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myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love3 months ago

How difficult it is to find out that a guy/girl you love so much with all your heart is happy with someone else? have anyone of you ever faced this?

 
 
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1. Killabyte (50)   ranked 10,139 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

I've faced this multiple times. This is a very easy thing if you think about it. Love only truly works out if BOTH people like each other. If your crush is happy with someone else but you some how manage to get the person anyways, that person will never truly love you. There is 2 things you can do. To quench the thirst of love, you can somehow take your crush away from you crushes bf/gf. 2nd, you can do what love really is supposed to be and let her/him go.


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

Hi killabyte,
Thanks for the response and well yes if he is happy with someone else then i should be happy for him but it never works this way. May be i m selfish and wants him for me only. well i think i would take your advise and try the first thing because i have tried and not been able to let him go.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. homeshoppers (1083)   ranked 1,120 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

i dont want to think that way. i will rather want to think that we can be very happy being together than thinking any negative if his not with me. though if i saw them personally with my two eyes then perhaps i will hurt a bit but i will not spent days, weeks, nor months about them. i dont bother to care as my life is more important that them.


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

Hi homeshppers,
Thanks for the response and yes even though we were never boy friend girl friend but we are best of friends and he knows i got a big crush on him and expect him to sweep me of my feet literally but he went with someone else and it hurt a lot especially the way when i see how she treats him. It did hurt a lot and is still hurting for last 3 years and i dont know how long would it hurt more. I have tired to live with this that ok he is happy, isnt it what i wanted ..to make him happy. But somehow it doesnt work this way with me .

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. zandi458 (5734)   ranked 49 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

What can be said of this but it happened and just be patient with what happened to your life. If you love someone,let him go. If he comes back, he is yours forever. If not,he is not even yours to begin with. wink


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

Tanks zandi,
Thanks for responding to one of my discussions again and i know what you mean. I have heard this thing about him coming back 1000 times yet it doesnt give any comfort or feeling of good. I know it has been hurting for years now and it would still hurt same even after 10 years if he doesnt come to me.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. eLsMarie (1161)   ranked 27 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

no... i haven't experience wasting my time having doubts if the person i love is happy with somebody else because if a guy loves a girl, he will always find ways in order for him to stay with the girl.


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

hi elsmarie,
thanks for the response and what ever you might have said is right but suppose that girl leaves him because of any reason happy and will not return to him despite his best tries wub better still he cant even talk to her again..then it would change everything up..wont it:)


myLot reputation of 97/100. eLsMarie (1161)   ranked 27 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

the man should know the woman's worth... if she leaves and the guy realizes that he's wrong then it's a good sign but if he doesn't care about it, then that's life...

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. LdeL0318 (509)   3 months ago

It was surely one of my painful moment in life. Me and my ex partner have been together for almost five years when suddenly I noticed that everything was a lot different than before. Then I found out she's in love with another person already. I felt as if the world had crashed on my shoulders. That was such a suicidal moment. I never thought I would even forget her and move on with my life. Well, I did, and now I'm already happy with my life.


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

Hi ldel,
Thanks for the response and I am sorry for what happened with you. And i am also happy that you are happy. With me it was never that we were in relationship or even dated each other. yet i would always wanting him very badly and though we were very close firends it was never he even hinted he wanted me more than a friend yet i feel so bad that there is some other girl in his life and it hurts. It has been years since he has been with other girl ( the girls ditched him) but it still hurts.


myLot reputation of 95/100. LdeL0318 (509)  3 months ago

Well, that was a different thing. Sure it hurts to see someone you love in the arms of another person. But don't worry too much about it. In time the right person will also come into your life. Just be patient.

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. phayeth (509)   ranked 2,277 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

yes i did, well, ive got nothing to do co'z his happy with someone else... then what i did is i'm also happy for him that he found his happiness


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

Hi phayeth,
Thanks for the response and it is very nice that you are happy for him.

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7. myLot reputation of 75/100. anurag3786 (931)   ranked 3,496 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

i think it's very difficult... to find your love.. it's depend on you....how is you like someone...if you understands someone feelings..and care for her/him... then one day she/he also..think for that...you like him/her.. so be careful for..your choice..


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

Hi anurag,
Thanks for the response and yes it is nearly impossible to get the guy who i love so so mich and he does care for me a lot but not as a lover but as a friend,, but well may be one day i would forget him and can happily live my life without him in it as a lover.

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8. myLot reputation of 82/100. tvb2009 (154)   3 months ago

I don't want to find out how happy she is with someone else. Rather i want to treat her better and make her happier when the chance comes by. I will wait for her to be mine.


myLot reputation of 79/100. asweetie (566)   ranked 7,610 out of 11,813 in love  3 months ago

Hi tvb,
thanks for ur response and i hope you get your girl back soon.

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9. myLot reputation of 91/100. clocks123 (471)   ranked 3,237 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

yes, it really hurts. i am glad i found out now before we got serious or into the relationship further. it just isn't meant to be. You will find the right one for you who really loves you and you love him. the very best to you

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10. myLot reputation of 58/100. purnima175 (374)   ranked 11,652 out of 11,813 in love   3 months ago

i know what you mean. I have heard this thing about him coming back 1000 times yet it doesnt give any comfort or feeling of good. I know it has been hurting for years now and it would still hurt same even after 10 years if he doesnt come to me.

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