what is your primary consideration before you married to the man?

Me and my guy have put marriage on the back burner for now. I feel its important for him to have his business in order and the same for myself. I mean like marriage to me is like two great companies coming together to become one even better company. I use to think that marriage should be about love but life happen too when you are in a relationship. you make love each ther a great deal but can you deal with all life tosses at you. For example: I have a home of my own. I did have to move in my mother and sister to help me keep my home but i did that before me and my guy got together. He has never even had his own place so let down the line we fopund it was hard for him to understand when i would stress about money because he never had to really stress over money he just needed enough to get by. after living in my world he saw a new perspective and understand a lottle of how i feel. Love only help you have an open mind.

mmh..nobody said about money...heheheh...come on should be sincere eheheh!!!I guess in many cases people look for it especially women nowadays...may be here all good ones?i don't know..

Before I married my husband the biggest consideration was "is this man someone who makes me a better person?" I've dated men that when I was around them I didn't like the person I was. With my husband, though, I was proud of me, proud of him, and proud of us. Everything else would fall into place after that.

Well im married now, and ive been married for almost 8 months now. I didnt care about his employment status, or what he was driving, or how much he makes at all before we got married. The only thing i cared about is does he love me, will he be here for me when i need him, does he really want to be with me for the rest of his life? When we went to get our marriage license, he wanted to get married right there in the court house. I didnt want to that day because i wanted our family to be there, and he took it as he thought i didnt want to marry him, and he actually had tears go down his face. I asked him what was wrong and he said nothing. He showed his parents the marriage certificate and said we didnt get married, and that i wanted to wait for them to be there, and they agreed with me. I mean, you only get married once, and i wanted my family there. So his mom threw together a wedding and we got married the next weekend. It was the happiest day of my life, and he agreed with me when it was all done, that was the way to do it. We had our family and a few friends there, we had a honey moon, it was big, it was just right. All that matters is that you love one another.