Do you have a major dislike with a certain person or with your neighbor?

hello neelianoscet! when i am still in my place of birth living with my parents, there our house is surrounded by many neighbors...all in all we have a very nice relationship with them for most of them are our relatives...but sometimes we also get some troubles with them especially when there's a new boarder on the other house or sometimes we get trouble from some neighbors from other family... the usual cause of troubles is gossip! and some people who are talking at your back and seems that talking about our life is their joy...that really pisses us off! i also don't like neighbors who make loud noise...like always yelling and playing their sounds soooo loud! its a disturbance for the community! some of our neighbors dislikes us coz maybe they are envy of you, insecure and just nothing to do with their lives... how we deal with these kind of people...well we just ignore them and their actions as long as it does not hurt us...but when they are getting too much that is the time that we talk to them to fix things out! as much as possible we always want to have a very good relationship with them coz time will come or in some times and situation they will be the one who will help us and its very nice to live in a place where everybody is our friend or if not at least we are in good terms with them...that gives us a peaceful environment, peaceful life and mind... just keep on being good to them...its normal for neighbors to have some misunderstandings sometimes and well, we can't really please everybody... just pray for them! hehehe

i have a lot of noisy and nosy neighbors do i wish everyday they disappears as they are a bunch of gossiper and fun of talking anything from entertainment scandals, to religion , to the government and even talk about their neighbors. This people do those things because they have no jobs and really a nosy neighbors who always mind the business of other people.

I don't ave neighbors who act like this but some other ppl I know do have this habit. It can be very annoying sometimes to have terrible neighbors. Mine just come and ask for whatever they please often. This puts me off and I choose whether to invite them home or not. Some of my neighbors are rather nosy too, they nearly always ask me about the parties or gatherings we have at home and then want to know everything in detail. I make sure not to entertain such ppl often, it only puts me off!

Oh i got a neighbor back in philippines in our subdivision. She really fan of spreading gossips, everytime we had a chit chat, she has always telling you what's new! what's new gossip, as in fresh gossips early in the morning. So i am so cautious to tell her about my life and etc coz she will going to starts rumour about and i don't like it. Cheers.

I don't believe to be indulge in all these things. I have many neighbors around but I love to be at home working or engaging myself mylotting. I don't gossip much with these person. I know many people who gossip about others but I don't respond to those people. I am just busy in my life. I love freedom and I lead my life freely. I don't interact with them at all. I meet them rarely say no..occasionally on festivals or in someone's wedding party.

I am student and i spend most of my times in the hostel but there are nosy people everywhere. There is this person called Amir, he always poke shis nose into my private matters, that is particularly, he also sort of spies on others to get information that he can use to cook stories and insult them. I sometimes hate him from the depth of my heart when he tells out some of my deep secrets. I don't how he will come to know of it but he goes gossiping like a woman. Anyhow I do feel pity for him at times though, you cannot hate a person for his character can you? I just accept people the way they are.

I have a colleague who is nosey. I have developed a certain bad feeling towards this person and I cannot help myself to overcome this situation. i try to be in less contact with this person. But I just try to be polite and not trepass the boundary line of a professional colleague

Thats the thing that I hate with our neighbors. I don't talk to them, I just pass on them everyday and they always spread gossips about me which aren't true. There was a time that me and my mother got into a big argument just because of some rumors about me. I don't have to change my attitudes towards my neighbors as they don't do any good thing to me, I don't care to anybody who doesn't care about me. I have a helping hand to anyone who deserves it. I try not to do anything wrong to anybody as I am an assertive person but if I have done something wrong, I would apologize directly to the person. Those gossipers don't have an interesting life of their own so they make gossips on other people's lives. Their souls will be burned in hell someday hahaha

I too have a nosey neighbour, who wants to know everything that I do and who wants me to share each and everything. It was okay when it comes to kids, but when it comes to something more personal I dislike it and I started avoiding her. Slowly she started telling stories about me with the knowledge she have gained earlier. This became a great problem and I have to face inquistive questions from other neighbours, but they learnt slowly that those were tales spun by her. And now she have no friends amongst the neighbours but we all are quite close to each other. I like those people who respect other's privacy.

I certainly felt the same. My neighbor really nosy sometimes, and he sent us a letter to warn us not to park our car in the front yard. That isn't his business. I can do whatever I want, it is my own personal property. Not his. Just keep your nose out of my way. He is really a nuisance for sure. I just don't my vietnamese neighbor, who always stick his nose to somebody's business.

hi there, there are some differences in neighbourhood between urban and rural life. i live in rural life, where maximum families are dependent to cultivation. there are only two BA passed students in this village( 45 families) and both are me and my sister. so we have to maintain a distance from our neighbours. someone can say that it is wrong. but if we go near too near to them than we feel that their rustic attitudes will influenced us. but it is not that we are not well connected. we help every families in their certain problems anf we alspo get their helps.

There are a few of this type in our neighbourhood. They don't see eye to eye, but with us all of them are good. We are always helpful to everybody and so everyone respects us. We never expects anything in return and we are never in their company. We always keep to ourselves. Only when someone needs our help we indulge in a manner where others are not affected. We do justice to all and so our words carry weight. meapas.

No, I am always in my room seldom I go out and I am not aware what's my neighbor's are talking of. Though here in our village people are seem one big family. There are few who don't have work or not so busy that's why they engage themselves in this kind of habit to avoid boredom but many are doing this to backbite because of insecurities. Yes for people in some places are having this crab mentality. To gossip, backbite, scattered issues to make a bad reputation to a certain person. But in here the person itself doing this bad habit is obviously the one in bad reputation in the community. I'd rather concentrate here in mylot and forget that gossiping I make this position whenever I'm on. I type everything I want to say so long as not violation to TOS then presto I make money!