How Do You Express Your Anger?

I'd start with the second one. Explain your reasons for being angry and what the consequences will be if they don't do their part, both for that person and for the group. Just doing the work for them won't do anyone any good, and I wouldn't start out with blowing up at them either and that's a waste of time. I would also alert the teacher and ask for recommendations from him/her. They see this kind of situation fairly frequently, I'm sure. But.... if that person doesn't get the work done right away when you talk to them, or if they blow off your concerns, then yes, tell them that you're really angry and have a good yell.

hi raj

i will tell him that i will submit the paper without his participation and not include his name in it ...

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Hi my friend, nice to meet your discussion..
Facing the people so, I think you need to make a written agreement with them, about a particular project. In the agreement included an article about the duties, obligations and their responsibilities. Also on sanctions, if there is a violation.

I will just ask her why do you accept that you can help me do that term paper, and tell him or her if she can do it or not tell you frankly and I will be the one to work for else, instead of getting anrgry asked her or him to help you to finish the said term paper.

i used to blow up and yell and throw things. i used to break things too. but now i express why someone made me upset to them. and if they want to or dont want to say sorry it's up to them

How I express my anger, I come here on Mylot, and I write out what I am going through, and it make me feel a whole lot better, to because I have said it out in my writing here in Mylot, that is how I express my anger, and I rather do it that way, then to hurt someone, like people have hurt me.

I try to stay calm when I am getting upset or mad. For me I see life this way I cannot always get mad about everything life is full of ups and downs and for me I guess all how we deal with it makes and world of difference. Anyway I hope I answered this right and take care happy mylotting

Hello Raju. What an unfair thing for one person to do to another. I would go with number two. You can be polite, but firm, and yes, state the consequences. Unfortunately, you do have to be prepared to do the work for both of you if it comes down to that so your own grades/marks do not suffer.

I hope your friend comes around and acts responsibly!

Karen

I wont smile at all. I would go for no 2. I hate slackness and being taken for granted. Frienship apart and business apart. That's my phylosophy.

My response would depend entirely on the mood I was in at the time.

If I was really stressed because the paper was going to be really important; the excuses were utterly naff and/or an insult to my intelligent; and it was around lunch time, then I would probably explode and take option 3, the on the spot bull-session. I don't explode often but if the circumstances are right then I will just go off on one and show someone my 'dark side!'. Having done so I would then leave the situation to calm down. I don't tend to stay mad for long though so would wonder back in and be diplomatic after everyone has had a few minutes to recover from the shock lol

If I was already calm, everything was under control, and I knew that this person would be the only one to suffer from their laziness then I would just make a big point of noting that everyone else did all the work so we will get the high marks, and leave the person to wallow in their terrible grades when they come through! In the two days I would also allocate the tasks to everyone else to ensure our grades were the best as possible too.

Good luck with the project,
Dranz