Is SORRY enough?  |
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 When someone had done something wrong to you and he/she ask for your forgiveness, do you easily forgive him/her? What if that mistakes hurt you so badly, is sorry enough to heal the pain?
Well, I'm not in a situation of forgiving someone. This topic just came up into my mind a while ago.  And I'm just too curious to know. Honestly, when someone ask for my forgiveness no matter how painful she/he had done to me, I can still forgive him/her for as long as he/she is sincere in asking for forgiveness and promise me that he/she won't do it again.
However, even though I forgive him/her already there is still a questions in my mind. If sorry is already enough to heal the pain, if sorry can undo the things that had happened, and if sorry is enough to forget everything.
What is you opinion or stand in this topic? Please share your thoughts/opinions/ideas in my discussion.
Happy mylotting
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1.  meyows (429) | 5 months ago |  I hate them who hurt me and just saying a word SORRY try to adjust it.
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2.  kling2388 (1513) | 5 months ago |  I can easily forgive and forget. A sincere sorry is always acceptable for me. If GOD can forgive who sinnes against him, why cant i?
No matter how bad someone did for me, i can still forgive. But expect that it will never be the same atmosphere as before. The gap is there.
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3.  ShellyB (3008) | 5 months ago |  I do not think that sorry is enough, one has to show one is sorry and sometimes one has to make amends for the things one had done, when that's not possible, and all we have our words, it is best to give what we have and move on.
And when it is time for us to forgive, one can do the same..
That's the way I feel.
Is best not to hurt others if one can avoid it, trust me.
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4.  danilliam (171) | 5 months ago |  no.sorry not enough to forgive.it is first thing to do then make up for the wrong things that person did.i remember a good quote in text message about sorry.
it says that people have the misconception that a single word can make everything that is mistake right again.it makes everything alright again.i not agree because saying one word is very easy but actually feeling forgiveness or actually feeling sorry is very hard and different thing.people who made wrong have to say sorry first and have to work hard to make every things right again.
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| danilliam (171) | 5 months ago | yes.that true.welcome.=) | |
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5.  Ruby_Dawn (250) | 5 months ago |  this is a tricky question for me..I do try to forgive anyone who is sincerely sorry,but sometimes I hear "I am sorry" so much that I wonder if the person is really sorry or just trying to get me un-mad or hurt so they dont have to fight with me or try to make up
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| 6. jayrene (1885) | 5 months ago |  that really depends on the degree of the mistake done to me. i am the kind of person that cannot forget every single thing and hurt that someone has done to me. and i find it hard to forgive also. but if its just some simple mistakes, i can let it go but will not forget it and will be careful sometimes with that friend.
if i got hurt real bad, no sorry can make up for it, it would take years before i can let go of the hurt, and can talk to the person again. this has happened to me already.
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| 7. ladym33 (5261) | 5 months ago |  I guess it depends on how deep and deliberate the betrayal was. Some things just hurt too badly for a simple apology to ease the pain. For other things I'm sorry is enough. But if the betrayal is really deep, I can accept the apology but not yet forgive or forget the act, the person would have to prove to me that they are truly sorry and that they will not do it again. If I hand over my trust and it is betrayed again, I don't think I could forgive it a second time.
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| 8. beho82770 (26) | 5 months ago |  Sometimes it is enough to say sorry if accompanied with a sincere heart. Pain and emotional trauma can get months or years to subside but the important thing is both parties are willing to admit their weakness and ready to settle the differences as soon as possible. The only thing that will change is your trust for that person. Forgiveness can be achieved.....but the subject of trust is something that is very hard to earned nowadays. Humans tend to harbor bitter thoughts and emotions depending on the gravity of the pain inflicted on them. On my own experience..its quite difficult for me to regain that trust to the person who offended me or mistreated me and asks for forgiveness. I can only forgive but it will take some time before I can trust that person again.
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| 9. Elaine77 (278) | 5 months ago |  If someone did something really hurt me and then beg me for forgiveness, I'll take a no as an answer, people says, if a sorry works, then the cops are useless.
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| 10. blungel0830 (348) | 5 months ago |  In my opinion, I think I can forgive someone who has hurt me deeply if he or she has apologized for the mistake and has asked for forgiveness. However, healing from the hurt can take sometime to heal and can affect the way I relate to the person who has hurt me. It can take time to heal, but it will heal. Time heals all wounds.
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| kissie34 (1482) | 5 months ago | Me too.. I can also forgive someone who made a mistake to me for as long as I can see his/her sincerity in asking forgiveness. I believe that when a person wants to forget and move on to the past then the pain can easily be healed. Well, of course that is really depends to that person.
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