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| Hello mylotters I read somewhere that whatever you give to others without any expectations,comes back to you many folds. And I believe in this. So I offer my help whenever someone needs it. Particularly is some one needs help for education purposes I do help to the extent I can. Does anyone share my belief in this regard? will you help someone or give some excuse? Happy mylotting | | | | | |
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1. realan (371)
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3 years ago
| | Definitely! It's important to help out whoever needs it. It doesn't matter to me if someone is related to me or not, if they need help, I will give it. Keep doing your good deeds! | | | | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | hello realan Thanks for your respons.It really gives great pleasure to be able to give relief to some one atleast to some extent Happy mylotting | | | |
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2. LairOfMetal (654)
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3 years ago
| | Yeah, i like to help people out when they need it. Overall I can only do so much to help. Like the other day, while I was waiting in the car for my mum to get something from the shops, the parking lot in front of me had a trolley in the way of it, and then this big fancy 4X4 car rolls into the car space with the trolley in it, there were 2 other cars either side of him. So he was slowly driving into the space and also trying to get out of other cars' ways but a;so being careful not to hit the trolley with his car. So I got out the car, ran over and took the trolley out of his way and put it in the trolley bay. When I returned, the guy in the car came walking past me and said thank you with a big cheery smile. i felt so good about taht, i like to help people out when ever i can. =) | | | | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hello mylotter, Thanks for your response. It is great. Your inclination to help matters. However small it may be. But when it is done at the appropriate time it will be appreciated Happy mylotting | | | |
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3. greenline (11058)
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3 years ago
| | Hello Shantha. Yes, ofcourse I share your belief. And, I have helped people not related to me many times and in many ways I could. This had to do with education, expenses, training on the job, advice in adjusting to new countries and environments, and more. I am very glad the people I had helped are doing quite well in their careers. | | | | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hello friend, Thanks for your response. It is very nice to hear from you that you also share my opinion in this regard. Yes It is great satisfaction to see those whom you have offered help doing well in life. Life is great Happy mylotting | | | |
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shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hello emilie, Thanks for your response. Yes you are correct. It is very true that the unslefish help you offer is mostly returned to you manyfolds. I have several experiences. I Have a nice day and happy mylotting | | | |
emilie2300 (1172)
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3 years ago
| | Yes I have also and the most rewarding thing is feeling good about doing it. | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hello Emilie I feel feeling good is the best reward anyone can have. If one feels good then good health follows automatically and with that every good thing in life.I hope you agree with me Have a nice day | | | |
emilie2300 (1172)
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3 years ago
| | Yes Most definitely agree with you feeling good about your self makes you healthy also and comes automaticly. Take care.. | | | |
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5. coolcat123 (3801)
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3 years ago
| | I never expect the returns of my helping to others. Actually i just love helping others at times when they need someone. I keep myself in that persons position and feel very bad when no one comes to my help. I always help my friends with studies and ready always to share my knowledge best as i could. More than myself i care for others and this quality has many times left me in problems of loosing things. Here, as u help other by giving your costly materials for them to use and if they not take care or run away with it and dont give you back , how would you feel. So now i have stopped giving things to other instead do them by my being. | | | | | | |
de_angel97 (172)
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3 years ago
| | I share the same belief just as you do. i won't expect a good returns from other people, but i just tend to put myself in other people's shoes. | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hello coolcat,thanks for your response. Yes some times people tend to exploit our good nature and try to take advantage of our urge to offer help.But we cannot help it. We can help others in such a way that doesnot put us into trouble and we dont meet any loss. Happy mylotting | | | |
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6. thelittlenaga (159)
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3 years ago
| | Helping others is a very good thing in life. There may be some people who don't believe in doing so. But, according to my experiences in life, helping people really makes me happy and feel good about myself. Even if there is no reward for helping someone, making ourselves feel good about ourselves will really help us in the long run and help us in living a happy life...Now, that's a blessing indeed. My other happy by helping them makes us happier in life. | | | | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hi friend thanks for your response. You are absolutely correct. While we help someone, we donot expect anything in return.But the feeling that we are able to halp someone to come out of their difficult situation gives a satisfaction and certainly as you said it makes us feel good. This sense of feeling good in my opinion is very important to remain happy Have a nice day. Happy mylotting | | | |
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| 7. izardy (59)
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3 years ago
| | i love to help people, but nowadays lot of criminal take advantage on our kindness. recently what had happened in my place is when a fren of mine trying to help someone he found laying unconscious in the middle of road, it happened at nite time when not so many vehicle pass by. so when he's trying to help this guy suddenly out of nowhere one of the guy fren came and ask my fren his wallet, and the guy who pretend to collapse woke up and help his fren. with this kind of incident it make me think twice to help.. | | | | | | |
de_angel97 (172)
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3 years ago
| | Hi Izardy, this situation happened to me before. My friend and I met this situation where there was a girl lying on the road. There was other kid stopping our car asking for help. If it was me alone, i will never get out from the car and check what is happening and it was 2 am that time. But my friend felt we should check whether that girl is ok or not. Then he get out from the car and checked that girl, we brought this girl to the nearby hospital. I'm so glad there is nothing bad happen to us. The things happened to your friend really really make us think twice before helping someone else. | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hello izardy, Thanks for your response. Yes sometimes it happens as you have mentioned. Though we get the urge to offer help from your experience I feel that we should check our neighbourhood also before offering to help someone who ssems to be in need.It always happens that there are always somepeople to take advantage of other's goodness. Happy mylotting | | | |
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8. yogambal_64 (833)
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3 years ago
| | Hi shantha, a nice discussion and yes I have helped a lot of people who are not related to me and even whom I have not met. I had given money to pay the term and exam fees for my son's classmate, as she had lost her father suddenly and as they did not have any other source of income after that she was about to dicontinue her education, now she has graduated and found out a very good job for herself and I am very happy about it. This is just an instance. I have and keep on helping people in different ways according to my capacity. | | | | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Thanks yogambal for your response. Yes I have often helped people in education of their children.When someone comes and askes for help, it looks as though they are very sure that they will get the help they are seeking.It gives great peasure to see them smiling when they are offered the help needed. Have a nice day | | | |
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9. de_angel97 (172)
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3 years ago
| | Yup, i do share the same belief as you. But I'm not looking for any good as in return, i just tend to put myself in people's shoes. Last time i used to fetch people which is not related to me when I'm on my way back to the hostel too. Especially when it's night time, it can be very dangerous for a girl to walk back by herself. So, one day i saw this girl walking back by herself and it's going to rain, so I made a u-turn so that I can fetch her. I invite her to join me, and by the way I'm a girl also which I don't think I can do anything bad to her. That 5 minutes drive back to our hostel really gave me the awkward feeling. when we reached, she looked at me weirdly, and without a 'thanks', she quickly get out from my car. Sigh.. I'm speechless, since after that I'm a bit reluctant to fetch people anymore. | | | | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hello angel thanks for your response. Yes sometimes we comeacross people who behave as though it is our obligation to halp them. The other day it so happened that a girl was given a lift and after alighting from the vehicle she just walked away without bothering to utter a minimum thanks. Such incidents really puts one in an awkward situation.From next time we become cautious about whomwe are helping Happy mylotting | | | |
de_angel97 (172)
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3 years ago
| | Ya, sometimes people response can make us fed up to help out other people. But i think that we should not just let this 'people that take for granted' distract us from trying to help people. In my four years doing degree, i did help quite a lot of girl, i mean fetching anonymous girl while I'm on my back to the hostel. Last few months ago, i met this girl and she asked me whether i did fetch her back few years ago, and she so grateful for what i did. I believe if we try to help other people, may be just a very small favor, it can mean a lot for somebody else. | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hi angel thanks for responding. Yes you are correct. We should not be let down by some particular incident and stop our good deeds. We cannot afford to lose the mental satisfaction such deeds give us. Happy mylotting | | | |
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10. radx682 (287)
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3 years ago
| | I remember helping people who are not my blood relations...I feel very happy helping such people because they are very grateful than the blood relations...I do not know the number of times I helped people because I personally feel that these things should not be counted but you should continue doing it...:-) | | | | | | |
shantha_45 (206)
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3 years ago
| | Hi radx thanks for your response. I agree with you that we should not bother about other peoples reactions and continue what we are doing. For many years I have been in administrative post. There were many employees of lower grades who were not confirmed of their services for many years sometimes morethan 10. I have always made it a point to confirm their services before I leave that place. Even now I receive calls fromthem enquiring about my and family's welfare and believe me it is a great feeling Happy mylotting | | | |
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