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myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot 7 months ago

I'm definitely a talker. The first thing I do when I get up is talk, same when I come home.
I just walk in the door and already my mouth is movingblush.
When people talk to me I don't seem to always listen and most of the time things go in 1 ear and out the other.
I feel kinda bad because I don't know what to say course I really didn't listen.whistle.I guess my attention span isn't that big that I just pay attention to one thing.
I'm always going in 5 different directions at the same time.
Are you a good listener or a fast talker?rasp

 

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rosepedal64 (1570) response was accepted on 9/18/2009.
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tags:  listener, talker, life, attention, communicator
 
1. myLot reputation of 100/100. rosepedal64 (1570)   7 months ago

Hello missybear
Im not sure where you are but Im in KY and it is very early here right now. I was surprised to see someone posting a discussion this early. That is fine with me.
AM I talker or Listener?
I would have to say that I am a little of both. Although I do love to talk. I guess that is why I love mylot so much. It is a way for me to talk. I can talk just about anything.
On the other hand I can listen too. I read these discussion, which to me feels like a form of listening and then I will talk back. I do however will listen till someone is finished but I always have to say something back to them. The main thing is Im always nice about what I say.
You have a good day.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

Sometimes I catch myself interrupting people and start telleing my own story before they even finish theirswhistle.
I'm in Las Vegas Nevada and I'm an early bird.
I get up at 4am even on my days off.


myLot reputation of 100/100. rosepedal64 (1570)  7 months ago

happyYes Im not a late sleeper either. Sometimes I wish I could sleep late. I don't work other than online sites but I just can't sleep late no matter what time I go to bed. I hope you have a good Saturday and a better Sunday. Sending Smiles...

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. sunnysmiles (637)   ranked 397 out of 902 in mylot   7 months ago

Are you sure you're not one of my sons in disguise?! lol It goes in one ear and out the other with him too. I am partly both because I am a listener when someone needs me to be and also if I have not got that much to say but on the otherhand I can be quite talkative, moreso when I have to be repetative to my son for it to engage in his brain happy You may be more of a talker but that means you never run out of things to talk about.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

I guess you right and it keeps my brain going.

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. vkprincedark (199)   7 months ago

I am a listener i dont talk much.I listen to everyone and my other word comes from is very short,i just tell in a single sentence and i keep silence and listens..yeah it look kinda strange but thats me..hehe


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. Sissygrl (5756)   7 months ago

I think for me it depends on the people around me, I dont like to talk just to hear myself, but if the other person doesn't seem to wanna say anything i dont mind filling the void with my drabble. lol. if the other person is talking about something that interests me i dont mind just listening. If they are talking about something boring.. i'll just try to casually change the subject, unless of course the conversation seems to really mean alot to them, EXample: they are ranting/upset about something. then its nice for the friend if youjust let them go on and on! lol.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

I look you up when I need to talkrasp


myLot reputation of 96/100. Sissygrl (5756)  7 months ago

haha ok. no problem! i'll be here wiht my listening shoes on!

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5. rudynahcapone (39)   7 months ago

I can either be both, but at times, I'm the talker. I finished communications after all. I can relate my thoughts and emotions to my close friends. And when I'm in a crowd full of strangers, I can just find my way to mingle. I am an experienced public speaker, too, hency my being talkative. I can mellow down from being the communicator when it's time to hear out someone's ideas. I know when to speak and when to listen.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

You're a good friend yo have, a listener and talker.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. Irishfrndly65 (7773)   7 months ago

I'm a talker but I also like to listen, otherwise how do I know WHAT to talk about?

I get upset by people that say something to me then walk off and don't listen to my reply! What the heck? I had a co-worker that would do that. I just learned not to get into a "converstion" with her as she was so NOT going to even listen to your reply.

I'm like you, in that I am going all the time too, but I LOVE someone to talk to. LOL!


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

Oh boy, that's one of my things too when you talk to someone and they just seem to ignore you.
I think I do that sometimes too but I don't mean to.blush


myLot reputation of 93/100. Irishfrndly65 (7773)  7 months ago

I'm sorry, did you say something?............

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7. myLot reputation of 83/100. dance4life (103)   7 months ago

I'm a good listener, sometimes. I used to be a better listener when I was younger (probably because I never talked that much). I've noticed as I've gotten older though that I have become quite a talker. I still listen but not nearly as much as I used to. I find myself asking a second time what the person was talking about. Maybe it's because I daydream a lot. Either that or conversations are not as interesting as they used to be. I think I could still classify myself as a pretty good listener though.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

Me too, I daydream all the time and sometimes people talk to me and I just don't even know what the heck they were saying.


myLot reputation of 83/100. dance4life (103)  7 months ago

Ya I feel bad when I do that, but sometimes a good idea pops into my head and I just have to ponder it in the moment otherwise I'll forget it.

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8. coolpk87 (69)   7 months ago

I am born talker. You can fin me talking any time in the day ( and also at night.. I talk while sleeping). But when people talk to me, I sincerely listen to them because I believe that a good talker should also be a good listener.


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

Very truethumbup

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. geminikid (1069)   7 months ago

I am more of a listener, therefore I am also an absorber. Like a sponge I can soak up certain bits of information so that I may give advice that is on my heart. Some things I let in one ear, and out the other. Just depends on how serious the issue is :)


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

I agree

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. AndrewFreyne (2914)   ranked 733 out of 902 in mylot   7 months ago

I guess I'm a bit of both! I would probably say that I am more of a listener though as I'm quiet as a person. I'm not that keen on fast talkers! At times I can hardly understand them! I probably would speak a lot more if I had the words to speak! There are times when I just don't know what to say. So, I choose the approach of being a very good listener! Andrew


myLot reputation of 98/100. missybear (2307)   ranked 35 out of 902 in mylot  7 months ago

Nothing wrong with that, people need people who listen.

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