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myLot reputation of 94/100. remaster74 (2304)   ranked 2,232 out of 23,350 in relationships6 months ago

Lately, a friend of mine, (a male one and not married) expressed his opinion that divorced people have to marry other divorced people. For him, a man or a woman that has been already once married and got divorce, has completed a circle, that an unmarried person hasn't yet. For him, is not good for a person to stop another person to complete the first circle, as he likes to call it. What do you think of it?

 
 
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unusualsuspect (2413) response was accepted on 11/3/2009.
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1. megha_gupta (81)   ranked 6,830 out of 23,350 in relationships   6 months ago

NO! I seriously don't agree with your friend. Mistakes happen maybe one person married in a rush of feelings but later realised that s/he were not yet prepared for it and they walk out of it. Now this does not mean that if that person wants to marry again s/he should look for a divorced person. I mean you don't fall in love looking that the person is divorced. It just happens. I don't think there is any circle which doesn't complete and all. Well thats what I think...:-S LOL


myLot reputation of 94/100. remaster74 (2304)   ranked 2,232 out of 23,350 in relationships  6 months ago

You are in my line of thinking. I do think that a person that has already been married and has a child or more, can't marry a person that is in the same situation. There comes between them the factor "your son/daughter did that" etc

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. unusualsuspect (2413)   ranked 6,587 out of 23,350 in relationships   6 months ago

Your friend is entitled to his opinion, but there are no facts to back him up. Whether two people are going to be happy together has nothing to do with whether one or both of them has been divorced. There are plenty of happy marriages where one person has been divorced, and it's the other person's first marriage. I have no idea wht he means by completing a circle, but it sounds like something he made up.


myLot reputation of 94/100. remaster74 (2304)   ranked 2,232 out of 23,350 in relationships  6 months ago

In his point of view, seems that the "circle" is a path that someone is following to complete certain aspects in life. He had an affair with a friend of mine that she was already married and divorced and she had 2 children already, his parents weren't in favour of this relationship and his dear mother maybe brainwashed him. He says that a woman that is already been married once and has a child, takes care more of the child than the husband. To me seems like a fear.

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. mrnowrench (261)   ranked 9,386 out of 23,350 in relationships   6 months ago

Wow this is an interesting way to look at it? Well if you feel that you want to cut half of your dating options out right away. Sure. But usually if we're talking 2 people finding love then why set restrictions on it? And when married people get remarried then you have more kids, more headaches, more arguments. Not saying that divorced people don't have successful second marriages they do. They learn many things from the first and try be themselves and relax more the second time around. Don't pretend and be someone your not! You will just work twice as hard making everyone else happy at your own expense. I would say always keep your options open. Otherwise you might want to order from a catalog. Boring! Happy MyLotting!


myLot reputation of 94/100. remaster74 (2304)   ranked 2,232 out of 23,350 in relationships  6 months ago

Ok! I think he will not have someone to back him up. And at the end I will be the winner to this discussion and argument we have. Thanks by the way, for the interesting responses that I earned from you to back up my opinion

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. deewinc (3085)   ranked 5,317 out of 23,350 in relationships   6 months ago

The Bible says that if you divorce you should not marry because you will be sining.thats why when the marry again they divorce over& the cycle as you call it begins again.its wrong to divorce unless if cheating was involved.for we should live together as 1


myLot reputation of 94/100. remaster74 (2304)   ranked 2,232 out of 23,350 in relationships  6 months ago

Yes! The bible speaks for years before us, that ethics were different. Now I think things are different. If cheating is not involved, but it involves beating, hitting, shouting, murder attempts? The bible says that is the greatest sin to hurt someone

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. tigeruncle (897)   ranked 6,685 out of 23,350 in relationships   6 months ago

Hi there remaster let me go in another way I mean not completing the circle. I would say a divorced person should PREFERABLY go for marrying another divorced. Belive me they won't get divorced any more for the second time, though there might be exceptions lol.
Thanks for sharing. lol
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myLot reputation of 94/100. remaster74 (2304)   ranked 2,232 out of 23,350 in relationships  6 months ago

Ok! It seems that my friend just found someone to back him up. I wish you won't find out by first hand. Good life, my friend!

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