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myLot reputation of 94/100. taraelocin (218)   ranked 252 out of 811 in marriage3 months ago

I was quite surprised recently when a colleague who only got married 1/2 year ago told us he is going through a divorce. I also know old friends from university who split up with their husbands after less than 2 years

I've been married for just over 2 years and still often feel like a newly-wed, so I am surprised that a marriage can break down that quickly.

How long have you been married prior to splitting up?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 71/100. vonmac (2227)   3 months ago

My husband was married for a year when he decided to get divorced, and to be honest I couldnt blame him, lol
Marriages can break down these days quite quick,
His was 25 years ago and he said he knew he had made the biggest mistake of his life marrying the girl in the first place


myLot reputation of 94/100. taraelocin (218)   ranked 252 out of 811 in marriage  3 months ago

That must have been quite hard 25 years ago. But at least he found the right person later on.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. savypat (7735)   ranked 495 out of 811 in marriage   3 months ago

Really these people are lucky, they don't have years invested in a relationship that would never bring them what they expected. Even if they are married after a long live in relationship, often marriage is a mistake and a miscommunication between them, the one thing they realize is that it's not what they wanted and they don't waste time trying to make it work.


myLot reputation of 94/100. taraelocin (218)   ranked 252 out of 811 in marriage  3 months ago

I don't disagree. I just find it strange that people find this out shortly after marrying. Nowadays most people know each other for a long time before they get married, so there shouldn't be any surprises.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. indahfth (1350)   ranked 21 out of 811 in marriage   3 months ago

I have been married for 6 years. My married life started with happiness. but after several years running, it turned into sadness. My husband started to glance at another woman. I do not know what the reason my husband. I face now is my marriage would break up shortly after 6 years of marriage.


myLot reputation of 94/100. taraelocin (218)   ranked 252 out of 811 in marriage  3 months ago

Sorry to hear that. Hope you are okay.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. notlistening2 (10866)   3 months ago

I am still married, but I am not with my husband, he is in jail, we have been married for 21 years, but we slip up in 4 years of our marriage, I have not divorced him, I won't be going back to him because, he is into drugs, we live our seperated lives and that's the way I want it. sadthumbdownthumbdown

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