why some men have mistress?

nosey

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I cant answer that really other then to say they dont take their vows seriously and are scum in my opinion. I think one thing is too, why did she think it was good to be the other woman? For whatever reason they both thought that this was an alright thing to do and it wasnt and isnt.

I remember reading somewhere that men hardly ever leave their wives for the other woman. As the other woman is basically like a side dish. Convenient when they want a little fun or whatever. I hope this showed her what happens when you play the other woman.

Men cheat for many reasons but I think the most important reason is the fact that they are not completely happy in their current relationships. The man/women is not good in bed, can't cook, is lazy, selfish, or etc and their partners seeks that missing quality in someone else.

I also have been in the same situation two years ago. My bf told me that he was divorced a long time ago and was going to buy a house here for me. Suddenly out of the blue, I tried to call him why he was overseas. A woman answered the phone and I thought its his secretary. She asked me some questions if I spend intimate moments with him. I figured out that its his wife. I heard her from the background that she is going to divorce him because he is cheating her again. My bf called me and told me to call his wife's cellphone and tell her that its just a lie. I told him that I will not do it since I didn't lie to him ever since and he will just make things more complicated. I broke up with him and never spoke to him since then. I don't know why men do such things like that even their wife is almost perfect. It seems that men don't have any satisfaction with themselves. Only a few are honest men and rare to find.