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What would you if you're rejected by a person you care about? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (476)   ranked 661 out of 23,322 in relationships3 months ago

It hurt so much when all of a sudden you're rejected with the person you care so much, and you don't know the reason. So what would do when the person you care about rejected you? How would you feel?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. jodylee_04530 (512)   ranked 3,929 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

I have never been a big fan of rejection so I would do my best to find out the reason and then decide if I could handle the desired outcome. I would be upset if this happened but I would be able to move on if it was meant to be permanent.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (2855)   ranked 682 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

It will hurt for sure, but I don't feel much about it. Accepting or rejecting a person is a complete personal decision and we can't always except others to accept us only because we like others. There are certain constrains or limitations. I don't feel much about the rejection. World is filled with lots of people and I will feel confident than I can find somebody who cares about me and accepts me.


myLot reputation of 99/100. lovelyn_medrano (778)   ranked 2,473 out of 23,322 in relationships  3 months ago

Right we really cannot force ourselves to someone. Doing that will only make things worst. You will just end up hurting yourself more. So no more... move on.


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (476)   ranked 661 out of 23,322 in relationships  3 months ago

Yeah, there might be people who will reject you but there's also someone who will accept and love you that's for sure. We're all unique individuals with different likes and dislikes, so we can't make them like us the way we want. And it's not good either to expect them.

Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. Craicha (701)   ranked 2,130 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

of course i will feel sad and disappointed il ask myself why he/she does that to me...what i have done that he/she do that in me?.....and i try to reach these person and ask him/her why coz i cant have peace in mind with that question WHY..and i want an answer that i can move on and if ever i got a mistakes i can correct them..!!


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (476)   ranked 661 out of 23,322 in relationships  3 months ago

Yeah, it's best to confront those person so we know what we did to him/her than just ignoring the same and assuming whatever we like. Because probably we did something wrong that hurt the person and we're not aware of that. Because that was happened to me with my friend. And glad that I'd able to save our friendship.

Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!

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4. ericaldo (38)   3 months ago

I never felt rejected by the the people I love. Because from the beginning through the relationship, I just give love and care unconditionally. So how can I feel angry or sad? If love and affection which I gave without any charges. As God is giving love and affection. Even if until I feel sad, I just accept the situation. Like day and night to accept.


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (476)   ranked 661 out of 23,322 in relationships  3 months ago

Oh, you must have a big heart. It's kinda rare nowadays someone like you who can give love unconditionally. And yeah that's the best thing when you give love without expectation, you'll never get disappointed and hurt. It's like some instances when you say "good morning" and the person just ignore you, some would felt bad because they expect that person to do the same, while you are not affected because you just want to say "good morning."

Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 4,896 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

I have been rejected once with the man i love so dearly. The sad thing is that, i couldnt even fight for it cuz i have his baby inside me. cry
My whole life it makes me feel like the smallest person in the world, like you just arent good enough. The first thing is dont let the person see that it bothers you. Act as if you could care less, even if it really hurts. Everybody is diferent when it comes to getting over things but for me even though i was embarrassed and hurt i had to tell myself he's just one fish in the sea not a lake or pond a whole sea and there are plenty of people out there who will treat me good and appreciate the way i want to be involved with them and love them.


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (476)   ranked 661 out of 23,322 in relationships  3 months ago

Well in your case it must be tough being rejected. Since the person who reject is someone whom you dearly love and having a baby from him to add the pain. Even if I were in your place I would go crazy thinking to get over with it. But yeah we all have different approach in dealing with those difficult situations. And the important thing is we'd able to get through with it and move on with our life.

Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. bluangel628 (115)   ranked 1,533 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

If a person rejects me, even if he or she is the person I care most, I'll respect his/her decision.

I am the type of person who shuns away from a person who voiced out his distaste for my company. I have never wanted to insist myself on someone. Doing so I think is doing that person a great favor. Aside from he or she would be mentally sane when I'm not around, I'm also giving myself a little self-respect in the process. Someday, that person would know my worth. I keep in mind, absence make the heart grow fonder.:-)

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7. myLot reputation of 44/100. jerimiyah (215)   ranked 5,990 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

i will be seclude myself from the world and not eat. i will definitely loose alot of weight and become anorexic. Its not easy to find someone that you really love and care about. It comes once in a lifetime. Finding another wonderful person is a bonus already. il recover from a painful rejection but it will scar me for life.

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8. jeansuan_32 (31)   ranked 14,976 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

well. for sure il be embarassed. how could I ACCEPT his rejection where in fact he is the person i cared so much. probably, i will not appear to him anymore and forget him. well, i believe, time heals....

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. OrangJuice (433)   ranked 6,916 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

It's a kind of intence anguish. Unfortunately, I experienced once. I can remember that evening. We were together, at first we talked well, everything is normal, he embrassed me with his arms. Then suddenly, he told me we were not fit for each other. No matter what I said, he kept his mind. (I knew the reason in a few days.)But it really hurt me deeply. When I went home, I just stepped into my bedroom, cried all the time. I couldn't do anything alone. Even if I was in the office. I went to my friend's home and poured out, while crying. I called my friends even by public phone in the library. But thank my God, He saved me, I became normal in one week. It was really a hard time then!
But my final word to that guy is "thank you". It gave me the experience of being hurt, and loving. It makes my life more various!happy

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10. myLot reputation of 86/100. life8118 (520)   ranked 2,947 out of 23,322 in relationships   3 months ago

I am definitely feel depressed, when rejected and don't know why i been rejected..
but best part is move on in life, if he/she is happy which someone else, better i forgive him/her for his deed and always wish best for that person..
I feel best is to forgive, have positive feel, don't keep grudges and move on...


vishonboard (42)  3 months ago

Now this seems to a very matured approach and a very lovely one, if you have been with some body and feel depressed while rejected there would have been a pain on the other side as well ....

so as you mentioned in your reply that the best way is to move on and wish the person be happy with whoever he/she is with.

cheers to life8118


myLot reputation of 98/100. careguarden (476)   ranked 661 out of 23,322 in relationships  3 months ago

You're right my friend. It can be quite difficult to accept the truth, you know being rejected. But as you said it's not good to hold on grudges and we should move. I agree with you, we should learned to be flexible and accept changes and yeah forgive.

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