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myLot reputation of 75/100. johndevis1234 (158)   ranked 3,487 out of 19,211 in relationships 3 years ago

hii.....i have in a confusion.
i am in a relationship for 1 month every thing is fine......but there is a slight problem.....
i am 6 feet 3 inches tall...........but my partner is only 4 feet .it looked very awkward and i am very much concerned about that....

does it is a problem...??
or a just confusion for me.will it hamper our relationship.. in the future

plz suggest your opinion ...........
feel free

 

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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (1280)   ranked 483 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

I don't think so, John. It will be awkward if your girlfriend is as tall you are and you are only 4ft. tall.lol having a short partner is not an issue at all as long as both of you are compatible. A tall man can easily find a partner unlike ladies who are so tall, men most likely become awkward in courting them.


myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (1280)   ranked 483 out of 19,211 in relationships  3 years ago

typological error "..as tall as you are"


myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1353)   ranked 3,211 out of 19,211 in relationships  3 years ago

I agree with you, I responded with out reading the responses something I do too often, I asked in my response was she the tall one in this relationship, if so yes that would be awkward, I am 5'11 and no way would I want to be with a man 4 feet, god I hope he is the tall one, but no I can't do it, I am 5'11, we talking 6'3 here, I always smile when I see a short woman with a tall man, I envy that so much, I am a perve so I can imagine him picking her up, and you know lol

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2. myLot reputation of 44/100. jaysumalnap (200)   ranked 4,324 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

Hmmm...do you really love your partner? Im just wondering coz if you do, you wouldn't mind thinking about your physical individuality. Naturally there would be slight problems of inconvenience for both of you if you say you are much taller, but which can be easily worked around.

If your partner would have read your post, what would you think she will feel about the "awkward" thing.

I think you are just confused and worried about what people will say about your relationship. And that is something you yourself have to work out. The real problem is not about you being taller than her, its about you not having fully accepted her.

Peace!


myLot reputation of 75/100. johndevis1234 (158)   ranked 3,487 out of 19,211 in relationships  3 years ago

i think you are right but i have a slight gut feeling in my mind....about the social looking..and society


myLot reputation of 44/100. jaysumalnap (200)   ranked 4,324 out of 19,211 in relationships  3 years ago

Yeah, I understand about that feeling, there may even bit of embarrassment. But if you try and learn to not mind about what other people will say and be proud of that piece of beauty beside you, as I'd assume your partner is doing, then I think your relationship will last long..

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. jammyt (2711)   ranked 3,520 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

My husband's ex girlfriend was about the same height as your girlfriend.My husband's height is 5"11'. It wasn't really a problem for them. Height is just physical appearance.happy

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4. myLot reputation of 78/100. spicysweetie21 (1542)   ranked 1,028 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

All that matters is how you feel about her and how she feels about you. I am short, I am 4'11" and so EVERY guy I have ever dated has been taller, I had a couple of guys in high school that I really liked turn me down and make fun of me because I was short sad. So if you like her, don't let it affect your relationship, this is what I told my ex who was 6'3" 'Hey, now you got an excuse to sit all the time wink' Looks don't matter, feelings too. Always remember that.

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5. myLot reputation of 79/100. shikaymaru (576)   ranked 3,183 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

What's matter the most is that your love for her. Love never have rules about what you suppose to be to get in love. Don't mind what the society around you might say, why should you impress people that you don't know or like.

What will happen to your relationship is in your hand actually. You control your life, don't make it complicated. Love her personalities rather than her physical.

Besides, I bet that she is a cute girl!wink

Have a nice day!

happyhappy

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6. myLot reputation of 84/100. vipulchawla (1047)   ranked 707 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

I don't think height would be a problem. know what.. I just get the feeling after listening to your case, that love is blind... lol...
Don't take it personally. Even i face the same problems. I am 6ft tall and my girlfriend is 5 ft 2 inches tall. I don't think, height would be a problem unless u have the same same feelings for your partner all through your life. No one else but you should understand this. No one can suggest you what is good for you in this case. If you yourself would find this odd, then everyone else will.
You got to cover the pitfalls of your relation.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. bewitched13 (519)   ranked 9,422 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

Height should never be a problem in relationship as the main factor is in the mind. If you both love each other truly then height is a tiny matter. Of course when you go out with your partner people may react to the heights but that is their problem not yours. It can be no way a hindrance to your relationship.

One of my grandmom was 4 feet and grandpa more than 6 feet tall. They had an excellent married life and the advantage of their relationship was that my short grandmom had all tall children. So set aside you confusion and be happy.

Happy mylotting.

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. kitty42 (1353)   ranked 3,211 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

Well if you are the male I think its a beautiful thing, I am tall as well a woman with a 4 feet man, does not look good imo, but a tall man with a shorter woman, that is something I wish I could find the only way that can happen for me is if shac gave me a call lol, too answer your question no it is fine, does she look really young in her face, maybe thats why you feel awkward you don't want people to think you are dating a child. if that is the problem, just make sure she always have her i.d you will be fine.the name is johndevis1234 I just hope you are the man, I can't see a woman 6'3 with a 4 foot man.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. suparnodatta (292)   ranked 9,813 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

In a relation the only thing that matters is love and nothing else really,it doesn't matters whether you are tall or short,white or black,the only think matters is your love.Don't give any thought to what the society thinks about you two,You love her and thats what matters at the end of the day.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. anne12d (573)   ranked 5,192 out of 19,211 in relationships   3 years ago

In your case, you're just confused. But if it is the other way around like you're a man and your height is 4 feet and your girl's height is 5 feet, for me that's an issuelolthumbdown. But if you both love each other, nothing is an issue wether in your case or the other way around case. As long as faithfulness, love, happiness and trust are there... Nothing to get confused or be bothered about.

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