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myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 578 out of 23,282 in relationships3 months ago

What are the reasons why men dump girlfriend/wife? It is very common thing in the breakups.

* Men got bored.
* One of us was too serious with the relationship
* Burnout
* Men tempted to cheat
* All my friends broke up with their girlfriends
* Divergent Lives
* Feeling Selfish
* Men "Misread" their feelings
* My friends and Family didn't like her
* Men took her for granted
* She was too negative.

In my own experience, my ex-boyfriend was cheated on my back. For a long period of time, He was having an affair with another girl. He really change in many ways. To the point, I was very worried about him then into the extend that I went through depression.

Men are very selfish in a way that wanted to be happy and not looking that they have hurt the one they loved. And take us for granted. It is so sad to feel that way, but this is all true. This is the reality of the relationship.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. maezee (4459)   ranked 1,950 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

I saw this on Yahoo - but didn't actually look at it. I've never been dumped by a guy - but granted, I've only had 3 boyfriends - and every time I broke up with THEM.


myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 578 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

yahh... it is in Yahoo.

Its just because I have experience this recently this year. Having dump with my boyfriend with another girl.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1093)   ranked 4,560 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. suman2135 (139)   ranked 22,586 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

may most men dump thier women because the women is very possesive over him
or he found a new woman
they donot get along with each other and their interests dont match
and due to misunderstandings
or his girl found a new guy and has affair with other guy


myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 578 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

This is might be true and realistic to find in breaking-up.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1093)   ranked 4,560 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

Hello feodda....

How is life....I mean...love... wink

Man dumping women....when was this practice started I never heard anything like that

I always here a woman dumping man...

When man goes smoothly with a women her best friend feel jealous and put all these lipstick and lip linersrasp and start winkingwinkat her best friend's boy friend and finally
steals him...and lo he takes all the blame...

I say no women no cry


myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 578 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

I'm moving on in life and in love. There are many things that comes into my mind.


myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4604)   ranked 474 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

True, bro....no woman no cry, hahaaaa....

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4. myLot reputation of 69/100. BlueGoblin (1393)   ranked 5,656 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

Men and women dump each other because they no longer feel connected with that person. They could have found a stronger connection with another person. Some men might not be able to connect with any women. He might enjoy multiple flings with multiple women. Some are just looking for something better and don't feel like settling.


myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 578 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Kinda true. Afraid of commitment, and don't want to settle yet.


myLot reputation of 81/100. Archie0 (3139)   ranked 196 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Simple, because the man thinks the girl is ugly, or he found something else. Or the girl isn't giving up the big chicken dinner. But mainly because the girl is ugly.

And it's the truth men don't look at women and thier values for attration, they look at thier physical beauty. And we give BS reason because we can't think of anything else.

Look men look care about values like women do, we just don't


myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 578 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Girl, your very wrong in your opinion. We're talking about dumping girls not why not courting her.

If that is the reason of the guy. How disgusting of him, at the first place he will not court the girl or go on with the relationship if he find the girl ugly. I know guys really look first with physical beauty next the inner beauty while the girls looks for inner beauty next with physical beauty.

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. picjim (519)   ranked 13,691 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

I can only say it varies from person to person.I've seen girls dump men and men going from affair to affair.It all depends on the person and i feel one can't make a broad generalization.Ultimately it all boils down to the personality of the person.


bubunyellow (26)   ranked 8,082 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

yes dear friend.u r 100% right.really not only men dump women,women also dump men.it compeletely depends upon mentality that how much a person ih honest??

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6. bubunyellow (26)   ranked 8,082 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

dear feodda .I do not know the actual cause that for which this question raised in your mind??i am not going to give you the answer as i am a male but i am going to give you the response as because i have never dumped any body.Trthough i agree that i have not fallen in love yet but a human i have never thought about dumping any body in dream also..whu r thinking that men dump women.good men never do that???atleast we indians never do that??


myLot reputation of 96/100. feodda (394)   ranked 578 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Because this happen to me. My ex dumped me because of another women.


tikaraldo (6)  3 months ago

feodda, if your ex umped you for another woman then why would you want to be with him anyway? he clearly isn't a keeper. I say you're better off in this way in the end.

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. Craicha (700)   ranked 2,129 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

and dump there women coz they are not ready yet....and lost of attraction 2 d woman...and most of all theres no spark or love he feels aready......but its always like this or vice versa to the women ..the fact there that it should be part ways if both is not meant for each..:)

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4604)   ranked 474 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

I'd say there are heartless women and men out there definitely. Some guys are heartbreakers and they would go all the way to manipulate and hurt, and there are also women like that too. It depends on the person entirely..in terms of personality of that person personally.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1093)   ranked 4,560 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Hello zed.......

Don't confuse them..... tell them the truth how many girls you dumped... whistle

Ok ok... how many girls you are dating now..?whistle


myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4604)   ranked 474 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Used to be a player; now not anymore. I lost count... w00t
But now dating zilch. I'm a kind person nowadays, really2x... lollol


myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1093)   ranked 4,560 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

This is very sensitive information you should have said it through a PM....

He he he...now they are eying you....do something... lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. vandana7 (1571)   ranked 3,521 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Hi zed, I have to give it to u. There are heartless women out there.:) They look only at money and more money.:) Insecurities. And misterwit, please understand zed has reformed - he wont be looking around even if others are eyeing him. LOL.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1093)   ranked 4,560 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

zed..reformed... lol....he said 2x.....he..he.behehe...hehelol


myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4604)   ranked 474 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

Thanks, vandana...

And to both vandana and wit, ssssssssh..we'll keep this under wraps aite. w00tw00t..whoever reads, reads.. rasp

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. vandana7 (1571)   ranked 3,521 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

Hi feodda, it is quite common for men to boast about how many girls they have been with and this is the reason most of the relationships break off.:( Depending upon which age u have the boyfriend. It also depends upont the kind of household that boy comes from. If he sees his mother struggling, and has respect for her, chances are he wont leave u. If he sees no hardships, and is overindulged by his parents, then chances are he would leave u. If he comes from a household where father is domineering, then again he wont leave u, unless u give him valid reasons to. As can be seen from this, about 1/3rd of the boys are likely to leave their girlfriends, and merely look at having a girlfriend as something of a timepass.:( Girls, on the other hand want it to be perfect like films. If they are from broken families, they desperately want everything right. It doesnt work that way.:(


myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1093)   ranked 4,560 out of 23,282 in relationships  3 months ago

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. manong05 (2930)   ranked 860 out of 23,282 in relationships   3 months ago

They can be the same reasons why women dump their men too. Whatever the reason maybe, one thing is obvious, they fell out of love or there was no genuine love to start with. Otherwise love will see them through all the difficulties encountered.
"Dump" is a very sad and unfortunate word. As if it implies people as not persons who deserves respect and can be dumped like objects. Sad as it is, this this is a graphic word that describes what really is happening.

Have fun!

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