Do you ever wonder if you'll find a guy/girl who accepts you as you are?

Sadly, i really haven't found that kind of person personally. only in my text mates. It's a different world now a days, and it's hard to determine whether the person you love is real/fake/using you for some other purposes. at my age even though am young, i doubt i'll find the right girl in mylife.

I suffer from depressions and anxiety, and I have had the same kinds of thoughts. My ex couldn't deal with my illnesses and that was one of the reasons why we broke up, and I was afraid that I would never find a partner who would accept me. When I started looking for a new boyfriend, I got rejected a couple of times, and some people weren't even interested in getting to know better, they judged me straight away: "Mental illness? No thanks!" Fortuneately I met my husband, he is also mentally ill, and we are able to accept eachother and help eachother.

You are not alone, I was diagnozed with BPD in 2004 by a pyschiatrist, you are not whining it's a very complex illness and most therapists do not have the expertise to deal or treat it and will more often or not say they can't see someone with BPD. I have had many relationships in the past which have been short-term, because my partner goes from being the best thing in my life to the most hated person in the world. My moods were erratic and I am socially awkward, I don't mix, I am paranoid, I am suspicious of people and I have made a decision to stay single for the rest of my life, but that is my choosing. I need my freedom, independence. Getting involved with someone is too complicated and I always choose the wrong person they usually turn out to be controlling, abusing and manipulative. People say to me you will find someone but I just say NO I won't. I have clinical depression, BPD and I am a loner so what chance have I got, it's a waste of time. I know that I will never find someone I have accepted that and I am quite happy now, although depression gets me down. I wish you well and know that you are not the only one who feels this way and finally don't ever thinking you're whining, you are not!

I also suffer from severe depression, and i felt the exact same way as you. Before getting into anything serious, i told my boyfriend how i can get sometimes, and that i don't expect to understand it, i just expect him to accept it. He's done exactly that. There are some people out there who don't treat you like a psychopath

I found one! And I was not the most stable individual when he met me, either. He accepted me as is, or as was, and I actually began to lose my train wreck traits just bbecause I no longer needed them once I found soembody who accepted me even with a strong helping of crazy! We've been together ten years and married for five. If I can find someoen who accepts me just as I am, so can you. I never thought it would happen for me either, but it did! I hope your depression eases up on your soon, I know first hand how difficult it is to deal with.

If you stop looking you will find your significant other. I know this can be quite frustrating but don't give up hope. Everybody has a soul mate. Yours is out there and will come to you when the situation is right.