How to let go someone you use to love?

I know how painful it could be when you love a girl but she doesn't love you and wants to dump you. Well, in the first place what has actually happened that made her want to leave you? Did she dislike your attitude? Has she somehow found a new love in her life? If after getting the answers, you still can't convince her to stay, then let her go. Yeah it is a very difficult thing to do but not impossible. Try getting to know more friends by joining social groups, for example. Take part in community activities. The key to this issue is to have a lot more friends so that you have better chance of getting the girl of your dreams. Remember, there are lots of fish in the water. I'm sure you'll catch on some day. You might also ask your friends to introduce girls to you, and just hang out with them for a drink or a movie. See what happens next, but just don't expect things to happen so quickly. Building a strong relationship takes time. These are my suggestions and advise. So, Jeff... if you can't patch up your relationship with your girlfriend, you have to let your fish off the hook. Let her swim into the ocean - she's better off that way.