" Will you share a lifetime of hardships with me?"
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
August 26, 2009 9:47am CST
I heard or should I say read this line from the Bollywood movie Saawariva and Ithought it was great question to ask your partner.It implies all the marriage vows.Sickness and health,richer or poorer,For better for worse.Since I will never marry I thought this question was better.I know I could suffer hardships with my man . As long as we remain connected,I could live through anything. Question. Would you ask your partner this question? If your partner asked you this question would you say yes?
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Now I'm far from being into romantic movies but when he asked this question,it moved me.I don't think I would ever ask my guy.I will just wait and see. I wouldn't want him to ever Have to ask me.I'll be there.
@miamilady (4910)
• United States
26 Aug 09
Interesting question. I would have to say that if I was just starting out. Like maybe 20 years younger I would more likely be able to answer "yes" to that question. Now that I'm older. I have two children. I watched my mother die. I am watching my father give up on life and trying to help him. Those "hardships" would not only affect me. They would also affect my children and my father.
I also am more aware of my own mortality and what it might mean to grow old alone or to grow old and not have the means to care for myself.
I'm not saying that love isn't worth enduring some hardships over, but sometimes when you look at the big picture some things have to come before love.
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@smart44 (510)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
very good questions, yes i will share a lifetime f hardships with my husband since I promised it during our marriage. If you love your love nothing matters, you share everything with him, face the difficulties in life with faith, hope and love. The most of it is love. You can survived and have a happy life if you both struggle for a goal of success.
