My miscarriage - a blessing?!?

I was talking to an older lady (she was in her 60s or 70s and I'm only 36, so to me she was older) at Walmart while waiting on a prescription last month. Her comment has had me festing over it since then and it still bugs the $#@^%& out of me.

Anyway, somehow my miscarriage came up. I had told her both of my sons were Autistic and she had the nerve to tell me that my miscarriage was a blessing so I wouldn't have the risk of having another special needs child. Excuse me?!? I love my sons, and they are my world, so to have someone tell me that losing my baby so there wasn't a chance of having a 3rd special needs child was just wrong. It was my 4th miscarriage, so I was still pretty depressed over it. I was shocked at first and it's boiled over into being livid. I didn't even know the woman! Probably wouldn't have talked to her but we had both been waiting over 30 minutes for scripts and started out talking about how slow they were when it came to scripts. I just was shocked that she said it, much less seemed to think nothing of telling me my pregnancy was a mistake and my miscarriage was a "blessing". Even if other people thought that they never said anything to my face, probably knowing I'd snap their heads off for it. I generally say what I think and if people don't like it, tough. I was so shocked she had the nerve to say that that I didn't say anything. I think she knew she hurt my feelings, and possibly made me mad, so she chamged the subject. I have never thought of a miscarriage as a blessing, especially my own when we tried for years to have a baby, and had lost three before this last one.

Anyone else have someone tell them that? I've been told it's "God's will" and so on, and even though that stings, I know most of the time people just aren't sure what to say. This was flat out wrong and hurtful.