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myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (915)   ranked 970 out of 23,275 in relationships4 months ago

hi fellow my-lotters,

i attended a wedding yesterday with my close friend.. we all noticed that she is pregnant, i think 5-6 months.. we are just confused because she promised to us that no touuch first until until the big day will come.. we can't really assure her with her promise to us if she can do it totally or not.. and we conclude that she did not do it.!! but it's ok.. for as long as she is happy with her husband.. we also conclude that if she was not been pregnant the guy will not marry her.. if i were to choose, i don't want to be pregnant first before my day, and i hope i can stand with it.. thumbup

that's why i came up to this question, i just observed that a lot of the brides nowadays are pregnant already in their big days. and their are also girls whom promise not to be touch until the wedding day, and is it rampant today with that kind of promise?? so friends what are your concerns about this situation?? is it natural or not?? do boys can't marry the girl if it is not yet pregnant?? confused

thanks friends.. GOD bless...

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (21017)   ranked 240 out of 23,275 in relationships   4 months ago

Janebeth no its not natural but it does happen. Ibelieve its much
better tobe married first and then hAve a bAby.this used to be'pretty much the natural way of things even here in the US but things have
changed a lot since I was a bride many years ago. now a lot of young people just live together have babies and to heck with marriage.I dont like it but thats what if going on.


myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (915)   ranked 970 out of 23,275 in relationships  4 months ago

hi hatley,

yes you are right, a lot of people are doing that atlredy today, live in first then after many years will decide to marry with each other.. it really changed.!! thanks for sharing your idea here.. have a nice day..!!

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. pinklemonade (366)   ranked 1,632 out of 23,275 in relationships   4 months ago

Although I am not sure I think most woman here in England have children before they are married. Quite a lot of my school friends are single mums and that is pretty normal. After all if you aren't religious then I guess you don't believe in waiting. Christianity isn't as big here as America. I don't know anyone who is choosing to wait untill they get married. However, I will. Any child I have I would like to be born into a caring and stable relationship and I believe marriage brings this.


myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (915)   ranked 970 out of 23,275 in relationships  4 months ago

yes you are absolutely right.. thanks for your time and take care..!!

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. tamarafireheart (12534)   ranked 3,218 out of 23,275 in relationships   4 months ago

Hi janebeth,



Most girls these day have already have children before they marry or they are ling together and don't get married, it is quite normal here and yes I think your friend maybe six months pregnant.


Tamara


myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (915)   ranked 970 out of 23,275 in relationships  4 months ago

hi tamara,

nowadays there are so many people are doing that thing, and maybe today it is very normal.. thanks for dropping by here tamara.. GOD bless..

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. neildc (3531)   ranked 1,063 out of 23,275 in relationships   4 months ago

i think you should not get confused or disappointed or upset with what had happen to your friend. i think you should be glad and happy for her that with her condition, the guy didn't run from her. there are lots of relationships happening in our place, that when the girl got pregnant, the guy is now nowhere to find now.


myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (915)   ranked 970 out of 23,275 in relationships  4 months ago

yes you are really correct about that neil, after getting the girl pregnant that's the time they will leave and i hate that fact... thanks a lot neil..

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. xchyler (240)   ranked 6,745 out of 23,275 in relationships   4 months ago

hi janebeth...
all i can say LOL...

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