What would you do if you took down a picture and found a hole under it---  

Hi, PSmith!
I'd probably be a puddle of despair, crying and moaning as I packed those bags while awaiting the presence of the police I'd called. There's no forgiveness for such a horrible thing.

I'd do the same as cobrateacher would but without the crying and moaning. I'll just call the police and have my disgusting hubby picked up.

I understand your reaction and support it. The worm has no place in your life or your home. He needs to be isolated from society and law will take care of it.

However where forgiveness is concerned, I would do it with my heart. Hate is a baggage no one afford. It will certainly take me down! This does not mean I forget! This incidence will teach me to be more careful in future relationships.