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Do You See Any Sincerity If A Person Apologizes Through Phone Call Or By SMS? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 91/100. rberon1985 (1417)   ranked 631 out of 38,119 in life5 months ago

I just would like to get the opinion of each and everyone. I just want to know if you find a person sincere in apologizing if he/ she do it over the phone or through SMS? With this, for me the person is not sincere. w00tIf he/ she is really worried to the person that he/ she hurt, he/ she can approach him/her personally. What about you? What is your idea on this? Will you forgive someone if he/ she just apologize or over the phone or through SMS? Share what you have on your mind.Share what you feel. Did you experience this?happy mylotting!!thumbup


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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3008)   ranked 1,320 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

It will depend on what the person is saying they are sorry for, it is something simple, sure, I will be fine with it, if it is serious and they want me to forgive them I will text back either call me or meet me somewhere but I am not talking about this on text. IT has not happen to me btw but that's how I would handle it.


myLot reputation of 91/100. rberon1985 (1417)   ranked 631 out of 38,119 in life  5 months ago

Okay, you are right. you have a point on that. it depends on what he/ she will have to say. We can feel if one person is really sincere or not on what he/ she is saying.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3008)   ranked 1,320 out of 38,119 in life  5 months ago

It depends also on why they are sorry for, like I am sorry for not answering your text message right away, is ok, I am sorry I crash your car, not ok, you better call me and tell me where my car is angry
I do not even have a car and I am upset at the thought lol

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2. myLot reputation of 76/100. suspenseful (17072)   ranked 1,401 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

OH and what if he comes to see you, and you snap his head off? That is why some people do not apologize in person. They are afraid that you will get very angry and say nasty things to them instead of saying "it's all right. I already forgotten about it," (which is probably a lie, but you say it because you do not want the other person to be wracked with guilt for the remainder of his life and you are basically a nice person.) I would forgive the person if he or she called me on the phone, or emailed me. I would understand why he or she would not want to approach me. Also that email might explain their reasonings and I could email back telling him their reason was wrong and eventually get him to change his attitude.


myLot reputation of 91/100. rberon1985 (1417)   ranked 631 out of 38,119 in life  5 months ago

Okay, our opinion doesn't much. For me, saying sorry or apologizing through phone or through SMS is not sincere, but i have to respect your opinion. Actually you have point on it. To avoid some physical injuries, since we cannot control each other's feelings and emotions. happy

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. mrnowrench (250)   ranked 3,850 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

Have you seen the movie, "Shallow Hal"? If they aren't looking you in the eye then they don't mean it! And they aren't your friend or they are too busy to have any kind of meaningful relationship. And I'm not saying that they should lavish a person with gifts. Then they really have something to hide. Just man up and deal!

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (4256)   ranked 618 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

Hi rberon, seems that you took out your avatar,eh. am not sure if you remember me, but doesn't matter. for me, it depends on a person but i think i appreciate it if they do apologize through call because it feels like lazy dazy if they just apologize through SMS only.


myLot reputation of 91/100. rberon1985 (1417)   ranked 631 out of 38,119 in life  5 months ago

Are you a member of mylot before? Is this your second account? as much as I want to remember you, I can't. Can you please tell me who you are?


myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (4256)   ranked 618 out of 38,119 in life  5 months ago

Like i said..doesn't matter.have a great day.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. ChrysanTflower (1072)   ranked 2,969 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

I think it's ok if someone first apologize through phone call or sms.
If there's no time to meet, the fastest way to say sorry is by telephone,, so we are no wandering this person is feel sorry or not while waiting him/her to come and apologize. Then, there's people who prefer not to answer phone call from the one who hurts him/her heart, so sms is ok for this case. at least he/she can read the apologize. Finally, approach personally and prove what you've talked on phone or sms that you're really sory.
So I think combine method (phone, sms and meet) is the best..


myLot reputation of 91/100. rberon1985 (1417)   ranked 631 out of 38,119 in life  5 months ago

Okay you have a point on that. thanks for sharing your opinion. happy

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. jugsjugs (3158)   ranked 729 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

I think that if anyone says sorry over the phone then they should also say sorry to your face as well.At least if they text you email or phones you that way they know they have done wrong,i would then say to them why have you not said sorry to my face? Happy Mylotting.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. pratyushtamhankar (526)   ranked 2,015 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

Well when i go for apologizing, my girlfriend usually doesn't want me in front of her wink. And if you feel I haven't tried, then lemme tell you I've tried lots of times blush! But she just can't stand me in front of her when there's a disagreement. So all I'm left with is call or sms surrender. So you see all the people who apologize through call or sms ain't bad people. There are good people too. Its not how you apologize, its what is inside your heart. A person who doesn't really care about the other's feelings can too apologize face to face but its a hollow apology.

So, I'll just say, its all in the heart that matters, not when or where you apologize...

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. jaiho2009 (1269)   ranked 203 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

That depends on how well i know the person,if i've known him/her close to me,then,i can say the apologize are genuine may it is tru phone or sms.

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9. loki1982 (50)   ranked 20,756 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

I dont think its sincere at all. I feel the same for someone who breaks up over the phone. If they really care at all, they can have the decency to break up face to face.

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10. myLot reputation of 32/100. Nir360 (108)   ranked 30,200 out of 38,119 in life   5 months ago

Well if this person can't come to you and say sorry then calling or sending an sms would be one of the ways they could do it.. doesn't mean they're less sincere..

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