Would you date a person who insulted you??
By Azaerus
@Azaerus (820)
Philippines
July 25, 2009 12:07pm CST
This is very common in high school wherein students have their classifications..theres the nerdy ones,populars,mean girls,varsities,the cheerleaders and many more..usually students protect their reputation when they're with their friends but most of the times when they're alone some of their attitude change..
Many students try to hide their feelings because of their reputation and their friends,so whenever they have the opportunity to express their true feelings they tend to grab every opportunity..
But what happens if the popular one who used to insult you infront of the whole school suddenly asked if you could go out and have a date?does this change everything you look at that person?would you that person a chance or no??do you think that the person will take you seriously or not?
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3 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
26 Jul 09
I would be highly suspect of that person. If they felt it okay to put you down I would have to think there is an ulterior motive going on for asking me out.
Could it be that there "IN" crowd of friends made a bet with them that you would not go out with them? Money on the line and all?
Of course there could be a legitimate reason, like all of a sudden you seem untouchable and that they have to prove wrong.
I would say, no but perhaps we can talk at school and you could be nicer? If that goes nowhere then you have your answer.
They would have to prove they are worthy of my trust.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
26 Jul 09
Well I have never been in what you would call the "in" crowd so it is difficult to look at it from their perspective. But I am an observer. People that are still in high school, regardless of how they feel, are still but children playing in older body's. It seems to me that in order to be part of an "in" group some feel they must point fingers at someone else for fear that someone will do that to them. The real problem is with them, not you.
You are very right it is cruel and heartless. Some children are like this however from the time they first begin to socialize until they finally become adults. You will not believe the difference in the way things are in the adult world. Oh there are still back stabbers but not nearly as many and the older you get the less of that you will see.
There are many mature people in high school. They know how to treat other people but there are far to many that have not matured and they are the ones that will do this to you.
Remember this: The people that count in your life are the ones who know and love you. The people who don't know you count for nothing. What they say about you has nothing to do with the real you for they do not know you.
@snowy22315 (208846)
• United States
25 Jul 09
I would be very careful about that and furthermore I would ask the person about their intentions toward you. I think there some things that really need to be considered and whether or not you are willing to go out with someone who insulted you is really between you and the person you are thinking about going out with.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
It's hard to tell my friend. I think it depends on the feeling of the insulted one. Where not sure if the insulter would change and made him sincere and serious of the feeling...
