WARNING: please don't touch my ceLLphone..

when someone gets into a relationship, we still have parts of our identity that should be kept private, even though how much you love each other. there are certain parts of our lives when we are still singles, that never in our life could be revealed to any one. same with cell phones. we keep a lot of information in it. don't tell me you don't keep secrets, and with your phone. better not anyone of you interfere with each one's phone. we cannot tell what we can see in it. if you want to use it, get permission first.

Hi janebeth, i also practice this rule, but i'm not that straight say it to my partner face. I'll just let him know that I would love to if he not checking on my phone, though I don't have anything to hide from him. Me myself, even he didn't say anything like i can't touch his cellphone, but i prefer not to touch his. There are a lot of thing that can lead to an unnecessary fight. Sometimes, a joke flirty message from another girl, may lead to a big fight, even it is not really that serious. Maybe it is not a fight, but the feeling of jealousy can be so disturbing, you can't help yourself from not thinking about it, but actually it might nothing serious there.

So, i just prefer no body touch anyone's cellphone=)

Have a nice day..

hi janebeth,

Me and my husband are open about our cellphones, privacy I don't think so because your married already and we share a lot of things..yes you are right there's a lot of secret inside the phone and that's what I want to be avoided.

xchyler!!!

Hi janebeth,


There should not be any secrets between partners anyway, but to me theres cell phones are a curse and very annoying,when I was younger there were not such thing as a cell phone and we managed without it and now its a cause for break-up of partnerships, I have one and its hardly ever used except for when I am out and wants my hubby to pick me up and for my friend to text me once a month to remind me to visit.


Tamara

I don't have the habit of looking at my bf's cellphone as long I trust him and he's not cheating on me, I am fine with that. There was once when I lost my trust to my previous bf, we always get into arguments so I tried to checked on his cellphone. I have found out that he has other girls but he was trying to deny it and said that I am accussing him. He got pissed off when I deleted the messages of the other girls and their phone numbers. I don't care if he looks on my cellphone as I have nothing to hide and he knows who ever I am talking with. I am honest to my previous partners but most of them are not and its a shame.

Anyone I have been with in a relationship we have always shared...but of course my cell is like life support for me...if anything happened to it like many I would be lost..heck I even take mine to the shower and bed with me...lol. But yea if you have something to hide from you partner then maybe a person should think more about their relationship.

hmm...ya, i keep my secret in my phone. but, if my friends need my phone for contact, i will give my phone without feel mad or everything bad. i can say that my phone cell is public phone:D

hahaha...i agree. since you are a couple, there should not have privacy when it comes to that thing (using his/her cellphone,reading his/her mesages in inbox and checking his/her sent items..LOL). Just remember what had happened to us-me & my boyfriend a few months ago. I was holding his cellphone and i don't know what pushes me to check his inbox. There was nothing suspicious. But when i finally got to his sent items, I read a message from him to his friend telling not to tell to the girl he wants to be his textmate that he have a girlfriend. I'm so mad. I was really decided to break up with him that time but then he really tried his best to win me back. He never actually keep his cellphone away from me. Its always open and he doesn't even have a security code which is good..haha..it's not that we don't trust the person we love just because we're picking on their cellphone but its a matter of being open to each other. For what ever and who ever may come, atleast,each other know how to deal with it. Boys will always be boys. Nowadays, no men are saints. They could be involved in different affairs thru cellphones. Its up to both of you how to manage and handle each other if you really want to have a long lasting relationship and if you really love each other. And I believe being open to each other is a sign of respect.