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PILLOWS, Soft or Hard? Which one you prefer? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people5 months ago

Hi, it is time for me to hit the pillows.

So, which pillow do you love to sleep on?
Soft or Hard....or you sleep on both?

Long time ago in Ancient China, their pillows are
made from rectangular porcelain..they basically sleep
on hard porcelain pillow. Unbelieveable, isn't it?

Last June, I went to Holiday Inn, Melaka..the hotel room
have two pillows each on the bed with the tag on it labelled:
Soft Pillow or Hard Pillow..
What I did was I put the soft pillow partially on the hard one
and I slept soundly with sweet dreams:)

Do share your views here on what is your preference..soft or hard pillow?
Do you use a bolster ('dutch wife') when you sleep?

All the best and happy myLotting!


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jonjee0203 (1729) response was accepted on 9/27/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2899)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

thumbup Hello Iriene. I do as you did at the hotel. I sleep on two firm pillows with a very soft one placed on top of those. That combination, for me, adds support and comfort both. It helps me sleep much better. thumbup

Karen


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear Karen,

Glad to know that you managed to make the pillow to
suits you. Great job, keep it upthumbup

Some trivia on pillows:

The ancient Egyptians slept on pillows made of stone.

No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes
home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow!


All the best and do keep in touch:)


myLot reputation of 100/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2899)   ranked 1 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

shocked Ouch! I cannot imagine a stone pillow!

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. JAYMAR777 (234)   ranked 14,580 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

I probably would go for the "hard", but not the bulky type where my neck is bent.

I can have stiff neck if it is bulky.

With soft pillows, i find it to be less comfortable (i don't know). It feels strange when it is super soft.

I don't use bolster often now.

Nice trivia you got there irene.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear jaymar,

Glad that you manage to find the 'in between' - hard pillow
that suits you. I do agree with you, an uncomfortable pillow
will affect our sleep and may result with stiff neck.


Hahah, more trivia for you:-wink

Carnival Cruise Lines puts more than 10 million chocolate mints
on their guests’ pillows every year?

All the best and do keep in touch!

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3. chipper3 (70)   ranked 24,000 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

Hmm, I'd say that it kinda has in be in the middle. If the pillow's too hard, I can't sleep on it. If the pillow's too soft, then I'll constantly have to keep turning it over until I'm satisfied. I'm weird with how I like my pillows.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear chipper,

I understand, it is not easy to get one 'perfect' pillow
that suits us...we need to mix and match..or ..really shop
around for the 'in between', not too soft nor too hard. rolleyes

No wonder, many people preferred their old pillow than the new one.

I missed my pillow very much when I travel, happily back
home and rest my head on my old, familiar pillow!

Thanks for sharing.
Hope to hear your views on my other topics too.
All the best, do keep in touch

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. jonjee0203 (1729)   ranked 194 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

I like a soft pillow. Not too soft though.I currently sleep with two pillows. The bottom one that acts as a support is standard foam.The one that is on top which my head rests upon is filled with feather. I do not know what feathers, though.When I was young, my dad slept on two volumes of Encyclopaedia Britannica covered with a cloth.So the porcelain story can be accepted as the truth. I am calling it a night and I will be hitting the pillows in a few minutes time.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear jonjee,

It seems most of us prefer the one 'in between'
- not too hard, not too softwink

Your dad must be from China..since he is so used
to hard pillow like - Encyclopaedia Britannica..

Some other trivia for you:-

The ancient Egyptians slept on pillows made of stone.

Carnival Cruise Lines puts more than 10 million chocolate mints
on their guests’ pillows every year?


Good night and sleep tight..


myLot reputation of 98/100. jonjee0203 (1729)   ranked 194 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Yes my dad was a wunderdad! He could sleep even without pillows and blankets. We on the vother hand, were spoil rotten and wanted all kinds of bed complements and accessories when we sleep. Not him! All he needs is a flat plywood,two volume of the Brittanica hard covers and he is away in his dreams. True, ancient civilization sleep on real hard surfaces too.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Dear jonjee,

Thanks for your prompt reply, really appreciate it!happy

Do you remember the movie based on the popular romantic novel,
'Memoirs of Geisha' starring Zhang Ziyi, Michelle Yeoh (Malaysian)
and Gong Li? Now I recalled that Zhang Ziyi slept on those hard
pillow during the olden times and this will not mess up her hair.

Two years ago I went to Shanghai, and nearby province where they
produce very good quality silk..for materials, blankets, comforters
and pillows. They also produce pillows which contain silk worms'
faeces..it is well known for health benefits. So, last year my ex-
housemate went to Suzhou, China and bought herself the pillow.
It is really effective for her morning sinus...she sleep very well
ever since..Amazing, isn't it?w00t

Thanks and happy myLotting:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. jonjee0203 (1729)   ranked 194 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Yes, I have seen Memoirs of a Geisha. I do recall the hard pillow Zhang Ziyi slept on. So sleeping on hard surfaces is not new and have been practiced for centuries.These days we are just pampered and need all kinds of bedding and accompaniments just to sleep.If we are really tired, we will sleep anywhere.Do you believe that American hobos actually sleep in grave yards?



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5. myLot reputation of 74/100. rameshkumaar57 (1702)   ranked 2,952 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

Some how, I always prefer the hard pillow. I never used to like the soft pillow, and when ever I used to get a soft pillow, I found it hard to sleep. In fact even when I stay in hotels, where they invariably keep a soft pillow, I ask for a hard pillow or else ask one more soft pillow and put it on top of the other and go to sleep. yawn


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear Ramesh,

I too noticed that hotel's pillows are extremely soft.
They should do survey on each of the hotel guests to
see what their preference..soft, medium or hard pillow. rolleyes

Some pillows triviafor you:-

he ancient Egyptians slept on pillows made of stone.

Carnival Cruise Lines puts more than 10 million chocolate
mints on their guests’ pillows every year?

All the best, hope to hear your views on my other topic too!


myLot reputation of 74/100. rameshkumaar57 (1702)   ranked 2,952 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Thanks for the information on Carnival Cruise lines. Even if a single journey takes an average of ten days, at least a million people travel in Carnival Cruises every year.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Dear Ramesh,

Thanks for your prompt reply, truly appreciate ithappy

Have you ever travel on any Carnival Cruise Lines, or ever
thought of traveling on it in the future? I was always thinking
of travelling one like the Royal Caribbean Cruise...I heard it
was like a floating hotel, with swimming pool, gym, international
cuisine, cinemas etc..I DO HOPE THEY GOT COMFORTABLE PILLOW THAT
SUITS MElol

All the best and happy myLotting!


myLot reputation of 74/100. rameshkumaar57 (1702)   ranked 2,952 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

I have never travelled on the Carnival Cruise lines, and in the future also, I may be not able to travel in them. For the simple reason, I cannot afford to take such a luxury cruise with my income.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Dear Ramesh,

It is true, especially we are just an employee...
myself will be worse, I am just a housewife with
BIG DREAMS!

Many things we could never imagine will become reality,
but at times, through God Blessings, it did come to pass.
My son and I always dream of visiting the largest Disneyland
in the world..it is very far from our home, it is very expensive too!

Little did we know, God has planned for us..2 years ago we won
air tickets for 2 plus accomodation to New York, thus we entend
our stay and flew to Orlando and visit the Disney World - where
dreams do come true!happy

I truly hope one day you will enjoy too, and I too hope I can travel
in those luxury cruise around the world...lol

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6. myLot reputation of 83/100. dance4life (103)   ranked 3,346 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

I actually don't sleep on a pillow at all. It throws off my alignment and gives me a neck ache. If I do sleep on a pillow it has to be extremely flat and therefore doesn't really take on a characteristic of hard or soft.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear dance4life,

Some of the myLotters here, prefer to sleep without pillow
just like youwink..

I just wonder why can't people have 'tailor made' pillow
to suits one preference..I noticed it is not easy to find
one 'pefect pillow'..at times we have to sleep on two and
do some adjustment...sigh-

See the bright side, you save money, no need to buy pillow,
thus no need to buy pillow case...and no need to wash it toothumbup

Thanks for sharing.
Hope to hear your views on my other topics too.
All the best, do keep in touch!

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. cbeee3 (885)   ranked 4,589 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

Hey Iriene,
*hugs* Long time yeah. happy.Wow! This is an interesting discussion. I had no idea about the hard pillow that the Chinese used. I was talking to my dad now and he was telling me that his grandma used wood pillow. I guess the concept is the same. It feels so strange to me, but then it was supposedly common in those times.

I like to sleep having 2 pillows under my head. I keep a slightly harder pillow below and a soft one at the top. That suites me well. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear cbeee,

*hugs*...I am just like you, I like to sleep having 2 pillows
under my head. I keep a slightly harder pillow below and a soft
one at the top. That suites me well too, and I noticed quite a
number of myLotters here did the same... wink

Some more trivia for you:-

The ancient Egyptians slept on pillows made of stone.

Carnival Cruise Lines puts more than 10 million chocolate mints
on their guests’ pillows every year?

Good night and sleep tight..


myLot reputation of 98/100. cbeee3 (885)   ranked 4,589 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

That is some more stuff I did not know.This is so fascinating to me!w00t Thanks for sharing Irienehappy


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Dear cbeee,

Thanks for your prompt reply, truly appreciate it!

Oh yes, after responding to some discussion yesterday,
it remind me of another story from my friend,

Two years ago I went to Shanghai, and nearby province where they
produce very good quality silk..for materials, blankets, comforters
and pillows. They also produce pillows which contain silk worms'
faeces..it is well known for health benefits. So, last year my ex-
housemate went to Suzhou, China and bought herself the pillow.
It is really effective for her morning sinus...she sleep very well
ever since..Amazing, isn't it?

Thanks and happy myLotting:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. cbeee3 (885)   ranked 4,589 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Oh my god! That is really amazing. I learn so much from you every time Iriene. This is crazy! Wow, and it actually helps your friend? That is so interesting!w00t

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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. smooch091784 (789)   ranked 6,886 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

I think it would depend on the quality of the pillows. There are soft that are too soft and you can hardly move, and so for the hard ones. But speaking of in general for the pillows I'd go for the the soft ones. I think it has always been the soft ones. happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

Dear smooch,

I truly agree with you that there are soft pillow that are too soft
which you can hardly move, and those hard ones that really
uncomfortable. So, you ended up with 'not too soft' pillow and found
one that suits you thumbup

Some pillow trivia for fun:

In eighteenth-century England, women's wigs were sometimes 4 feet high.
These remarkable head- dresses were dusted with flour and decorated with
stuffed birds, replicas of gardens, plates of fruit, or even model ships. Sometimes the wigs were so elaborate they were worn continuously for
several months. They were matted with lard to keep them from coming apart,
which made mice and insects a constant problem. Special pillows had to be constructed to hold these giant creations, and rat-resistant caps made of
wire were common. The wig craze died out quite suddenly in 1795, when a hair-powder tax made their upkeep too expensive.

The above trivia reminds me of one episode from the cartoon:
Sponge Bob Square Pants..lol

All the best and do keep in touch:)

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. hotsummer (2753)   ranked 301 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

i like using soft pillows. i do not often use pillows under my head when lying down on my bed. i prefer not have a pillow. i just use pillow for something i can hug or just to feel comfy when i hold it in my arms. anwyays, i don't like having pillow under my head just because it hurts my back of my head and my neck. i prefer not to also so i can have a good body posture. cause i think that too much pillow under our head will in a way alter our proper body posture and will cause curvature in our neck when walking. anyways, so to be sure i will not have bad posture i tried not to use any pillow under my head. i got used to it already and so i am contented not having to have a pillow. but it is important that the bed is a little soft but not too soft that my head will push down the bed and that will in a way give kind of discomfort. sometimes when i don't feel comfortable without anything under my head i will just use a a blanket. just a blanket folded on one side and so it will not cause any discomfort in my head and will make my head feel comfortable being in a soft pad.


chvenki (34)   ranked 15,371 out of 35,380 in people  5 months ago

i like use soft pillows.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Dear hotsummer,

It is good that you know what is best for you and
your posture. Good, keep it up!thumbup

Some other trivia for you:-

The ancient Egyptians slept on pillows made of stone.

Carnival Cruise Lines puts more than 10 million chocolate mints
on their guests’ pillows every year?

Thanks for sharing.
Hope to hear your views on my other topics too.
All the best, do keep in touch! happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Hi chvenki,

Glad to know that you prefer the soft pillow.

Some pillows trivia for you:-

The ancient Egyptians slept on pillows made of stone.

Carnival Cruise Lines puts more than 10 million chocolate
mints on their guests’ pillows every year?

Btw, just a little advise..if you keen on myLot earnings,
it is advisable you response with minimum 3 relevant sentences
to qualified for better earnings. wink

Tks for sharing and happy myLotting!
All the best, hope to hear your views on my other topic too!

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. ibuemma (1226)   ranked 243 out of 35,380 in people   5 months ago

I love to use the extra firm one, because I'm a side sleeper. I just find out about this from their label. It said for side sleepers is good to use the extra firm and sleep so much better. And I need my bolster too.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Iriene88 (1179)   ranked 113 out of 35,380 in people  4 months ago

Dear ibuemma,

Thanks a lot for this extra information. Really appreciate itthumbup
It is of great benefit to everyone here especially me who are
also a side sleeper. So, I must look for extra firm pillow the
next time I go to the mall.

Some pillows triviafor you:-

he ancient Egyptians slept on pillows made of stone.

Carnival Cruise Lines puts more than 10 million chocolate
mints on their guests’ pillows every year?

All the best, hope to hear your views on my other topic too!

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