" Will you share a lifetime of hardships with me?"  |
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I heard or should I say read this line from the Bollywood movie Saawariva and Ithought it was great question to ask your partner.It implies all the marriage vows.Sickness and health,richer or poorer,For better for worse.Since I will never marry I thought this question was better.I know I could suffer hardships with my man . As long as we remain connected,I could live through anything. Question. Would you ask your partner this question? If your partner asked you this question would you say yes?
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1. miamilady (2498) | 4 months ago | Interesting question. I would have to say that if I was just starting out. Like maybe 20 years younger I would more likely be able to answer "yes" to that question. Now that I'm older. I have two children. I watched my mother die. I am watching my father give up on life and trying to help him. Those "hardships" would not only affect me. They would also affect my children and my father.
I also am more aware of my own mortality and what it might mean to grow old alone or to grow old and not have the means to care for myself.
I'm not saying that love isn't worth enduring some hardships over, but sometimes when you look at the big picture some things have to come before love.
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sarahruthbeth22 (10399) | 4 months ago | I amso sorry to hear about your mom.I lost my mom in 2005.Everything is different but it does get better. I am glad your dad has you . I hope he can eventually find a little joy in each day. when the actor said this line,he and his love were just starting out, all alone without any family help.when I thought about the question I thought of illness and loss.I would support my man through anything.I don't have kids.Both of my parents are dead so I can be that available.Take Care.it does get better.
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| 2. simplyjoy23 (35) | 4 months ago | Yes and we talked about it before getting married but when you actually get married, things change. You can never be too sure if you will have the same answer before you were married and after you get married. A lot of things brought about this changes.
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sarahruthbeth22 (10399) | 4 months ago | Oh course. I expect it to change.I will never marry because I would change. Before I marry I may love him but afterward I would be apathetic. I know this about myself so why would I marry someone I love?
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3. jillhill (11650) | 4 months ago | I guess it is for better or worse....and yes I would suffer harships with someone I loved.....for a lifetime of hardships though that is alot to ask.....but if you love someone....doesn't matter....
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sarahruthbeth22 (10399) | 4 months ago | Now I'm far from being into romantic movies but when he asked this question,it moved me.I don't think I would ever ask my guy.I will just wait and see. I wouldn't want him to ever Have to ask me.I'll be there.
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4. smart44 (427) | 4 months ago | very good questions, yes i will share a lifetime f hardships with my husband since I promised it during our marriage. If you love your love nothing matters, you share everything with him, face the difficulties in life with faith, hope and love. The most of it is love. You can survived and have a happy life if you both struggle for a goal of success.
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