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What will you do if someone borrow your money but forget to pay back? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers3 months ago

It's the second time that one of my colleague borrow my money but forget to pay back. It's not that big amount, but it's almost equal to what I make in a day. Well, mylotters, did you ever encounter the similar case like me? What did you do with it? Just let it go? I am not sure if I should ask it back as I feel a little awkard to do so.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 37/100. meluan (902)   ranked 1,885 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

they do not forget trust me.
if it was me I would ask for the money.
remember it is you money


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Meluan, nice to meet you here. And thank you for your advice. happy

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. delkar (895)   ranked 486 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

I was working too,and one of my "friends" told me that he has a lot of problems, that his wife doesn`t have any money for her and for their child that were at 1900 km far away . We were at the begining of working and we didn`t had too much money . So, i`ve gave it all my money 80 euros to send thouse to his wife . And what he did? He sent just 50 euros, other 30 euros he kept all for him . He was drinking beer every night, smoking expensive cigarettes and so on . He didn`t gave me that money not until now. He leaved so fast .. i was at work . But i`m not mad, because i`ve gave thouse for a reason, if he lied and so on, it`s his mistake . I did my job, and i helped a man when he need it . From that moment God will judge him


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Delkar, it's so kind of you. I have such "Friend" also. After he get the money, he never contact with me again. Now I just learn not to lend money to others, if I do, he or she must be the one I trusted, or I am preparing not to get it back again. Good luck to you and have a nice day! happy


isawu2 (70)   ranked 1,508 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

My dad always told me never think about lending anybody $ unless your prepared to never get it back.
So people who constantly ask for $$ I SAY NO.
Thier are others I say pay me back when you can and they do.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. janebeth (915)   ranked 177 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

well maybe you should talk to them and ask for the payment..
maybe they really forgets it and you should ask for it.. happythumbup


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Janebeth, thanks for your advice. Have a nice day and happy mylotting to you. thumbupthumbup

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 1,535 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Remind them for the debt they owe. Remember, never hessitate to ask them for what they have borrowed and never feel shy to ask them. Besides, they are oblige to pay.
Once you borrow, you need to really return what you owe. w00t
You should not be awkward cuz in the first place they are the ones who borrowed money. Not you. rasp
if i were you, i would go and ask for my money back. happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Kling, thanks for your suggestion. happy Have a nice day and happy mylotting. thumbupthumbup

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. med889 (2804)   ranked 5,354 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

I have been in this situation before where we went for lunch and then my friend did not had exchange with her and she told me if I can give her and then when we will return back to the office she will give me so I gave her the money and then when we reached the office she forgot me, I thought maybe later she will give me but then even after some hours we were talking she did not mentioned about the money at all, I did not had money to pay the bus fare so I told her to do not forget the money and she said yes and she will fetch it for me then she again did not gave me and behave as if nothing was important. I reminded her some four times that day then I could not take it and went directly to her desk and ask her my money, she said "Oh I will give it to you in a few minutes" I said no I will wait here only because I finished my work so she got no excuses and gave me the money. From that day I never give her money at all, though there are some other friends who return me when they take it from me. It is very awkward to ask every time and I had no other choices.


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Med, it's very brave of you! thumbup I do dislike those people who like take advantage of others. So, just avoid to lend them money again.

Have a nice day and happy mylotting! thumbupglare

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6. myLot reputation of 80/100. sunstar402 (581)   ranked 593 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hi there, if somebody forgets to pay my money back i make him remember about the dues he have with me. Also i don't lend money to strangers only my friends are the people with whom i give and take money with.


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Sunstar, thanks for your response. Have a nice day and happy mylotting. happythumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 28/100. grey26 (235)   ranked 9,666 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Hi there, yeah i oftentimes encountered that situation.. If i am you, i will ask him to pay me back. Then if he said that he only forgot that to pay. I will forgive him. BecAuse it is a minor cause. Keep mylotting.


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Grey, thanks for your suggestion. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. amitksing (1042)   ranked 5,982 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

It does happen with me too. Even I lend money to friends and it becomes really difficult for me to ask for it. If its a small amount, I stop thinking about getting it back (and it feels so good when the borrower returns the money I had lost hope of getting back). If the person comes back tome for money again, I do remind him about the amount he already owns.
For bigger amount, I somehow manage to ask for it. Like after a significant time, I ask the borrowing person in a twisted manner that I need money for getting somethiong done (some important work etc)


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Amitksing, thanks for your response and have a nice day.

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9. myLot reputation of 85/100. vinslounge (815)   ranked 3,880 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

Too many times i have encountered this probelm. If it is a meagre amount, then I would not ask them to give back since sometimes we need to undergo these kind of situations. But if it is an amount equivalent to that of a day's earning, then I would definitely not hestitate in asking the person who borrowed from me to give my money back. Some people would have really forgotten and if we remind them, they would promplty pay back. But there are certain other people, who purposely forgets to pay back and if at all you dont remind them, they would never care to repay your amount. Thanks for starting this discussion and have a great day. Happy Mylotting. Cheers:-)


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Vinslounge, thanks for your advice. Have a nice day and happy mylotting to you too! happythumbup

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10. myLot reputation of 58/100. coldmoon (910)   ranked 2,875 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   3 months ago

It happens to me sometime, but I never let it go. Of course, I'll wait for a period first. After a while, I could pretend that I also need money for an urgent case, then I'd borrow my debtor the same amount that I lent him. That will remind the debt.


myLot reputation of 96/100. karenkarenkk (416)   ranked 407 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Hello, Coldmoon, thanks for your advice. Have a nice day! happy

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