I love him; he don t love me; i must let him go?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
August 14, 2009 1:26pm CST
I think that is a question who all lovers have in theirs mind all the time! If you feel that you love him or she, but feel in same time that he don t love you you...you will give up? Or fight to make him or she love you? Is impossible; Love exist or don t exist. I am right?
3 people like this
6 responses
• Malaysia
17 Aug 09
If I love a person but he don't love me back, I will get upset, I mean it is a normal thing. But I wouldn't waste my time chasing him. We cannot force someone to love you. It may takes time to heal, but getting over it makes you a stronger person. You already know how it felt like, so it will not be as hard as the first time. Have a nice day!
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
if you cling on, you will get hurt. let go. if it is destiny that he is for you then he will be back. if not, then just go and move on. you might not know it but there maybe someone more deserving of your love and is just there waiting for you ann
• United States
15 Aug 09
Hi, Icesmile! Nobody can make another person change their emotions. Trying to make somebody love you would probably drive them farther away. Why would anyone want to be with someone who didn't want to be with them? It's a losing prospect.
@srganesh (6339)
• India
15 Aug 09
This,I think,almost everybody would have experienced.We love somebody sincerely and seriously but they don't have the same feeling towards us.May be they are good friends but they can't think more intimate to be a lover.In that case,we shall try to convince them if possible.Otherwise,let them go and pray for them.Yet the love for them will remain in our heart for ever.Cheers!
@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
15 Aug 09
Even you will not let him go out from your life, and you will keep him or she in your mind, he will go any way, if don t feel something for you. Is a simple answer. Only you have money or something who can make this relation intersting for him he will stay in a relation where he is not emotional involved; so, don t worry, he will go any way, if don t have any interests in a relation where only one is in love.
@cwong77 (2010)
• Malaysia
15 Aug 09
Love, when it happen, sometimes just not the right time.. I have a few failed love relationship with a partner, however I have not fail to love my family, and get them to love me. Back to the question, love do exist, as just said above, it happen at the wrong time. If there is someone that I love, however he does not love me anymore or even not love me at all, I will give up. I won't want to pursue a relationship which I have to struggle much to gain a person's love. I believe love should not suffer for either party, but I will surely tell him I love him. I will let him be for a while, and later let him decide if he do love me. If he still thinks the he don't then I will just let it go.. Sometimes, a certain thing like love, cannot be force into at this era anymore..