend that if we keep littering we wont have a place to walk our dogs or breathe fresh air. Her friend replied youre one person. Later that evening I was thinking about the incident and it is true. One person cant do it alone. If we all trust each other and work together it will work. As a society, we are untrusting of each other due to past experiences. Thats why the only thing that is guaranteed is the value of the almighty dollar. In difficult times instead of pulling together as they did in past centuries, we hoard as much as we can. I dont think we will ever change that. ITS TOO LATE. I still do things even if others dont. I know in my heart what I hold dearly. That's all I can do. I pray every night that things get better. If they dont at least I can say I tried. dl

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7279)   ranked 461 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

I think we should never compare us lesser mortals with such illustrious celebrities!rolleyes They are in that strata of society where money is akin to oxygen, dear! It’s a completely different world…our emotions and thoughts and understandings in no way similar…so no point in thinking how far I would go for money! I would never ever in my wildest dream have any scope of coming into so much money…so why torture myself by building castles in the air!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

You are correct that they do walk a different line than we do. However, that is because that's how society has deemed it. When all the dust clears the rules are the same. I do know what you mean with celebrities and money. Unfortunately money buys anything. This is true. Money cant buy the way your conscience feels. Money cant buy your childrens love. Some believe it that it can. In the end, we all know it wont. Most of us wont ever even come close to have gazillions of dollars. We have our dignity. Our power to decide. Unless we choose to be weak, no one can take that away. It is up to all of us especially the up and coming celebrities, politicians, etc to make an effort to do the right thing no matter what the numbers in the bank accounts read. What will happen when its all gone? If they were smart they would keep their dignity, and teach their loved ones to follow the examples they set forth. Time will truly tell.... To be honest as long as people put such a high value on money we will always have crime, evilness, and hate. I guess I answered my own questions. Thanks for your help friend! dl

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3. myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16451)   ranked 2,078 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

Yes I have followed the news. The mother just wants mother. Till date she did not cared for the children. they were like none to her. Again she is trying to separate them from the youngest one. its sad,


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

I totally agree. It is really sad that legally she does have a little more leverage than anyone else because she is the biological mother. According to what they are saying ever since the not guilty finding she hasnt seen the children. That's what 3-4 years ago. Regardless she signed away her rights, reinstated them for the trial, never even went to see them after. Its sad to think that just because she is biologically a mother that she can get children that dont even really know her. I dont think I would want to live with a woman, who is my biological mom and got paid to stay away. She could've said NO on the cash and maintained a quiet loving relationship with her kids. Even if MJ made it difficult, she has rights in a court of law. Where MJ is concerned its not secret that the courts have treated him just like everyone else. No preferential treatment there. SHe had him by the balls. If he has them. Does he? that's another discussion.lolBottom line is that I would die if my children had even an idea that I wanted money more than them. That's human nature for a mother to protect her children. When has she ever stepped up to the plate? Only when it would make her look good. It is said she hasnt even tried to contact them. What has the world come to.....dl

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. moonbutters1 (462)   ranked 1,680 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

Actually it is the LOVE of money, not money in itself that is the root of all evil. That's scripture.
But I do agree with you about what the love of money can do to people. I'm no ones judge, but it does appear that this woman is stepping up for some reason other than simply wanting her children. She gave them up in a court "settlement" and now wants to reclaim them? Pleeezzzzzz . blink
As for me, I would work hard for money in order to have a better life, but to sell myself out, no. After all, at the end of the day,where ever you are You have to live with You. So my advise, take a look in the mirror and see if you really like the person looking back at you .

This is Not at you dloveli!! I'm sure you'r a wonderfull person . happy These are just my thoughts on the subject.

Hugs,

moonbutters


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Thanks Moon! I dont take it personally. I understand what you're getting at. It is sad to say but I dont think there is a person alive that doesnt love money. When I selected the topic I assumed that people would get what I was trying to say. I am sorry if I confused anyone. I am just saying that I would hope that where children are involved people would make an exception as far as the the green-eyed monster was concerned. The mother of MJ's children had to know from the beginning he didnt want her for love. It was plain to see that even after they were married it was all about the pregnancy. Is she really that naive. I think she is a very intelligent woman. Maybe she just wants to prove that despite what the tabloids say about the family having the power, she wants to show them. I am sure they didnt welcome her with open arms. I dont think I have ever heard them speak of her. I have researched Michael Jackson since I was a child. There's not much I dont know as far as he is concerned. I think she is doing this just because. Who knows maybe MJ did keep her away. But with all the hoopla surrounding his every move, I would find it hard to believe that no one would have leaked it to the tabloids for a few bucks. His staff and friends are doing it with everything else. Who knows really? I dont think she wants them to be a mother. Just me talking. dl


myLot reputation of 93/100. moonbutters1 (462)   ranked 1,680 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

thumbupThank you for understanding my comment.
My daughter has been a MJ fan since "Thiller" . lol Long time ago.
Myself, I think aside from all the fame, if nothing else can be said about him, he was a H*ll of a performer and practicly invented coriogophy. ( Spelling).

Hugs,happy

moonbutters

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5. myLot reputation of 36/100. Caylaxx (102)   ranked 14,942 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

Yeah I read about that on the internet as well just the other day. It makes me so mad, she just seems like a purely selfish woman who is after nothing but money.

I don't have children myself but I know I would never but money before their own needs. I have a gorgeous little nephew and I would do anything for him. Some people are just so god damn selfish!


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

YOU'VE HAVE SAID IT ALL! My friend. Its public record that Debbie Rowe herself has stated that MJ was awesome with the kids. Most importantly how can she live with herself if she separates the two from their brother. Havent they lost enough? SHAME on her. What goes around, comes around. I truly believe she will be held accountable for any/all wrongs she has and will do. If she is doing it out of love, that's a different story. dl

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6. myLot reputation of 80/100. aikhong (498)   ranked 3,210 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

I see, you really had have a tough time before, when you're in the predicament of lacking money to use. Wish you all the best, may you will go through all these difficulties soon.
It is true that money plays an important role in this world, and in our life. It is the thing needed to enable all the tradings going on. Why are we all people working hard, why people would find their ways to get this money, no matter how. All these are due to the reality, without money we can't survive.
However, it is even more important that we get to earn money in a proper way. It shouldn't be get the money by cheating others, harm or even kill others for it. No matter how difficult or how tough life can be, we still should not betray the kindness of ourselves and do all the bad things in order to get money, or to have a better living.
To have more money is good, but it is even better we have it in the proper way, and just live a simple and contented life. happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Thanks for the kind words my friend. You have said it all! I totally agree. Its sad that money has literally taken on a life of its own. If you have no money, you are considered less than. What about the people that have money and have no morality. People like myself who speak on it our wrong or jealous because we have none. I am going thru the most difficult time in my life right now. My daughter has cancer and I am out of work broke. I love my kids. We talk and spend time together. Because I cant afford medications and other things, I am bad. What about all the times I have given more than I should. Where are the people to help me. NOWHERE. And to be honest with you, I cry every night that by me not having employment will cause my daughter's illness to progress and I will not be able to afford meds she needs. This is the scaredest I have ever felt. I wish that all those who look upon children as meal tickets could walk a mile in my shoes. dl

 
7. myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (17294)   ranked 284 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

I wouldnt kill for money! sometimes it just takes love to make do.
Love is real money just paper


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Great point as always Lakota! You are correct. Money cant buy love.Lust maybe. I think it is great if you have it. Use it wisely. DOnt let it control you. If you did kill for money. Maybe you might not be lucky enough to let it get you out of it. Its not always a blessing to be wealthy. So Ive heard!. I must admit I would like to find that out for myself. RIght now I am literally struggling everyday.I must've applied for over 200 jobs. The economy is killing me. I am still here with my family. I love them no matter how hard life is. Money is just paper. dl


myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (17294)   ranked 284 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

My daughter has only worked 2 short job calls in 2 years so keep pluging.
I have saw these lotto winner that win big most are dead now alot from ODing and some in car wrecks
but I too would like to now what it would feel to win something big like that!

 
8. myLot reputation of 91/100. cobra1368 (518)   ranked 3,124 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

Girl, I am like you. I would NEVER go so far as to hurt someone else to get it, or even steal it from someone. That just isn't right. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night!

However, I was very recently a victim of someone that is very greedy. My mother's husband. She died a month ago today, and her husband not only treated me like crap and kicked me out of my mother's house on the day of her funeral, but he also physically let me out the front door with some things I had taken of my mother's (because I felt so unwelcome and uncomfortable there that I had decided I was never coming back). THEN, he started bullying me through various family members, telling them that I stole from him and if I didn't give the stuff back, he was filing a police report on me!

He just wanted the stuff so he could sell it. He waited a whole six days after her death to put her car on Craigslist. Doesn't sound like someone mourning their wife to me.

So, long story short, he did get the police involved and I had a seargent calling me to try to work it out. I ended up sending the stuff I took to my mother's husband, only I sent it C.O.D. which means in order for him to get it, he would have to pay for it. I knew he wouldn't because it is all about the money with him and the shipping charge was WAY more expensive than what he could have sold the stuff for!

So I paid over $100 to ship that stuff to him, only to have him reject it and send it back! The cops told him, much to his dismay, that they couldn't control how I shipped the items and if he chooses to reject the package, then that is it. The case is closed and the police were not planning on pursuing criminal charges on me.

This man is the greediest, cheapest man I know, and the sentimental stuff of my mother's that I took from her house means way more than $100 to me, so I was happy to pay it in order to get it back.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Cobra I am so sorry you had to go thru that! I really and truly mean that. I lost my mom too so I know how hard it is. Especially when you know that the ones who supposedly loved her only want the money. You were so smart in sending it C.O.D.! I wouldnt have thought of that. How dare he! I honestly believe that greed consumes people. I promise you Karma is a BIT**! He'll get his without you doing anything. dont worry my friend. This I am sure! It may not happen today. It will happen! I PROMISE.....dl


myLot reputation of 91/100. cobra1368 (518)   ranked 3,124 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Thanks. happy My best friend and I said the exact same thing regarding karma. I just hope I am around to see it happen to him.

I am such a nice person, but when someone puts me through something like that, I have these vivid visions of that person dying a horrible, painful death and me feeling great about it. I'm sure it is horrible to wish for the death of anyone, but there are some people that just deserve it, you know? People that have no regard for the feelings of others, and of course people who have no regard for others period. Murderers, rapists, and the like. None of them deserve to occupy this planet. My mother's husband, while not a murderer, rapist or any other serious criminal, cares about no one but himself. He has devastated my whole family, and I would love to watch him pay for it.

I guess there lies a little psychosis in everyone. lol Thanks for the kind words! thumbup

 
9. myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (8423)   ranked 2,469 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

Not That Far! Money is the root of all evil. I realize that people have times when they lose all of their money, and I realize that they have times when something happens and there's a custody battle, or when someone owes another money and then violence comes into the mix. I, however, have not had money for two years really. We have our money from mylot, and money we've recently been getting for helping out family members, but other then that my fiance and I are broke. Luckily we have his parents to support us, but even if we didn't, we would never do anything to each other, anyone we loved or even a complete stranger just for money. It's called hard work and it comes in many forms, lol, I think what happens is some people don't think to work hard to get back on their feet. I appreciate the response.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

Boy can I relate. It will get better. I am going thru the same thing. I barely keep my head above water. You are not alone. You are lucky to have parents to help. We have no one. In some ways I think in our case its better this way. My family has a tendency to remind you and everyone what they did. I couldnt bare to have it thrown in my face! Have faith my friend and I will say a little prayer for you and yours. I think that helping people is good for all. It makes everyone feel good. And to all the greedy people, Thanks anyways! dl


myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (8423)   ranked 2,469 out of 38,533 in life  6 months ago

I can understand. I've known people to remind others of their good deeds. I can understand they want the respect and attention, but it's so annoying when it's overdone. We know that they did something, and it's great they did, but reminding could only hurt, especially if it's constant " I did this for you, you do this for me! " or " I did this for you, pay me back!"

lol.

 
10. myLot reputation of 98/100. savypat (7887)   ranked 113 out of 38,533 in life   7 months ago

When you come down to it money is just paper, it's what it can buy that is so important to people, power is one of the most attractive things. I only need enough to feed, cloth and house myself and my family including animals. If I have more I just give it away where needed.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dloveli (1013)   ranked 123 out of 38,533 in life  7 months ago

I only wish everyone was like you. Unfortunately they arent. Its sad really. I dont worry about things I dont have. I focus on what I do have. You know its not bad really. As long as I have my home and family, I am good. I would love a job though. I would sweep the street if I could. dl

 
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