why some men have mistress?

im sad because i always i heard to my mother in law my father in law have mistress.. every time argument all neighbored heard..

There are many possible ways of in that aspect. But for me once I have a wife, I don't like that happen. I don't like to have a mistress. It's not sweeter than to be with your partner.

Some reason is that the wife itself. Maybe the wife has secret, where his husband found it. maybe her husband is really that womanizer. Maybe her husband not satisfy for their love making that find some extra love from other woman?

I can't really emphasize here the major reasons but I hope this will give you some views on particular issue

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i can sooooo much relate to this situation...not that i'm the mistress.it just so happens that my partner had a mistress..to tell you the truth, i almost left him for good..but then due to my religious beliefs i had to give him another chance..not that i wanted to at that time.but anyway, to answer your question why men have mistresses,well i guess i just have to believe the saying that men are born polygamous.hard as it may seem to accept,with all the stories of husbands-cheating-on-wives, you just have to deal with the fact that maybe it is true.but i don't believe in men's reasoning that they cheated because there's something that their wives cannot give them that they get from another woman..it's all crap!!nobody's perfect..if that reason is valid then every husband, or wife for that matter, would have affairs.that's not reason enough to go cheating on your partners.and you have to take into consideration the other woman involved..i mean, how can your friend go into that relationship knowing that the guy has a wife..i know this may hurt your friend, but it's the truth.and the truth always hurts..does she really believe that the guy loves her sincerely?did she at any point think about the hurt that it would cause the wife when she finds out about their affair?i don't mean to sound hateful towards your friend, but whether she admits it or not, she's at fault here too..so what advice can i give her? perhaps she should examine herself and find out if her conscience can carry the guilt that she is ruining a family, be it deliberate or not..tell her to have some self-respect and find herself a decent man who can rightfully give her the love she deserves.think about this..if that man can cheat on his legal wife, then what can stop him to cheat on his mistress?i'm sure you wouldn't want your friend to get hurt.

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Men may hold the excuses like terrible relationships with his family,capblilty to support tow wives or so called work stress. I think it is the synonym with lack of responsibility,sincerity and respect.
For girls, it is wise to stay away from married men.Even if he promised to diveroce and really do so,please remember today he can leave his family for you,tomorrow he may abandon you and kids just for another women.If he would like to keep your relationship in secret,it is possible that when he and his family are enjoying the beautiful snushine in Hawaii,you are having your abortion operation and is blamed by those orgnizations.
Just forget about that man and stay away from married men.

There are many reasons why a married men becomes attracted towards other ladies, first is if they are ignored at home, or if their is no mental compatibility with wife. I know many married couples who live together for the sake of their children and out of habit otherwise there is no compatibility.

men have mistresses for several reasons and in most cased they do such things when there is a conflict between them and their partners, lack of communication often result in men going for mistresses, so also lack of trust, it will be ideal if you can talk to your friend and discuss if she is having some issues to resolve with her boyfriend and you will see what i am talking about

I just watched a Tagalog movie wherein the husband deserted the wife and the kid for another woman. This seems to be ordinary. Husbands leaving their wives. But what is the real reason for it. I guess it is man's ego. They would still want to prove that they are still attractive to the opposite s.e.x, adulterous relationship begins. Others say that that they have gotten bored with the relationship. I think that men are by nature polygamous, no offense meant.