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myLot reputation of 71/100. niitesh (863)   ranked 2,449 out of 23,353 in relationships4 months ago

Everybody is very practical these days, honestly i feel love is directly proportional to success.All these love,trust,etc sounds good in the virtual world but when it comes to real life no one will accept someone with no achievement in life. I really don't think love matters anymore in this modern and practical world

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. stephcjh (22850)   ranked 3,114 out of 23,353 in relationships   4 months ago

I really do not think it matters to alot of people in the modern world anymore also. It is a shame but it is true. I do think everyone needs faith and trust and love in their life though. I have it and love it and I am very thankful for it.


myLot reputation of 71/100. niitesh (863)   ranked 2,449 out of 23,353 in relationships  4 months ago

yes in the long run when we are tired of fighting life we need some one caring and trust able to hold your hands and be by your side but few people understand it these days.anyways nice to hear you have it and hope i too get it one day but right now really low and feeling bad because of this practical things which i went through few weeks back.

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. maui_gomez_lim (761)   ranked 688 out of 23,353 in relationships   4 months ago

I still think it is, though younger generations do engaged in pre-marital intercourse, most of them (I hope!) probably fell in love deeply. No one wants money to be the basis of the relationship (there are some exceptions), right?! Imagine the world revolving because of money, there would be graft, corruptions, numerous crimes, etc.=)

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3. areshstar (36)   4 months ago

i believe love still matters even in this modern and practical world. when one concentrates deeply with success and other material things, later in time, one would realize that something is missing, and that would be love. with love, one would be motivated to do better. bottom line, love and success should be balanced for an individual to be happy.


myLot reputation of 71/100. niitesh (863)   ranked 2,449 out of 23,353 in relationships  4 months ago

That's my point one day when we reflect back to the past we surely miss this feeling in life but few people tend to understand it right now, all that matters is success and money I guess.

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. phoenix1344 (429)   ranked 212 out of 23,353 in relationships   4 months ago

That is a very pessimistic statement you've just made and I beg to differ. The only reason someone's success in life would come between love is if they did NOTHING at all. In which case, their partner, despite the love they would feel, would eventually get fed up doing all the work. That is because relationships are meant for two people to be responsible for it and not just for one person to carry the weight of the other.

There is plenty of real love out there but it takes work to sustain it. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now and while I am the one supporting him, I eventually want to be a stay at home Mom and he knows that. So I am helping to support him through school so that way in the future we can swap roles. True, if he had no plan in life, I would probably end up leaving him.

But it would be because I would need to be supported in order to do what I want out of life and if I just 'loved' him despite that, I would be doing everything in the relationship, work, and family life.

But love is out there. Not everyone bases it off how much money one person has, versus another.


myLot reputation of 71/100. niitesh (863)   ranked 2,449 out of 23,353 in relationships  4 months ago

First of all thank you for taking the time out to give your opinion, i agree with you that if your just have plans in life it is valid leaving him or her but what when your prepared to fight it out but still someone doesn't have faith or is skeptic about the future. Nothing in life is full proof but at least we can try to fight it together but that doesn't seem to matter much these days, I tried hard to convince and put some logic in her head but all that really matters to her seems to be success.

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. jhenn22 (751)   ranked 1,443 out of 23,353 in relationships   4 months ago

I believe that love still matters. We people are born to love and to be loved. And i strongly believe that every thing we do, we do it because of love.


myLot reputation of 71/100. niitesh (863)   ranked 2,449 out of 23,353 in relationships  4 months ago

people are much more practical these days, not much of time to thing about love I guess. Money is what most of them are after and now i feel i too should change my opinion on it and go for success and leave love for the future.

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. jlamela (2809)   ranked 885 out of 23,353 in relationships   4 months ago

In my person opinion, yes it still matters, but it is not Love alone which can build happy relationships and can sparks magic, it should go together with mind. It can be summarized as 60%mind and 40%love. Of course it is still important for me to be in loved and at the same time to think for the bright future ahead.

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