who says BREAK-UP LINES(IM BREAKING UP WITH YOU?) girls or boys?

i think there is a tendency to view a man as the one in control of a relationship. so when a relationship ends, man is usually blamed for the closure or end. however, man has no monopoly of the relationship. i think no one should have a monopoly of the relationship. so whoever breaks up with whom, it should be seen as mutual decision. who initiates it can be anyone. it is better to end a relationship than endure an unhappy relationship.

just recently, I had a little conversation with one of my officemates.. We were talking about the same thing.. and he told me, that in all his relationships, he was the one who ended it.. I asked him why, and he said, well, he isn't happy anymore. He asked me if it was a bad thing.. I thought about it.. and well, I guess not..

I mean, if he's not happy, then he should definitely end it.. It's better that way, rather than he take another girl and just juggle both relationships until one finds out about the other.. right? The thing is, it does not matter who ended the relationship, what matters is that you did it in good faith.

well breaking up doesn't subject to whether a girl says or a boy says. . . it just is that whoever feels llike saying it, says it. if the boy is not happy with the relationship and doesn't want unc to continue it, he talks with the girl to be break up or simple dump her. or if the girl feels so, she dumps him. gone are those days when it was always boys dumping girls and girls being silent. now its ex equal on all sides .

Film does not ring a had, it is both to decide whether the relationship should be ended. If the love lasts a long time, it is very hard to speak out the words that you would not like to be together with him.

Most of the times it is true that girls tend to propose the breaking up once she found that love did not exist or her boy friends did not care too much of her. But most the time, it is not from her heart as she just want their bf to pay attention on her otherwise he will lose her. It is a rebellion only. Only if the guy showed his love more, her girls did not mean to break up.

On the other hand, men is not the same. Once he decided to break up, nothing can reverse that. It is horrible that some kind of male dump their girl friends just like removing the browse.

Happy mylotting.

I feel bad for those girls who get dumped by guys. But I would feel more sorry if they continue to pursue the guy even if he is not interested in her anymore. Although I'm a girl, I have my pride and self-respect. I won't go for someone who doesn't want me anymore. Anyway, it wasn't my loss. Sure it's difficult to let go at first, but life has to move on.

I can't blame the guys though. Sometimes, they get tired too. They also have the right to be happy. It hurts in our part, but it would hurt even more if he would lie to you.

I would say, both parties can say it depending on the situation. Because today it doesn't matter anymore who says it as long as it has a valid reason. It is not always the girl dump guys situation because if it is the rule of nature then in every rule there is always an exemption.

i was upset. since my EX is the on who breaks up with me. i remember when he said "I THINK WE SHOULD BREAK UP.. it doesn't mean that i don't love you anymore, things will just get worse if we will continue this." It really hurts. I mean, i didn't expect that we will end our relationship that hes the one who dumped me. hes so brave that to do that and until today i cant move on.