Younger men with older women..Older women with younger men..why .what makes it

United States
July 25, 2009 8:15am CST
What is it that makes people desire people younger or older then themselves? Is it psychologically based.? My mom married a younger man .. the second time and a much older man the second time.. My youger brother married a much younger girl.. it didnt last. Is it in the genes? Why would an woman seek a younger man? Why would a man seek an older woman? Is there something inside their anatomy ?
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@syankee525 (6249)
• United States
25 Jul 09
men will seek older women thinking they know more and are better and female seek older men because they are more grown up and act different then youngest guys. but my thing is like i saw on tv a dude who is 43 is with a 17 year old girl. that is so wrong. i think the trouble with either dating older person is that the older person will try to be more the dad or mom and become bossy. i dont think its really right specail if they are like that dude and girl. now if he or she is in their 20's and one is in 30's yeah maybe.
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• United States
25 Jul 09
So you are thinking it may be a psychological need in one or the other who desires such a big age bracket.. Don't you think love erases the years that exist between two people. I am not into the gossip channels.. I don't have a tv any more but I remember seeing on a talk show where there were extremen age differencs.. like 30 year old man with 70 year old woman..Now..I thnk there is something wrong with that picture don't you?
• United States
25 Jul 09
oh of course. to me i cant or wont date anyone old enough to be my mom or my grandma. to me it's just sick
@meng23 (145)
• Philippines
26 Jul 09
It's not inside their anatomy. Me I have a boyfriend years younger with me. It is just co-incident to have relationship with him. He just possess quality that made me attracted. Having relationship with younger women at first I taught we disgusting idea but when I experienced it I reakized there's nothing wrong with it as long as you're trully love each other.