I am so stressfull!!!!!!!! REALLY

I feel like no life... I dont want to complain about those children but they just dont let me break at all... everything they call, they ask and they always give me job to do. My a little won't do anything if I don't stay or do for her, even I sit down then she wants to sit on me... oh my god.

children are lovely angels god gives us,so,don't tired of them.i have only one child,i could n't have another one in china because of the only child policy,so you are lucky!you have two lovely and healthy children.they are your fortune.

That is so true, although I feel you I'm a mom of 5 and when my husbands kids come over I'm a mom of 9. So darling until our kids are grown we as mother's never really get a break. Sometimes even when they're grown we still don't get breaks because we're always worrying about them being ok. But don't fret I have a few suggestions: 1. give your children the blessed DVD elmo-size or any fun dance dvd for children this is always entertaining and tiring. 2. keep lavender oil room fragrance or spray in the house it keeps children calm. 3. incorporate sassparilla tea into there diet if they're not allergic it calms children down without harm full side affects. 4.join a local mommies group where you become friends with oter moms looking for a break too, set rules for your club and each mom picks a night to watch kids so that the other mom can have a few hours to herself. 5. make you a weekly meal planner and make a weeks worth of dinner in one day, freeze everything and take out when needed and heat n serve. 6. Ask hubby to help a little more with household chores, divide them between you too and give each other some sexy incentives or simple ones. 7. always look at your children with love in your eyes and heart give them a hug and pray that each day will get better. Hope this helps I have more suggestions but too long to put in comment box.

thanks,your good suggestions are very helpful.

Hello,msinfo79 (57)
Thank you so much for all the tips... these are very helpful. I have only two and I complained so much... how if I have 5 like you???? I will be dead already well, about caring about children are not a big deal for me... just too much a little things are going on. Sometimes, I just want to pull my hair off when I heard them scream at each other(fighting for toys, even I have everything 2)
Here are my everyday schedule. from 5am-2pm (work), and also I can bring my a little one with me... so I take care of her while im at work as well. then at 2:30pm, I have to go to pick up my other daughter from school... then take her to eat or fix something for her to eat (at least 30mins). then go to the bank, or post office or meet customers (depend on situation that I have from job require me to do). then around 4pm I have to come back home and prepare for dinner... it takes me almost 30mins, then clean up their messed, wish dishes. Around 5pm or 6pm, husband comes back home ... eat dinner. Husband will take them for shower... and at 8 or 9pm, I have to put them for bed. 10pm, it is time for my bed already... how could i have time to other things that I want?... Plus last night, someone else called my husband back to work (yeahhhhhh!!!) then all the afternoon work will be on me again. u see, I have no time... my children are not picky about food to eat but I want them to eat good so that why I dont do the frozen food or fast food either.
Thanks for the tips

good idea. I think I will talk to him tonight. he also help me out but not enough that I need at all. I am not tired of my children and never want to stay far from them either but sometime they are way too much for me to take. once I see them fall a sleep... oh I feel like my free time is coming lolz... and then I have to do other work that I haven't done.

I understand. I do. And in all reality he works - so do you, but you have to come home after a day of work and what does he do? Parenting is a shared responsiblity. It should never fall on one parent more than the other.

I think being a mother/wife is hard because you are divided anyway. Throw in a job on top of that and it's like you're always doing something for everyone else but yourself. I can relate to that.

I've gotten down to take the kids to a movie or to the park for an afternoon. It isn't that I want to go do something, but you know, every onnce in a while, it would be nice just to sit at home with a cup coffee and just hear nothing but silence.

thanks for your good suggestions. i think it will be helpful to mothers!

Well, once he home. he starts to do house work such as water the lawn, watch the kids ... I have time break just a few hour once my husband home helping with children... but those time I put on cooking or do paper work.

well, once he home. he always water the lawn, watches kids. I have time break once my husband home only(a few hours)... but those time, I put on cooking or doing paper work... then it will start all over again.
my children are really nice and sweet to me, I never get mad at them... they always make funny face. just sometimes I feel so stress to be around them. I think I need a maid.

Because your breaks aren't really breaks because then you go into household chorse
why not have the kids help you with supper and then after supper and clean up (everyone clean up) then they can hang with dad for an hour so you have quiet time.

lolz... thank you. I feel like not 365/24/7, I feel like 365/25hours/7 lolz.... i know there is only 24 a day but I feel like it more than I can handle. but they are still cute to me:)

I know but sometime it is just a little stress over me... however, I still love my children and love them very much as I can. I never leave them a side.... I feel bad about myself by doing this but sometimes I need a rest too... I have a lot of work to do. U know, I work from 5am to 2pm and then pick them up and come back home do another work. take care of them. cooking as well... Now they are sleeping .... lolz it is my own time now. I have only this time to do my own time. thanks for sharing... I never shout at them, cuz they always make a pity face right back at me

well, my husband also help. He takes kid to school, does his work at home and comes to the store(where I work) take over my place and lets me go home. Now, he back to his regular job (cuz they called him back to work ... yeahhhhhhh, im so happy about this) so I have to work 15 hours a day and plus taking care of the kids.
I think 5 years from now, I will be crazy for sure

Oh dear that's not good! Can you cut back on your hours a bit?

If you are working 15 hours a day, maybe you can get a person to clean your house for you so it's not so bad for you? You know having a person come once a week to vaccum, clean the bathroom and the kitchen isn't that expensive when you think about the time it takes you to do it and the hours that you work.

good idea... I will talk to my husband about this. I have only 1 day off or 2 days off from work... so I want to rest and do what I like to do so much.

Hello,
well... my husband is very helpful with household help but only when he comes back from work. he backs from work around 7pm... what can he do after dinner beside take care of children for a few hours. He does most of the things on weekend. sometimes, He knows that I want week to be relax days, so he does only when I am a sleep... he always take me out to the beach, shopping or go somewhere that I want to go.
It is just too much work that I do during the day... I guess these are my last two children

my husband work as well, it is hard for him to take off work and take care of children cuz his work bring home more money than me. He helps when he homes. I think sometimes I get stress from work and then plus children are going crazy around me then it makes me feel so stress but mostly I can handle them... hope thing get better

Yes, just hold on.

Hello, I got that a lot from my customers... Right I do many things at the same time but it is not good, you know. It is hard and very stressful. However, I dont take any depression medicine or whatever... I just give myself a time to do things and make sure im not going crazy about this. As you know, household work, I do; full time work, paying bills and everything relate to financial thing, I do; children, I take care ( I make sure they fully eat and healthy). for short, everything that both parents do then I do them all myself. My husband does is working from 8am to 7pm, he brings home money and only time that we meet only night time and weekend. I wish when my children grow up then we will take a long vacation and let rest from work.

you are right, time is just too fast for me and I can't even do anything. I love children, but sometimes I can't handle them cuz they are way too much. thx for the respond

thx for the respond. well, he always help me but during the day time he has to go to work and he can help only evening and before bed time, or morning to drop off the kids. He knows that I do many things and he told me to take them to day care but I dont want to cuz I dont want anyone to take care of my own children.