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uchuukeiji (21)   ranked 6,148 out of 23,109 in relationships5 months ago

Please help me...

I cant support this anymore. My life is a total failure:(

Since i was a kid, my mother never left me alone. She was overprotecting me everytime. No girlfriend, no parties, no friends, nothing!

Now i'm an adult, 24 yrs old almost 25 and i have no friends. All people i meet they just take advantage of my knowledge (i'm a very good computer technician) and just sweep me away.

I have no girlfriend too. Some weeks ago i had posted about an older girl than me. I have nothing, neither her, nothing.

My life is sad, i like to be alone but sometimes i feel very bad about it. And today, now is one of those moments.

I thought i could meet nicer person in virtual world (second life). But after meeting a girl, she just leave me alone and preferred going with her friends, (just the same as real life) and leave me alone.

Im sick of this life, please tell me what to do. And God is no valid answer please T-T Please tell me what to do. I want to socialize with people but i cant!

thanks in advance and sorry for wasting your time by reading this i hope you help me please

 
 
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1. Johnny3xMayhem (62)   ranked 15,251 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

Dude. I feel you. I do.
I'm 19, and I used to be like that.
You were under someone elses mold, and now its time for you to break out!I mean, you dont need a complete overhaul, but I say, go out more often, meet and greet with people who share your interests. You say your good with computers, thats great! Find a way to incorporate that into meeting people.
And I agree, god is not a valid answer.
And your not a total failure, the way you were raised was very old school!
But this is the modern age my friend, the age of guys in girl jeans and long hair!Your 24, a great time to invent who you are. Not to young, but not old.
Go out, have fun, make some mistakes, live! And if all else fails!Go to a bar and party dude!

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. chiyosan (9208)   ranked 1,806 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

ha. you are feeling so depressed all right but that sure is because you think you are alone in this life... i have been through worst in my life when i was your age, even younger than your current age. (well that was just 3 years ago) and my friends all left me when i had nothing at the age of 18... and so on... you should have more faith in God. believe in yourself.. believe that more is in store for you, that you are not bound for failure and you will sure enjoy your life, make it to the fullest and live your life they it should be lived.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. phillip_shiny (626)   ranked 691 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

Hi Dear,

U have came to a great place.

I am 27 and i have suffered a lot in my life with my body conditions. I was also working as a computer technician. And now i have left the job due to my illness and feeling lonely at home. But God is consoling me with thru His words. Dont give up with God. God is the source for everything and every happening in this universe. But we should have the faith in Him that the happenings are for good. He reveals that in time.

The only thing we need to wait upon the Lord. Dont loose hope and confidence in you. Do good and love others. U are already loved by everyone when u love others.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. lelin1123 (4097)   ranked 5,492 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

Ok listen carefully you are not alone. There are people all over the world that has the same problem and feeling as you do. What you need to do is think positive and go out a mingle. You can meet people at the store, library, mall, on the job, or you can even go with these online dating services. Where they match you up with different people and you pick the most compatiable. Such as e.harmony.com or Match.com Good luck and remember you are not alone. You just have to reach out.


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2059)   ranked 4,263 out of 23,109 in relationships  5 months ago

Loneliness always makes us depressed don't worry so much about that you can meet a girl that loves you in the future. My life is also boring I don't have social life and I don't want to meet my friends anymore because I feel that they don't understand me. No one care about my problems I'm dealing it with my own. I think what you need is understanding and love if you have family they can help you. In my case even if my family can't understand what I'm going through. I easily gets irritated in small things I think that's the effect of my depression in life.

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. varunvasanth (1069)   ranked 4,855 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

First think you should know is stop thinking you are a failure, and also never to give up in life,so what if you dont have friends or any girl firends,world is vast and has more things to offer,in one way or the other you will find one that suits your life,try forgetting past and think forward man,no god can help you if you yourself dont help yourself,you seems like one of my friends who always thinks the same,just be cool and be natural you will get one in your life,all you have to do is move on in open and try meeting more people. thumbup

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6. myLot reputation of 85/100. prashanthalva (1088)   ranked 2,569 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

Depression Is Something that Gets To You If you Let It come to You .. You Have to start Believing Yourself .. You Are The Best People Want To Talk To You .. People Love You .. You Should Be Filled With Positive Energy All Around you .. Feel Good About yourself And You Will See The World Change With You .. Thank You For Listening to Me ..


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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. koalapenguin (1330)   ranked 4,894 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

Wow. what a nice story from a guy like you. I think its time to tell your mom that you need to find yourself and have fun. Not allowing to have friends or parties is really terrible! what a life you got there. doh My parents are strict too but loosens up when we earn our own money. I think you're old enough to have control of your life. so good luck!happy

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8. irwandiaz (8)   5 months ago

your story is like me.. why you not search google about something that you want change?? Maybe you'll find the way.. Good luck..

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9. vidyasagar00729 (68)   5 months ago

Don't Give up "hope" my Friend, Forget your old life and start freshly and newly your life. You think you r 24 Yrs old but I think You r Just 24, Their is no difference between you and me But the only difference is "thinking". Think positive about your future life, Do Your Interesting things, Join in communities & club's in your nearest place. And God will help you.
All the best.
Thank you for giving this opportunity.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. LairOfMetal (654)   ranked 12,253 out of 23,109 in relationships   5 months ago

Hey there, you werent wasting my time reading it, I want to help you in anyway I can, I would like to be your friend. I'm a very good listener and have a lot of patience. Pm me if you would like to talk to me.=)

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