Male infertility - do you resent your husband for having to go through IVF?

In the first place, I'm really sorry to hear that. Though I don't attain the age for being a father, I do know the importance of a baby in a compatible family relationships. A child will also elevate its parents' sense of responsibility, so I know it means a big flaw in your life. In China, there is now still very disturbing signs of a remnant of feudal times, people always sheer off from talking about such problems, but more and more younger couples in the same situation choice to use the modern technologies such as IVF to heal their spirit trauma. So I think it won't be a technical and social problems in the western countries. You won't think too much about it, I am unable to give your more suggestions due to my limited experiences, sorry, I just hope everything would get on well with you and you would have your own baby as soon as possible.

It was not the fault of both of you that you could not have a child. Resenting would not help the situation, so might as well face the problem positively. You're lucky that you could afford IVF. Try it while you're still young and there are still chances for you have children of your own. If procedures still fail, there's another option of adopting a child to become your own.