i hate my job.

Not anymore. Not because I don't want to, because she fired me. The thing is, for six years I worked there and got nothing but great reviews, raises, compliments etc. Then this manager came in and our manager got transfered. I made 3 mistakes and I believe she wanted me gone. And 3 years later, she did. But everything single mistake, I got written up. In the mean time, she did alot of the things you described. And I never saw it coming. Then, she tried to take away my unemployment. All I can say is, stick it out as long as you can. If you need the money I'm not sure there's much you can do. If it was me, I'd start looking for something else, even if it pays less. What happened to me could happen to you. Andwith the job market the way it is, you need something. But even if it pays 4 or 5 thousand dollars less, life is so much easier and so much nicer to live. But don't quit until you get offered another job.

When you join different companies, you will have different kinds of of colleagues to work with. Some are hardworking and trustworthy, while others are parasites that depend on you to get a name for themselves. It's very rare where things go smoothly with every employee in any organisation. That's the reality of the outside world. No matter what happens, just do your best that you can. There will be people who are jealous of your work; there will be people who'll back stab you or blackmail you. Ignore them, and do your work because you're paid to do it. You're being HONEST, while the rest are just the opposite.

If things don't work out, and you really can't take it anymore, then it's time to leave. However, try staying on longer. Sometimes, these hopeless employees are just testing your patience and resilience (especially if you're still new).

Good luck to you

my advice. fight fire with fire or just leave that company. even if you leave your company, there is a 50/50 chance of encountering that same kind of co-worker. but i rather take that risk than to burn yourself in your present hell.

I had a coworker who was just like that but I was lu cky that I had at least six other coworkers who were just like family. if I were you I would give notice and in spare time find a job with people who are not nitpickers like your fellow worker. wor king under the conditions you are in must be hell and any o ther job even with less pay and with congenial people would be so much better for you, its just not worth it for you to have to work with someone like
your coworker. good luck. let us know what y ou do about this miserable situation. hatley

hello grlsntgry,
School, church, work and even in the community where we live, there is always a person that is not worth to be our friend or shall I see can never be trusted. I think that is part already in our life. Even our family, relatives and friends for that matter. It's all up to us how to deal with such kind of person. Better take them as a challenge for if we treat them as an enemy everytime we see them is a disaster. Don't let them affect us. Ignore them, that way they will be the one to be bothered not you/me. Do the opposite - reverse pshychology.

yes there alot of persons like that but i have learned a good technique

wanna know lol...

sure you do lol

use this simple technique "Turn the tables"
but how???

when she take credit for your work, do the same in return. when she make fun of you fight fire with fire, beat her at her own game then she will know you mean business, or you can simply wimp out lol and leave and she would win, but if you are tired of she always having th upper hand "turn the tables"

you dont have to be like her, just do a series of actions that will make her back down and make sure you do it "ProfessionalY" so no cat fight lol.

Also you indicated that the boss isnt there so you can just make her screw up and let the boss know as soon as possible.

i know it might seem a bit drastic but people like those never back down until they know you mean business.

i hope you get on with your job and don't let her bring you down to the point where you quit.

happy mylotting

yes. i ever hate my job very much also. but that's the way we to earn our life and i have to work. finally i got the way to comfort myself that is this is only the job and not my carrer. i need this job to earn my life but not meet my target. so i can stay there.

Don` t mind your jerk co-worker, she`s not paying you anyway. Just do your job, don`t let her flinch you. Sooner or later she`ll get tired of messing around with you.

OMG!! why she does all things to you?
she got to be nuts and mental crazy!! and she just crossed
the line, you have to be strong and show her your personality
not letting her make fun of you while you are silent, nooo
you have to solve this problem coz she is control freak:(
just do the same she does to you, be good in your work
and do stuff to let her scared from you by getting angry
in anything like she does,show her how you become angry
and believe me she would be really good then

try that one day and let me know ok??

I currently work with some less than pleasant people. I keep to myself and avoid them as much as I can. I only talk to them when I have to about business related questions. Otherwise, I do not feel my personal life is any of their business. My health is more certainly none of their business either unless it affects the job and they are going to have to help out with my duties. I am happier keeping to myself and not having people in my business.