If husband loves another woman and changes, can the wife love him as before?

I know if the wife love her husband so much there is no problem with them of getting back to each other. The question
is if the woman doesn't love her husband inspite he changed and pleased her for what he did. If that happened to me I can still accept him the more I love him.

I do not think so at all. she can give it another chance but she will always have doubt of his love for herself. I think it will definitely play a toll on their marriage unless he can somehow remove all doubts in her mind of his love for only her.

I have given my husband another chance, i give him a choice when he was catch cheating but now i wish i had not given him a choice. I honestly dont think i love him we are just together just for the sake of physically living together for our children. Now the tables are turned he wants our marriage to be good and im the one that is done with it and cant love him. So no i dont think the hurt ever goes away. The old saying that time heals all wounds....i find the opposite, in the beginning i was ready to forgive and now that many years have past its made things worse.

Hello Buchi_bulla. I think that it is hard for the wife to love him the way she used to because she is already to some extent mentally hurt by her husband and it is vice versa to the husband if such a thing happens.

Definitely a hurt will be there in her heart and she can't move on with same attitude with her hubby. Though we can think like past is past, it is difficult to maintain relationship with same intensity with hubby thereafter. I can't imagine my hubby loving another woman. If he changes his mind and comes back, I may live with him again because of my kid and other circumstances. But I can't forget that he was loving another woman and ditched me for a while. Both hubby and wife should show commitment towards each other and shouldn't get carried over by outside sources.

For me i won't be the same.When your loved one hurt you and try to mend the thing they have done it will be very difficult.It's because you can't mend a broken heart.Maybe he will be forgiven but the scar will still be there and the trust is already breached so no matter what he do the memory of the thing he have done will never be erased.Eventually it will show in the way she speak and act towards him.

Not to me know. That would be hard to have the same feelings as you had before. If you was hurt once by him the hurt is still there. And there isn't a lot of trust anymore. I mean there have been people that have worked problems out even if there other half was with someone else before. But it takes a lot to build that trust back up.

Is it possible Yes, Is it easy Absolutely Not. There would have to be something in her that moved her to forgive him and even then the pain would be evident in her eyes for quite some time. However it is possible and in fact a marriage can come out on the other end stronger....BUT and I stress BUT this does not happen in every situation and for me without God it would never happen.

If two people are in a committed relationship, whether they're married or not, and one of them cheats on the other, i don't think the relationship can ever be restored. my husband and I talked about that, and we both completely agree that cheating would end our relationship, were it to ever happen.

of course, will make many changes, if a man begins to love another woman. everything will run normally again if mutual understanding. I experienced this, my life has not returned to normal as before my husband loves another woman. but I always try to make things normal again.