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myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet 3 years ago

And all I see for a comment is "thanx for responding, or thank you for your response"! Ok, MyLotters, what the heck is that? This is not how you continue a discussion! When you're talking with your friends face to face and you ask them a question and they give you an answer, do you respond, "thanx for your answer?" I highly doubt, don't think so! So, what's so hard about continuing a discussion here? Isn't that why you started the discussion?

Ok, maybe you think after the initial response, we wouldn't coma back to continue the discussion, but you didn't even give me a chance to! You ended it right then and there, dang! I bet talking to you guys in person pretty much sucks
rolleyes Well, look - Mylot is suppose to be a discussion forum; if you don't think you can handle a bunch of responses, maybe you shouldn't post discussions! You never know what would be a heavy topic! I thought a lot of my discussions would be winners, I barely got at least 2 responses on most of my discussions, but I see discussions with 50 and 60 responses but their follow up comments are "thanx for your response" BOOOOOO! Be more creative, get to "talking" and make this money for these discussions! You're paying to talk on the phone, you talk about GI Joe and transformers witcha friends for free, you get paid here, so use it how it is meant to be used, discuss your topic with willing participants!wink

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1. myLot reputation of 77/100. Fennelfoot (134)   ranked 7,128 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

Ugh, I agree with you. I hate being thanked for my responses! I mean, it's nice that people are polite and appreciate that I took the time to reply, but I wanna debate about the topic. When I respond to people's comments in my discussions, I always try to say something substantial, try to relate to what they're saying. People rarely, if ever, come back to discuss it more, though.


myLot reputation of 93/100. hornetlover (2633)  3 years ago

that's right, fennel... it's kinda upsetting if all you can get for a comment is "TY". Well, I know I am a little bit guilty of not commenting to my other discussions, but I am trying to get back to them once I have time.

I would rather not comment back rather than say "TY". blush


myLot reputation of 77/100. Fennelfoot (134)   ranked 7,128 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Yeah, whenever someone thanks me I rarely ever respond back to that comment unless they say something else along with it. Like, what am I supposed to say when someone just says 'thanks'. "Uh, you're welcome?"


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

I use to try n prod a little more out of the thank you, like elaborate on what my response was, sometimes they said nothing further or just commented "thanx" again...WOW!!!confused


myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (11773)   ranked 8 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 90/100. tarachand (2453)   ranked 629 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Thanks is better than not commenting on the responders take. There are over 30 responses, and taripres, I see that you not got beyond responding to just 3 till the writing of this comment.

My comment is no. 25 and posted a few days ago.


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

lol I'll get to them! I plan on commenting on everyone's response, getting a discussion out of everyone! There's a point being made, but still a discussion is a discussion!!

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. notlistening2 (25117)   3 years ago

You are right, I have seen this on some of my responses, and that make me think didn't read my discussions, sometimes you put alot of hard work, into posting a disacussion, and they give you back just, a few simple words, when they should have given you a lot more than that, some people here just don't want, to be bother with answering anyone back, sad but true.shockedsadthumbdown


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Well, I say a bit of laziness, lack of creativity, or could be that just don't have anything to say further! They made their discussion, said what they had to say and that's it! I'm just saying, if you're not prepared to comment something decent on all your discussions, don't start one!

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myLot reputation of 86/100. prashanthalva (1066)   ranked 102 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Well Tari ..Very Few People Are Aware that They Do Get Paid for The Responses As Well .. I Have One Friend Who Gets A Sizeable Number Of Responses, But you Just Don't find Him In Any Discussion .. I Just Laugh Thinking Of the Stupidity Of My Friend .. Just Post A Question And Fly .. LoL .. This Does Happen A Lot On Mylot .. We Can Do Nothing About this Scenario ..
But One thing Has Been Bothering Me .. I Wait For Responses On My Discussions .. But .. I don't Have so Many Replies .. What Can A Good Discussion Specialist Do .. LoL ..



myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Yeah, that's kinda where I'm goin in sort of way! Not just the money, but to keep a conversation going, like a chat line, u'll never hear anything like that on a chat line....lol

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3. myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (3480)   ranked 179 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

thumbup Hello Taripres. Perhaps language barriers sometimes contribute to the habit, but I've noticed, too, that some discussions started have that same one-liner running after each and every response. I do go back to check all responses I get, but what is there to say if the response is thanks? Um...you're welcome. Hence, end of discussion. shocked

That is what the MyLot rules mean in the part that says do not say thank you to every comment. It's not that you shouldn't, but that you should say MORE than that. One-liners not only end the conversation, but they yield little in the way of money earned here.

Karen


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Ok, I can roll with the language barrier, but give me a choppy a sentence or something! But if you can't read the english, then why even bother!!

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. Chispa514 (731)   ranked 2,492 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

I agree with you on that one.

In my case it goes back to my discussion about the procrastination lol. I'm just lazy at times.

But i've noticed in discussions that ppl have said that they don't bother to write alot, or in some cases don't even write anything at all, for the simple fact tahat we don't get any extra earnings for thanking people for commenting, or holding converstions with someone on our discussions.

Personally i don't care about the earnings, I post on here cause I like this site, and since I'm a polite and friendly person, when someone comments on my posts, I try my best to thank them. There's been tiimes I haven't said much more than "thank you" or "i agree' but that's only because it was a day when I was in a bad mood and just wanted to thank the person, or just couldn't think of anything to say


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Ok, I agree with you on that point, but I do try to make an effort to comment back to everyone! I just have so much going on as far as marketing that, if I have hot topic like this one, it'll take me a few days before I can get to everyone! Though I do get paid here, i make much more doing other things so I'll take care of the bread and butter, then hit back to sides!!glare If u know what I mean!!

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. fruitcakeliz (968)   ranked 3,677 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

I don't mind seeing a thank you...so long as it is included with a few lines recognizing the fact that i responded to their discussion. I will admit, that sometimes when i get many reponses that all say pretty much the same thing, it does get difficult to come up with an original answer for each one, but i do try! If i can't repond back easily to something they wrote, as they didn't give much info..i like to ask questions back, asking WHY they feel this way....or if they have experienced this before. Many people never come back and answer my questions, but the few who do, i value and try to rmemer to add to my friends list if they aren't there already, as they have shown that they obviously know what a discussion is!


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Exactly, now u know where I'm goin, it's a discussion, not a survey! That's what I feel like when they comment that way, like I just took a survey or something thumbdown

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6. myLot reputation of 91/100. uath13 (4698)   ranked 221 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

Thanks for starting this discussion... happy















I get the " Thanks for responding " thing all the time, mostly when it's a controversial topic & they're afraid to debate me. I guess because I give them the impression that they're staring down the barrels of a battleship they don't have the nerve to follow up... They just posted it in order to get replies anyways.


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

lol Now thats funny! U make them nervous - wish I did the same but I guess they feel I'm just long winded, or type heavylol


myLot reputation of 91/100. uath13 (4698)   ranked 221 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Nervous is only good when your wanting to shut up some idiot who's spouting off. If you actually want a debate then scaring them off isn't good.

I tend to be short & to the point ( which is usually pretty sharp )lol.


myLot reputation of 91/100. uath13 (4698)   ranked 221 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Think we could talk mylot into making a ( beating a dead horse ) emote? I could definitely use it in some responses.


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

MAN, responses, comments, discussions, pm's! That's not a bad idea, a horse laying down with a bat beating on it's side, lol Nah that'll be cool cool

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myLot reputation of 91/100. uath13 (4698)   ranked 221 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

How about this pick with the bat swinging?



myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

U just gave me the biggest laugh of the day lol I needed that as I'm on my way to my lil cousins wake! Wow, where in the heck did u find that one thumbup

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myLot reputation of 91/100. uath13 (4698)   ranked 221 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Image search cross referencing South Park & " Beating a Dead Horse".


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

cool, us internet junkies, always finding ways to get what we want how we want it; or is that just being selfish..?lol That's great, I like it, I like itthumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 84/100. madmillionaire (422)   ranked 2,690 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

I have to agree with everyone else who has replied to this discussion. I know it is good manners to say thank you and everything but it would be nice for discussions to go on a bit longer- when you say thank you and nothing else it just kills it stone dead. I do not care about the earnings side of things that much either. I am not going to get rich posting on here but it is very interesting to hear other people's points of view about things from all over the world.


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

That's the whole purpose, keeping discussions going as if we were outside of here! Just imagine someone doing that to you otu on the bus stop or on the train, at the grocery store, come one nah, that's crazy!!!w00t

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. jugsjugs (6366)   ranked 29 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

When i respond to peoples discussions sometimes you do not get even a thank you and alot of the time i am not worried,as i think there are alot of people out there that are doing alot of the responding and do not get the chance to keep replying to the responses they get.I try to come on here when ever i can as this is what i call my time as i have six children so i am sorry if i have at anytime not even had the chance to even say thanks for your response but at least i do respond.I start the discussions as well as replt to discussions and i even give a best response to them when i get a few mins free.I am usually happy enough to get a response and am happy to give a response but i do not always find the time.


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

That's great and all, but my disgust is when I put time and effort into my response and all I get is thanx for your response! That's almost like all the time and effort into a school project and all you get is a "c", WOW - that's all?!!!

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. 3SnuggleBunnies (8036)   ranked 421 out of 13,142 in internet   3 years ago

I totally agree with you. I think MyLot doesn't even really count those answers for those people as an actual post. If you can't think of anything to say why bother saying it as it doesn't count as a post? Perhaps they don't know what else to say but want to respond? I dunno I'm grasping @ straws on that one maybe??

Either way I understand your frustration


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

Yep, all that's cool if they don't know what to say, but still come better; give me at least 2 lines!! Something more than a copy n paste thanx thumbdown

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10. kariter (62)   3 years ago

I agree with you. It's not a good idea to say thanks for your response, though it's polite.


myLot reputation of 86/100. taripres (791)   ranked 211 out of 13,142 in internet  3 years ago

I'm all for the politeness, but polite that into a more detailed comment, make it sound like you give a care, ya know?glare

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