Its very difficult situation that cannt be avoided

@raj_ka (431)
India
September 12, 2009 10:35am CST
If you dislike a person whose presence makes you feel depressed and he/she turns to be a important relation,how can you avoid that person. You can not simply say that i hate you as he is important to someone else who is your parent. How to make your heart and stay with him/her.
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@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
17 Sep 09
Yes it is tricky situation but only solution for this is keep the hatrate part on the side, talk to them if they come and talk with you. If not just ignore them and do your job you daily do in your life. Instead of bother about such people just take it easy. See in a family parents might be liking some relatives who are close to them and you cannot stop your parent from liking him or her. So, you talk to such people like the way you talk with any other person. This will save your energy because anger will only make you weak.. all the best and try and see..
@raj_ka (431)
• India
18 Sep 09
Thanks for the suggestion. I think its not such an easy one to do maybe time will see everything.If we dont want to talk to a person,always we have to face him and similarly if we are eager to talk to a person we will not get a single view of him. Its the time which decides not us but loving a person is easy any one can do, hating a person is also easy.The difficult things to do is to love and then hate a person or hate and love a person.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Sep 09
hi rajka well I for one would just stay away from this person'as my being depressed is not good for my body and poisons me in a way. we are supposed to care for our body and not poison ourselves.so i would not be arou nd when the disliked' person is around. I need to take care of myself and that is why I avoid this person all the time.
@balasri (26537)
• India
19 Sep 09
If that person is that much important you must bear with him/her thinking of the advantages towards you.You have to be practical and patient.One cannot eat the cake and have it too.Isn't it?